Indlela yokwenza umntwana ahlawule

Umxholo

• 1. Iphazili
• 2. ILabyrinths kunye namachaphaza
• 3. Umdlalo weempazamo
• 4. Imidlalo yokukhumbula
• 5. Kumnandi ukuhlela izinto
• 6. Iintsika
• Wenze ntoni umntwana ukuze aqwalasele abazali

Imidlalo yememori, iiphazili, iimpazamo kunye nechess lukhetho lwezinto ezinokuphucula ukujonga kunye nokugxila kwabantwana. Uninzi lwabantwana ngesiqhelo, kwinqanaba elithile lokukhula kwabo, banokufumana kunzima ukugxila kwimisebenzi ethile, enokuthi iphazamise ukukhula kwabo esikolweni. Ke, kubalulekile ukukhuthaza ukuxinaniswa komntwana kwasebusaneni ngokudlala, umzekelo.

Ukungabikho kwengqwalaselo kunokwenzeka ikakhulu xa umntwana ediniwe okanye sele ephambi komabonwakude okanye ikhompyuter ixesha elide, evezwe kukukhuthaza izinto ezahlukeneyo. Ke, ukongeza ekudlaleni, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana abe nexesha elaneleyo lokulala kwiminyaka yakhe, kunye nokuba nokutya okunezondlo kwaye angabinaziphazamiso ekhaya.

1. Iphazili

Iipuzzle zikhuthaza umntwana ukuba ajonge izisombululo ezisengqiqweni kwaye ajonge neenkcukacha ezinokuzincedisa. Ke, umntwana kufuneka ahoye iinkcukacha ezincinci ezikhoyo kwisiqwenga ngasinye ukuze enze iphazili.

2. ILabyrinths kunye namachaphaza

Umdlalo we-maze ukhuthaza umntwana ukuba afune indlela yokuphuma ngokuvakalayo, evuselela kungekuphela nje ukuqiqa, kodwa kunye noxinzelelo. Imidlalo yokudibanisa-amachaphaza ikwakhuthaza ukugxila ngendlela efanayo, njengoko kufuneka ukuba umntwana ajolise ukuze akwazi ukudibanisa amachaphaza ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ngaloo ndlela enze umfanekiso.

Kukho indlela eyaziwa ngokuba yindlela yeGuillour, ejolise ekuvuseleleni ukwenziwa kwemisebenzi ngemigca kunye nemivumbo apho umntwana esenza khona umsebenzi ejonge umfanekiso wesipili, oku kwenza ukuba umntwana afune ukuba noxinzelelo ngakumbi ukwenza lo msebenzi. , ukongeza ekuvuseleleni ubukrelekrele bomhlaba.

3. Umdlalo weempazamo

Imidlalo yeempazamo yenza ukuba umntwana anikele ingqalelo kwimifanekiso emibini okanye nangaphezulu kwaye ajonge umahluko, oku kwenza ukuba umntwana ajolise ngakumbi kunye nokugxila ngakumbi. Kuyathakazelisa ukuba umdlalo udlalwa ubuncinci kabini ngemini ukuze ingqalelo kunye nokugxila kwiinkcukacha kunye numahluko kukhuthazwe ngokufanelekileyo.

4. Imidlalo yokukhumbula

Imidlalo yememori ilungile ekuvuseleleni uxinzelelo lomntwana, njengoko kufanelekile ukuba umntwana anikele ingqalelo kwimifanekiso ukuze azi ukuba imifanekiso, amanani okanye imibala iyafana.

Lo mdlalo unomdla kuba ukongeza ekuvuseleleni ingqalelo yomntwana kunye noxinzelelo, ivumela umntwana ukuba aphuhlise izakhono zentlalo xa umdlalo uqhubeka phakathi kwabantwana ababini okanye nangaphezulu.

5. Kumnandi ukuhlela izinto

Olu hlobo lokudlala lunomdla kuba lwenza umntwana afune ukuhoya ukuze akwazi ukuvelisa kamva. Lo mdlalo unokwenziwa ngokudibanisa izinto emva koko ukhuthaze umntwana ukuba azibeke ngokulandelelana kwazo.

Ukongeza, ungawudlala umdlalo "Ndaya enyangeni ndaza ndathatha ...", apho umntwana kufuneka athethe into kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha esithi "Ndaya enyangeni" ukuthetha into awayeyithethile kwaye enye enye. Umzekelo: "Ndaya enyangeni ndathatha ibhola", emva koko kufanele ukuba kuthiwe "Ndiye enyangeni ndathatha ibhola kunye nemoto", njalo njalo. Oku kuvuselela inkumbulo yomntwana kwaye kumenze anikele ingqalelo kwinto esele ithethiwe.

6. Iintsika

Umdlalo wechess ufuna ukuqiqa okuninzi kunye noxinzelelo, ngenxa yoko, ukhetho lomsebenzi wokunyusa ingqalelo yomntwana. Ukongeza, i-chess ikhuthaza ukukhula kwengqondo kunye nememori, ikhuthaza ubuchule kunye nokukwazi ukusombulula iingxaki.

Wenze ntoni umntwana ukuze aqwalasele abazali

Ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba anikele ingqalelo kwinto ethethwa ngabazali akusoloko kuyinto elula, kodwa kukho iindlela ezithile ezinokunceda, ezinje:

• Ndihleli kwindawo ethuleyo nomntwana, ejonge kuye;
• Thetha uzolile emntwaneni kwaye umjonge emehlweni;
• Xelela umntwana ukuba bafuna benze ntoni ngamafutshane kwaye ngokulula, umzekelo "Sukumbakraza ucango" endaweni yokuthi "Sukumbakraza ucango kuba lungonakala kwaye abamelwane bayakhalaza ngengxolo";
• Nika iiodolo ezithileUmzekelo: "Musa ukubaleka ungene endlwini" endaweni yokuthi "Sukuyenza", xa uyibona ibaleka;
• Bonisa umntwana yintoni umphumo ukuba akawuthobeli lo myalelo, ukuba "isohlwayo" sinyanzelisiwe, kufuneka siphile ixesha elifutshane kwaye sikwazi ukuthobela- "ukuba uyaqhubeka nokubaleka, uya kuhlala imizuzu emi-5 ungathethi namntu". Abantwana akufuneki bathenjiswe kwaye bangazalisekiswa, nokuba "sisohlwayo";
• Mdumise umntwana nanini na xa ethobela umyalelo.

Kuxhomekeke kubudala bomntwana, abazali kufuneka benze i-odolo abafuna ukuba bayilandele.