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Umxholo

• Iingcinga malunga nokuqhutywa kwesini ngamadoda
• Amadoda acinga ngesondo yonke imini
• Amadoda aphulula amalungu esini rhoqo kunabafazi
• Amadoda ahlala ethatha i-2 ukuya kwi-7 imizuzu ukuya kwi-orgasm
• Amadoda avulekile ngakumbi kwisini esingaqhelekanga
• Izibini ezingamadoda athandana nabantu besini esinye abelana ngesondo ngakumbi kunabantu abathandanayo
• Amadoda athandana kancinci kunabafazi
• Ukuqhuba ngesondo kunye nengqondo
• Testosterone
• Ukuphulukana ne-libido
• Imbonakalo

Iimbono zokuqhuba ngokwesini kwendoda

Zininzi izinto ezothusayo ezibonisa amadoda njengoomatshini abathanda isini. Iincwadi, iinkqubo zikamabonwakude, kunye neemovie zihlala zibonisa abalinganiswa kunye neeplani zokucinga ukuba amadoda ayaphambana ngesondo kwaye abantu basetyhini bakhathalele kuphela ukuthandana.

Kodwa ngaba yinyani? Yintoni esiyaziyo malunga nokuqhutywa kwesini ngamadoda?

Iingcinga malunga nokuqhutywa kwesini ngamadoda

Ke zeziphi iingcinga eziqinisekileyo malunga nokuqhutywa kwesini ngamadoda ziyinyani? Amadoda athelekiswa njani nabafazi? Makhe sijonge ezi ntsomi zidumileyo malunga nesini samadoda.

Amadoda acinga ngesondo yonke imini

Uphononongo lwakutsha nje kwiYunivesithi yaseOhio State yabafundi abangaphezu kwama-200 bafumanisa intsomi edumileyo yokuba amadoda acinga ngesondo rhoqo kwimizuzwana esixhenxe. Oko kuya kuthetha iingcinga ezingama-8,000 kwiiyure ezili-16 zokuvuka! Abafana abakwisifundo baxela iingcinga zesondo amaxesha angama-19 ngemini ngokomndilili. Abafazi abancinci kolu phando baxele umndilili weengcinga ezili-10 malunga nokwabelana ngesondo ngosuku.

Ngaba ke amadoda acinga ngesondo ephindwe kabini kunabafazi? Ewe, uphononongo lukwacebise ukuba amadoda acinge ngokutya kwaye alale rhoqo kunabafazi. Kungenzeka ukuba amadoda akhululeke ngakumbi ukucinga ngesondo kunye nokuxela iingcinga zabo. UTerri Fisher, umbhali ophambili kolu phando, ubanga ukuba abantu abachaze ukuba bakhululekile kwisini kwiphepha lemibuzo elalifundwa babesoloko becinga ngesondo rhoqo.

Amadoda aphulula amalungu esini rhoqo kunabafazi

Kwisifundo esenziwe ngo-2009 kubantu abadala abangama-600 eGuangzhou, China, iipesenti ezingama-48.8 zabantu ababhinqileyo kunye neepesenti ezingama-68.7 zamadoda axele ukuba aphulula amalungu esini. Uphononongo lukwacebise ukuba inani elikhulu labantu abadala babenesimo esibi malunga nokuphulula amalungu esini, ngakumbi abantu basetyhini.

Amadoda ahlala ethatha i-2 ukuya kwi-7 imizuzu ukuya kwi-orgasm

UMasters noJohnson, abaphandi ababini ababalulekileyo ngesondo, bacebisa iModeli yesiGaba seSine yokuqonda umjikelo wokuphendula ngesondo:

1. uchulumanco
2. ithafa
3. okanye
4. isisombululo

UMasters noJohnson baqinisekisa ukuba abesilisa nabasetyhini bobabini banamava ezi zigaba ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Kodwa ubude besigaba ngasinye buhluke kakhulu kumntu kumntu. Ukufumanisa ukuba ithatha ixesha elingakanani indoda okanye ibhinqa kwi-orgasm kunzima kuba inqanaba lokonwaba kunye nesigaba sethafa sinokuqala kwimizuzu eliqela okanye kwiiyure ezininzi ngaphambi kokuba umntu afikelele kuvuthondaba.

Amadoda avulekile ngakumbi kwisini esingaqhelekanga

icebisa ukuba amadoda azimisele ngakumbi kunabafazi ukuba babelane ngesondo. Kolu phando, amadoda ama-6 kunye nabafazi abasi-8 beza kumadoda angama-162 kunye nabasetyhini abali-119 kwiklabhu yasebusuku okanye kwikhampasi yasekholejini. Banikezele ngesimemo sesini esingaqhelekanga. Inani eliphezulu kakhulu lamadoda lasamkela isithembiso kunabafazi.

Nangona kunjalo, kwinxalenye yesibini yesifundo esinye esenziwe ngaba baphandi, abafazi babonakala bekulungele ngakumbi ukwamkela izimemo zesini esingaqhelekanga xa bekwindawo ekhuselekileyo. Abasetyhini kunye namadoda baboniswe imifanekiso yabantu abaphetheyo kwaye babuza ukuba bayavuma okanye hayi ukuba bayavuma ukulala ngesondo. Umahluko ngokwesini kwiimpendulo wanyamalala xa abasetyhini beziva ngathi bakwimeko ekhuselekileyo.

Umahluko phakathi kwezi zifundo zibini ucebisa ukuba izinto zenkcubeko ezinje ngemikhwa yentlalo zinokuba nefuthe elikhulu kwindlela amadoda nabafazi abafuna ngayo ubudlelwane bezesondo.

