Ukulila ebuntwaneni

Abantwana bakhala ngezizathu ezininzi. Ukulila kukuphendula ngokweemvakalelo kumava oxinzelelo okanye imeko. Iqondo loxinzelelo lomntwana luxhomekeke kwinqanaba lokukhula komntwana kunye namava adlulileyo. Abantwana bayakhala xa besiva iintlungu, uloyiko, usizi, ukudana, ukudideka, umsindo, kwaye xa bengenako ukuveza iimvakalelo zabo.

Ukulila yimpendulo eqhelekileyo kwiimeko eziphazamisayo umntwana angakwaziyo ukuzisombulula. Xa ubuchule bokumelana nomntwana busetyenzisiwe, ukukhala kuyazenzekela kwaye kuyindalo.

Ixesha elingaphezulu, umntwana ufunda ukuveza iimvakalelo zokudana, umsindo, okanye ukudideka ngaphandle kokukhala. Abazali banokufuna ukuseta izikhokelo zokunceda umntwana ahlakulele isimilo esifanelekileyo.

Mncome umntwana ngokungakhali de kube lixesha nendawo efanelekileyo. Fundisa ezinye iimpendulo kwiimeko ezibandezelayo. Khuthaza abantwana ukuba "basebenzise amagama abo" bachaze into ebacaphukisayo.

Njengoko abantwana bekhula ngakumbi kwizakhono zokujongana nokusombulula iingxaki, baya kulila kancinci. Njengoko bekhula, amakhwenkwe adla ngokulila kancinci kunamantombazana. Uninzi lukholelwa ukuba lo mahluko phakathi kwamakhwenkwe namantombazana yindlela yokufunda.

Umsindo wobushushu awuthandeki kwaye uyaphazamisa isimilo okanye ukudubuleka kweemvakalelo. Zihlala zivela ekuphenduleni kwiimfuno ezingafezekiswanga okanye kwiminqweno. Umsindo kunokwenzeka ukuba kwenzeke kubantwana abancinci okanye kubantwana abangakwaziyo ukuveza iimfuno zabo okanye ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo xa bekhathazekile.

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