Ngaba Ukwabelana ngesondo ngesondo kunezibonelelo?

Umxholo

• Unokuba nakho ukubakho kwi-orgasm
• Kwaye ii-orgasms zangasemva zinokuba namandla
• Abanye basayithatha njenge-taboo, enokwenza ukuba ibenomdla ngakumbi
• Kwaye kunokuba yindlela yokujonga indawo entsha yomzimba wakho
• Isenokuba yindlela yokuphonononga iminqweno yakho yesini
• Kwaye ungenise iithoyi ezintsha zesini kumxube!
• Zonke zinokunceda ekwakheni ukusondelelana ukuba ukunye neqabane
• Kukho izibonelelo zempilo, nazo
• Kwaye ukuba uhlala une-penis-in-vagina, i-anal isusa umngcipheko wokukhulelwa
• Ii-STIs zisenokwenzeka nangona kunjalo, ke thetha neqabane lakho malunga nokwabelana ngesondo okukhuselekileyo
• Konke okuthethileyo, isibonelelo sokwenyani kukuba nakho ukubonisa into oyenzayo-okanye ongayifuniyo
• Isigqibo sesakho nesakho kuphela

Ukuba ubusoloko udlala ngombono wesini ezimpundu kwaye usesocingweni, nazi ezinye zezizathu zokuba uziphose, bum kuqala.

Unokuba nakho ukubakho kwi-orgasm

Uphononongo luka-2010 olupapashwe kwiJenali yoNyango lwezeSondo lufumanise ukuba kwiipesenti ezingama-31 zabasetyhini abavavanyiweyo ababekhe babelana ngesondo ezimpundu ngexesha lokudibana kwabo kwezesondo, iipesenti ezingama-94 zazine-orgasm.

Ezi zezinye zezinto ezintle ezinomdla!

Kwaye ii-orgasms zangasemva zinokuba namandla

Ewe banako! Kungenxa yokuba i-anus igcwele imithambo-luvo emininzi ebuthathaka, ezinye zidibene namalungu angasese. Kwaye akuphelelanga apho!

Kumadoda e-cisgender kunye nakubantu ababelwe amadoda xa kuzalwa, isini esini sangasemva sinokuvuselela iprostate kwaye kukhokelele kwi-orgasm. I-Prostate orgasms inamandla ngokwaneleyo ukuba ithumele amaza obumnandi be-orgasmic ukusuka entloko ukuya kuzwaneni.

Kwabasetyhini be-cisgender kunye nabantu ababelwe ababhinqileyo ngexesha lokuzalwa, isini esineempundu sinokubetha amabala amabini ashushu: indawo ye-G kunye ne-A-spot. Zombini zibekwe eludongeni lobufazi kodwa zinokuvuselelwa ngokungangqalanga ngexesha le-anal.

Njenge Prostate, la mabala anokukwazi ukuvelisa umzimba opheleleyo. Ukuwahlikihla nje ngokuchanekileyo kunokude kukhokelele kwisquirting kwaye le nto ibizwa ngokuba yi "ejaculation yabasetyhini." Ewe Nceda!

Abanye basayithatha njenge-taboo, enokwenza ukuba ibenomdla ngakumbi

Nangona isondo ezimpundu lixhaphake kakhulu kunangaphambili, iseyinto nje eyaneleyo ukuzisa loo nto yobubi enokukhaba inqanaba lakho lokuvuka uye kwigiya eliphezulu.

I-Taboo okanye isondo esinqatshelwe yinto eqhelekileyo yesondo. Umbono nje wokwenza into ebonwa ngathi "ayiqhelekanga" okanye "ayilunganga" inokuba kukujika okukhulu.

Ewe, ukulala ngesondo ezimpundu akukho kwezi zinto, kodwa ukuba ayisiyonto iqhelekileyo kuwe okanye ukhuliswe ngeembono ezithile ngesenzo, ngokuqinisekileyo inokuba njalo.

Kwaye kunokuba yindlela yokujonga indawo entsha yomzimba wakho

Awunalo nofifi lokuba uyayonwabela njani indawo yomzimba wakho de uyivavanye. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngesondo kunika imvakalelo eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo kunalo naluphi na olunye uhlobo lwesini.

Ukwahlukana nesiqhelo yindlela efanelekileyo yokugcina izinto ezinomdla kwigumbi lokulala neqabane lakho naxa uhamba wedwa.

Isenokuba yindlela yokuphonononga iminqweno yakho yesini

Ngaba ubambe iminqweno yekinky? Ukuzivulela kumava amatsha kunokukunceda ukuba ube nesibindi ngakumbi.

Kukho into ekhulula ngokwenene malunga nokulawula ulonwabo lwakho.

Ukuphonononga iindlela zangasemva kunokukunika imeko yokubhadula eya kukhokelela kwiindlela ezintsha nezonwabisayo.

Kwaye ungenise iithoyi ezintsha zesini kumxube!

Ukuthetha ngeendlela ezintsha zolonwabo. Izinto zokudlala zokwabelana ngesondo zenza ukuba nabani na abe sezandleni zokufumana okanye zokufumana ukonwaba kwiB-dolophu.

Iithoyi ezenzelwe ukuhlalutya ziyindlela elungileyo yokufumana iinyawo zakho zimanzi kwaye zinconywe ngaphambi kokuba ubuye umva uzele apho.

