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Umxholo

• 1. Ukubamba umntwana
• 2. Ukubamba umnqamlezo
• 3. Ibhola lebhola
• 4. Ukubamba ecaleni
• Ukuncancisa amawele
• Ukuncancisa amawele akho ngokwahlukeneyo
• Izithuba zokuncancisa amawele
• Ukubanjwa kwebhola kabini
• Ukubamba kwebhedi
• Yise kude

Ushwankathelo

Ukuncancisa kubonakala ngathi akufuneki kube yingqondo.

Ubeka umntwana ebeleni lakho, umntwana uvula umlomo wakhe kwaye amunce. Kodwa kunqabile ukuba kube lula. Ukubamba umntwana wakho ngendlela eyenza ukondla kube lula kubo kwaye kuwe akuthethi ngqo. Ngethamsanqa, uninzi lwabasetyhini abeza phambi kwethu luyifumene.

Ezi ndawo zine zicetyiswayo yiKliniki yaseMayo zezi:

• ubamba ezalwa
• umnqamlezo wokubamba
• ibhola ibambe
• icala lokulala

1. Ukubamba umntwana

Ukubanjwa kokuzalwa kukudala. Yi-OG yokuncancisa ebambe.

Ukwenza oku ubambe kamnandi, kuya kufuneka uhlale esihlalweni esinendawo zokubeka iingalo okanye indawo eneemqamelo ezininzi ukuxhasa iingalo zakho. Iintsana zisenokuba zincinci, kodwa ukuzibamba kwindawo enye ixesha elide kunokuba nzima ezingalweni nasemqolo. Okokuqala, khululeka.

Hlala nkqo, kwaye uxhase intloko yosana lwakho kwingalo yengalo yakho. Umzimba womntwana wakho kufuneka ubekwicala lawo ujike ubhekise kuwe, nengalo yawo yangaphakathi ithe nca ngaphantsi. Bamba usana lwakho emathangeni akho okanye ulubeke phezu komqamelo emathangeni akho, nokuba yeyiphi na efanelekileyo.

2. Ukubamba umnqamlezo

Njengoko unokuxela ngegama, ukubambelela emnqamlezweni kufana nokubanjwa komntwana, kuwele kuphela. Oko kuthetha ukuba endaweni yokuphumla intloko yosana lwakho kwintonga yengalo yakho, uxhasa ezantsi kwabo.

Hlala nkqo ubambe usana lwakho ukuze amazantsi abo abe kwintonga yengalo yakho kwaye intloko yabo isesibeleni ofuna ukubasondeza kuso (ibele elijongene necala lengalo elixhasayo).

Uyakubamba iintloko zabo ngesandla sengalo exhasayo, kwakhona, uqiniseke ukuba uneendawo zokubeka iingalo okanye imiqamelo kubalulekile. Ingalo yakho yasimahla iya kusetyenziselwa ukubamba ibele lakho lokuncancisa langaphantsi kwisithuba esenza ukuba kube lula ukuba umntwana wakho abambelele.

3. Ibhola lebhola

Kwisihlalo esineendawo zokubamba iingalo okanye usebenzisa imiqamelo exhasayo, bamba usana lwakho ecaleni kwakho ngengalo yakho egobile kwaye intende yakho ijonge phezulu, ngokufanayo nendlela owawuyibamba ngayo ibhola xa ubalekayo. Umqolo womntwana wakho uya kuba kwingalo yakho kwaye iintloko zabo ziya kuba sesandleni sakho.

Sebenzisa eso sandla sixhasayo ukuzisa umntwana ebeleni kwaye, ukuba ungathanda, esinye isandla ukubamba ibele lingaphantsi.

4. Ukubamba ecaleni

Kunqabile ukuba ungadibanisa ukuba ngumzali kunye nokulala phantsi, ke ngoko yisebenzise ngalo lonke ixesha unako. Oku kukubambelela okukhulu ekusebenziseni xa udinwe ngokwenene. Lonto iyakuhlala ilixesha.

Kule nto ubambe, lala ngecala kwaye ubambe umntwana wakho ngokuchasene nawe. Ngengalo yakho yasimahla, yizise umntwana wakho ebeleni. Nje ukuba umntwana afike, ungasebenzisa ingalo yakho yasimahla ukubaxhasa ngelixa enye ingalo yakho ibambe umqamelo uyibambe phantsi kwentloko yakho eleleyo.

