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Ukuvuka kunzima ukwenza ... kwabanye bethu, oko kukuthi. Kum, ezinye iintsasa kubonakala kungenakwenzeka. Hayi ngenxa yezizathu ezoyikisayo njengokuoyika umhla, imvula ngaphandle, okanye ukungalali. Kungenxa yokuba ndiyithanda kakhulu ibhedi yam. Ukulala, ndiyavuma, yinto endiyithandayo. Ukukwazi ukulala kakuhle yinto endiyixabisa ngakumbi.

Kwiinyanga ezininzi ezidlulileyo nangona ndenze utshintsho olukhulu kakhulu kwindlela yokuphila kwaye ndathatha umsebenzi ondivumela ukuba ndibe nethamsanqa (abanye bangatsho) ukusebenza ekhaya. Nangona le nto inokuba ngathi liphupha kuninzi, kum yayilutshintsho olukhulu kwisantya. Kwaye inyani yokuba ndiyayithanda ibhedi yam kakhulu (kwigumbi elincinci lesitudiyo, eligcina indawo yam yokusebenza, nayo) ngokwendalo yayiyinto endifuna ukuyifunda ukuyishiya, kwaye ikhawuleze.

Kwabanye bethu, ukuvuka kunzima ukukwenza ngezinye izizathu ndaye ndacinga ukuba ndiza kwabelana ngamanye amaqhinga endizifundise wona ndincediswa ngamawaka amanqaku, iingcebiso zabahlobo kunye nezinto ezilula endiye ndakwazi ukuzenza. ngempumelelo ngokwam.

Nantsi indlela yam yasekuseni ukuze ndizikhohlise ukuba ndivuke ngovuyo.

Okokuqala nokuphambili, masiyikhuphe endleleni kwaye silungise iwotshi yealam. Kuyavunywa ukuba ndifikelela kwiminyaka apho ndivuka khona ngaphambili kwaye ndinokukwazi ukuyenza ngaphandle kwalo matshini wengxolo woyikekayo, kodwa uninzi lweentsuku ndixhomekeke kulo njengeqhude lam. Ngaphandle kwayo, uninzi lwakusasa lwaluza kudlula ngokudlula kum ngelixa ndandilala ndingazi ngempazamo endandiyenza. Kutheni uvuka into evakala ingathandeki? Kutheni ungazami ukuvusa into evusa inkanuko? Into esenza ukuba sazi kancinci ngento yokuba ubusuku bufikile babuya. Ndiye ndazama umculo ... uninzi lwethu lunee-iPhones ezisingatha ukusebenza kweewotshi zealam kwaye zidlale umculo ngaxeshanye. Kwaye ukuba akunjalo, ubuncinci sinokukhetha ukuseta iwotshi yethu yealam, nokuba yeyomhla kangakanani na, ukudlala unomathotholo endaweni yaloo buzzing yoyikekayo. Isebenze ... umculo undenza ndivuke ngendlela eyahlukileyo, kancinci, kodwa ngcono. Ndiyazi ngakumbi kwaye ndonwabile, xa kuthelekiswa nokuziva ndinomsindo endinokukufumana ngento endikhwaza ngayo endlebeni yam.

Emva koko, iifestile. Ukuba ulala kwigumbi elineefestile ezifumana ilanga ngqo, zama ukulala ungaboni. Ungandivi kakubi, andikuceli ukuba uveze wonke umsebenzi wakho omdaka kubantu ababukeleyo ebusuku. Khawucinge nje ngokuwavula kwakhona ngaphambi kokuba ulale. Kum, indivumela ukuba ndivuke ndikhangele ilanga ngentsasa elandelayo kwaye indincede ukuba usuku lwam luqale ngokufanelekileyo. Qaphela, ukuba uyazi ukuba izakuba yimini yemvula ungakhetha ukugcina iimfama zivaliwe, njengoko imini yemvula inokuba nesiphumo esichaseneyo kwabanye, ndiyazi ukuba iyandenzela.

Sukuyiphepha indawo yakho yokulala ebusuku kunye neqela lezinto ezixineneyo. Yenze ibe ntle kwaye ubeke into enomtsalane kuyo njengoko iya kuba yinto yokuqala oyijongayo kusasa xa ufikelela kwiwotshi yomculo oqale ukuyisebenzisa. Ndigcina i-orchid emfusa ecaleni kwam kunye nenqwaba yeencwadi, i-lotion kunye nekhandlela elibizwa ngokuba yiFlorence nguTocca. Esi sithuba sakho sobuqu ukuze wenze eyona nto ilungele wena nayo.

Zama ikofu kukuma ecaleni. Kwakhona le meko yokusebenza-ekhaya indivumele zonke iintlobo zokutshintsha kwendlela yokuphila kwaye ukwenza ikofu ekhaya yenye yazo. (Uxolo i-Starbucks!) Enye into ethandekayo onokuyijonga phambili kwi-AM livumba lekofu esitsha. Ukuba akukabinayo, thenga umenzi wekofu oneprogramu kuyo ukuze uzibekele ixesha. Ifanele imali, kwaye kuya kufuneka uchithe imizuzu emithathu ulungiselela ebusuku ngaphambi kokuba ulale. Kusasa kuza kwaye waa-la!, uphumelele ukuvuselela impumlo yakho ngendlela efanayo namehlo akho ngeefestile ezivulekileyo kunye neendlebe ngewashi ye-alamu. Emva kokuba ukwazile ukuzikhupha ngokwakho ebhedini ukuhlamba kunye nokutya kuza ngokuzayo.

Ukuhlamba kusasa rhoqo kunceda ukuvuselela nokuvusa iintloko ezileleyo. Ndive amarhe kwaye ndafunda amanqaku malunga nevumba elithile elinceda ukomeleza, kodwa andikaze ndicinge nzulu ngalo ngoku. Ndingumlandeli omkhulu wokuba neemveliso ezininzi zokuhlambela endinokukhetha kuzo kwishawari, ke nika enye yale mizimba yokubuyisela ihlamba isivunguvungu kwaye usazise ukuba uyavuma ukuba iyanceda. Zama iDove Burst Body Wash kwiNectarine & Ginger emhlophe okanye uNivea's Touch of Happiness Body Wash eOrange Blossom & Bamboo.

Okokugqibela, yitya into. Ungaze utye isidlo sakusasa, nokuba utya ibha yamandla kuphela. Nditshintshe ndatya iprotein ekuseni ndibuye umva, kwaye itshintshile indlela endijonga ngayo usuku ngalunye ukuba ibe ngcono. Zama amaqanda, i-tofu scramble okanye i-peanut buttered toast. Zonke ezi zizisombululo ezilula zokugcwalisa isisu esingenanto kunye nokuqala komhla kunyawo lwasekunene.

Ezinye izinto onokucinga ngazo: ukuvula inkqubo yakusasa, ukufunda iphepha, okanye ukumamela unomathotholo kunokuba negalelo kucwangciso olumnandi lwakusasa. Kuba andingomntu wasekuseni, andenzi ngokwaneleyo kodwa ndiyafunga...ndiya kusebenza, ukuba ndiyakwazi. Ndisebenza iintsuku ezininzi zeveki kodwa ayikhe iwele ukuwa ngaphambi kwemini. Ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza okanye ukubaleka kwinto yokuqala akunakuze kube buhlungu kwaye kunokunceda ukuphakamisa izinto ngokukhawuleza.

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