Izibini ezingamadoda athandana nabantu besini esinye abelana ngesondo ngakumbi kunabantu abathandanayo

Le ntsomi kunzima ukungqina okanye ukuyilahla. Amadoda angamaGay kunye nabasetyhini abathandanayo banamava ohlukeneyo ngokwesondo njengamadoda nabafazi abathandanayo. Amadoda angama-gay angatshatanga ahlala kwiidolophu ezisezidolophini anedumela lokuba nenani elithile lamaqabane. Kodwa amadoda angama-gay azibandakanya kuzo zonke iintlobo zobudlelwane.

Izibini ezithandanayo zingaba neenkcazo ezahlukeneyo malunga nokuba "isini" sithetha ntoni kubo. Abanye abantu abathandanayo abathandanayo basebenzisa iithoyi zesini ukuze babelane ngesondo. Abanye abantu abathandanayo abathandanayo abathandanayo bajonga ukuba isini kukuziphatha ngendlela efanayo okanye ukuphulula amalungu esini.

Amadoda athandana kancinci kunabafazi

Njengoko kucetyisiwe nguMzekelo kaMasters noJohnson weSigaba seSine, ukonwaba ngokwesondo kwahlukile kuye wonke umntu. Imithombo yokuvuka inokwahluka kakhulu kumntu kumntu. Imilinganiselo yokuziphatha ngokwesondo kunye neetaboo zihlala zibumba indlela amadoda nabasetyhini abanamava ngayo ngokwesondo kwaye banokuba nefuthe kwindlela abayichaza ngayo kuphando. Oku kwenza ukuba kube nzima ukungqina ngokwenzululwazi ukuba ngamadoda azikho tyekeleni ekuthandeni inkanuko yothando.

Ukuqhuba ngesondo kunye nengqondo

Ukuqhuba ngesondo kuhlala kuchazwa njenge-libido. Akukho mlinganiso wamanani we-libido. Endaweni yokuba ukuqhuba ngesondo kuqondwe ngokwemigaqo efanelekileyo. Umzekelo, i-libido ephantsi ithetha ukuba inciphile umdla okanye umnqweno ngesondo.

I-libido yamadoda ihlala kwiindawo ezimbini zobuchopho: i-cortex yecerebral kunye ne-limbic system. Ezi ndawo zengqondo zibalulekile kwi-sex drive yendoda kunye nokusebenza. Kubaluleke kakhulu, enyanisweni, ukuba indoda ibe ne-orgasm ngokucinga nje okanye ngokuphupha malunga namava ezesondo.

I-cerebral cortex yinto engwevu eyenza umaleko ongaphandle wengqondo. Yinxalenye yengqondo yakho enoxanduva lwemisebenzi ephezulu njengokucwangcisa nokucinga. Oku kubandakanya ukucinga ngesondo. Xa uvuswa, imiqondiso evela kwi-cortex yecerebral inokusebenzisana namanye amalungu engqondo kunye nemithambo-luvo. Eminye yale mithambo ikhawulezisa ukubetha kwentliziyo yakho kunye nokuhamba kwegazi ukuya kwilungu lakho lobuni. Zikwabonisa inkqubo eyenza ulwakhiwo.

Inkqubo ye-limbic ibandakanya iinxalenye ezininzi zobuchopho: i-hippocampus, i-hypothalamus kunye ne-amygdala, kunye nezinye. La malungu abandakanyeka kwiimvakalelo, inkuthazo kunye nokuqhutywa kwesondo. Abaphandi bafumanise ukuba ukubukela imifanekiso evusa inkanuko yesondo kwandise imisebenzi kwi-amygdalae yamadoda ngaphezulu kunakwabasetyhini. Nangona kunjalo, zininzi iindawo zobuchopho ezichaphazelekayo ekuphenduleni ngokwesondo, ke oku kufumanisa akuthethi ukuba amadoda avuswa ngokulula kunabafazi.

Testosterone

I-testosterone yeyona hormone inxulumene ngokusondeleyo nokuqhutywa kwesini ngamadoda. Iveliswe ikakhulu kumasende, i-testosterone inendima ebalulekileyo kwiqela lemisebenzi yomzimba, kubandakanya:

• ukukhula kwamalungu obuni besini
• ukukhula kweenwele zomzimba
• ubunzima bethambo kunye nokukhula kwemisipha
• Ukujula kwelizwi xa ufikisa
• ukuveliswa kwesidoda
• ukuveliswa kweeseli ezibomvu zegazi

Amanqanaba asezantsi e testosterone ahlala ebotshelelwe kwi-libido ephantsi. Amanqanaba e-testosterone athambekele ekubeni phezulu kusasa nasezantsi ebusuku. Ngexesha lokuphila kwendoda, amanqanaba ayo e-testosterone aphezulu kakhulu kwiminyaka yakhe yeshumi elivisayo, emva koko athi chu ukuhla.

Ukuphulukana ne-libido

Ukuqhuba ngesondo kunokuncipha ngeminyaka. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ilahleko ye-libido ibotshelelwe kwimeko engaphantsi. Oku kulandelayo kunokubangela ukwehla kwesondo:

Imbonakalo

Ngaba ukuqhuba kwesini esiyindoda kuyahamba? Kumadoda amaninzi, i-libido ayinakuze inyamalale ngokupheleleyo. Uninzi lwamadoda, ngokuqinisekileyo i-libido iya kutshintsha ekuhambeni kwexesha. Indlela owenza ngayo uthando kunye nokonwabela isondo iya kutshintsha ekuhambeni kwexesha kananjalo, kunye nokuhamba rhoqo. Kodwa isondo kunye nokusondelelana kunokuba yinto eyonwabisayo yokuguga.