Ukuncancisa amawele

Ukuba ukuqonda ubugcisa bokuncelisa kunokuba ngumceli mngeni kusana olunye usana, kunokuba yinto enzima ngokuphindwe kabini kunokubini. Kodwa oomama bamawele banokwenza ukondla kungalawuleki kuphela, kodwa bekhululekile kwaye bephumelele.

Nazi ezinye zezinto ekufuneka uyazi malunga nokuncancisa amawele akho, kunye nezikhundla ezimbalwa ukugcina wonke umntu ekhululekile.

Ukuncancisa amawele akho ngokwahlukeneyo

Njengoko uqala ngokuncancisa amawele, kungcono uncancise iwele ngalinye ngokwahlukeneyo. Ngale ndlela, ungagxila kwindlela umntwana ngamnye angena ngayo kunye nokondla.

Ikliniki yaseMayo icebisa ukulandelela imikhwa yokondla yeentsana zakho ngokurekhoda ukuba umongikazi ngamnye uza kuthatha ixesha elingakanani kwaye kaninzi kangakanani, kunye nokugcina inani lamanabukeni amanzi nayimbumba. Kubisi olumpontshisiweyo, landela ukuba umntwana ngamnye uthatha luphi na ukondla.

Njengoko uqhela ukuncancisa iintsana zakho, unokuzama ukuzincancisa zombini ngaxeshanye. Abanye oomama, eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokugcina ixesha. Abanye bafumanisa ukuba abantwana babo bakhetha ukuba ngabongikazi ngokukodwa, kwaye kulungile, nako.

Unokuzama ukuncancisa abantwana bakho ngokukodwa emini, kwaye bobabini ngexesha elinye ebusuku. Khumbula, akukho ndlela iphosakeleyo yokuncancisa amawele akho, ukuba nje zombini iintsana ziyachuma kwaye ukhululekile.

Izithuba zokuncancisa amawele

Ukuba ungathanda ukuzama ukuncancisa amawele akho ngaxeshanye, Nazi izikhundla ezimbalwa ekufuneka uziqwalasele. Into ebalulekileyo kukufumana indawo ekulungeleyo kwaye ivumela abantwana bakho ukuba babambeke kakuhle.

Ukubanjwa kwebhola kabini

Beka umqamelo kumacala omabini omzimba wakho nangapha kwethanga lakho. Tuck usana ngalunye emacaleni akho, kwimiqamelo, iinyawo zabo zikhomba kude kuwe. Uya kuxhasa umqolo womntwana ngamnye ngeengalo zakho, usebenzisa imiqamelo ukuxhasa iingalo zakho.

Iibhotile zeentsana zakho ziya kungena ngaphakathi kwiindonga zakho, kwaye iintloko zazo ziya kuba kwinqanaba lengono. Bamba umva wentloko yomntwana ngamnye. Unokuzama nokubeka iintsana zakho kwimiqamelo phambi kwakho. Jikela imizimba yabo kuwe, usebenzisa iintende zakho ukuxhasa iintloko zabo.

Ukubamba kwebhedi

Kule ndawo, omnye umntwana ubambene nawe kwindawo yokulala, ngelixa elinye umntwana lichasene nawe kwindawo yokubamba echazwe ngasentla. Olu lukhetho olufanelekileyo ukuba unomntwana omnye onesibambiso esilungileyo (beka olo sana kwindawo yokuzalwa).

Njengoko uqala, kuyanceda ukuba neseti eyongezelelweyo yezandla ukukunceda ufumane yonke loo miqamelo kunye neentsana ezimiyo. Kwaye ukuba olunye usana luthatha ixesha elininzi ukuloba ngokufanelekileyo, zama ukubanamathela kuqala. Emva koko phumla kwaye wonwabe.

Yise kude

Ukusebenzisa enye okanye ngaphezulu kwezi zikhundla zokuncelisa kufuneka kuncede ukwenza ukuncelisa kube lula kwaye kukhululeke kuwe nakumntwana wakho. Ukuba ufuna uncedo ngezikhundla okanye eminye imiba yokuncancisa, unokufumana ulwazi kwi-Intanethi okanye ugqirha wakho wokubelekisa, ugqirha wabantwana, okanye isibhedlele sasekhaya.