Ungaqala ngeplagi encinci ye-feeler okanye usebenzise ikhithi yoqeqesho olusebenzayo ukuze usebenze indlela yakho ukuya kwilungu lobudoda okanye i-dildo epheleleyo okanye umtya on-on.

Ukuba nobabini ninomdla wokungena, ninokwabelana ngothando-okoko nje nisebenzisa into eyahlukileyo yokudlala okanye niyenze nococeko ngaphambi kokuba nabelane.

Zonke zinokunceda ekwakheni ukusondelelana ukuba ukunye neqabane

Ayifumani ukusondelelana ngakumbi kunokwabelana ngeekota ezixineneyo neqabane lakho!

Ukwabelana ngesondo ngesondo kufuna unxibelelwano olululo kunye nexesha elininzi elichithwe ukuzama ii-angles ezahlukeneyo kunye nezikhundla ukufumana into evayo kamnandi kuni nobabini.

Yonke le ntetho kunye nokudlala kunokuphakamisa ukusondelelana phakathi kwabantu ababini nge-bazillion.

Kukho izibonelelo zempilo, nazo

Ewe, kukho izibonelelo zempilo ekufuneka zibekho xa kufikwa kulo naluphi na uhlobo lomsebenzi wesondo, kubandakanya:

• isondo lokungena
• ukwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo okanye iimpundu
• ukuphulula amalungu esini

Umsebenzi wesondo unxulunyaniswe:

• umngcipheko ophantsi wesifo sentliziyo, uxinzelelo lwegazi kunye nokubetha
• ukulala ngcono, enezibonelelo zayo ezintle
• amajoni omzimba omeleleyo
• Ukuphulukana nentloko
• yandisa i-libido
• isiqabu sexesheni
• ukonwaba

Ukudibanisa i-derriere yakho inayo nezinye izibonelelo zempilo.

Umzekelo, ukukhuthazwa kweprostate kunokunceda ekuthinteleni nasekunyangeni ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile (ED), i-prostatitis, kunye ne-ejaculation ebuhlungu.

Ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ube ne-orgasm ngexesha le-anal - naluphi na uhlobo lwe-orgasm- zikho ezinye izibonelelo, kubandakanya:

• uxinzelelo
• ukunciphisa ukudumba
• ukunciphisa iintlungu
• ukujikeleza okuphuculweyo
• ulusu olungcono

Kwaye ukuba uhlala une-penis-in-vagina, i-anal isusa umngcipheko wokukhulelwa

Hayi indlela ekumnandi ngayo ukukonwabela ukungena okuvuselela ngokungathandekiyo ngaphandle komngcipheko wokukhulelwa. Oko akuthethi ukuba ungamanga ukhuseleko lomqobo, nangona…

Ii-STIs zisenokwenzeka nangona kunjalo, ke thetha neqabane lakho malunga nokwabelana ngesondo okukhuselekileyo

I-Penis-in-anus (PIA) yokwabelana ngesondo ngokwenyani inobungozi obuphezulu kwizifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo (STIs), ngakumbi kwiqabane elamkelayo. Kungenxa yokuba ulusu oluthambileyo kwi-rectum lincinci kwaye luthambekele ekukrazuleni.

Ngokokulala ngesondo ezimpundu ngowona mngcipheko uphezulu wosulelo lwe-HIV.

Unakho ukufumana nezinye ii-STIs, ezinjengechlamydia, gonorrhea, kunye neherpes. Kukho umngcipheko wokuba ezinye izifo zisasazeke ngokudibana nelindle.

Musa ukwenza obo buso. Sonke siyayazi indawo apho ukuphuma khona poo. Kungokwemvelo kwaye okunye ukunxibelelana nayo, nokuba uyayibona okanye akunjalo, kunokwenzeka.

Ukuzibandakanya ekwabelaneni ngesondo ezikhuselekileyo yeyona ndlela ingcono yokuzikhusela kwi-HIV, ii-STIs, kunye nezinye izifo.

Ukwabelana ngesondo ezimpundu ngokukhuselekileyo, sebenzisa iikhondom okanye olunye ukhuselo oluthintela kunye ne-lube eninzi. Ngokukrakra, awungekhe usebenzise kakhulu emva phaya. Ukungabikho ngokwaneleyo kwe-lube kwandisa umngcipheko weenyembezi zolusu, ezibuhlungu kwaye ziyingozi.

Kwakhona, ungaze uye kwilungu lobudoda okanye kwinto yokudlala ngesondo kwi-anus uye kwilungu lobufazi ungakhange uhlambe kwaye utshintshe iikhondom kuqala.

Awufuni ilindle kunye nezinye iintsholongwane ezivela ngasemva apho zingena kumjelo wakho wokuchama apho kunokubangela ukuphazamiseka okukhulu, kubandakanya nosulelo lwe-urinary tract (UTIs).

Kuyafana ngokuthatha ipeni emlonyeni wakho emva kwe-anal. Ukwenza njalo kungazisa iintsholongwane kunye neentsholongwane emlonyeni wakho.

Konke okuthethileyo, isibonelelo sokwenyani kukuba nakho ukubonisa into oyenzayo-okanye ongayifuniyo

Ukwahluka sisiqholo sobomi kwaye ukhetho oluninzi kwireferensi yakho 'uthando, ngcono. Oku kukunika wena kunye neqabane lakho (ama) lonke olunye uhlobo lokonwaba ukonwabela ukuba kwaye ufuna njani.

Yidibanise nezinto zokudlala uze utshintshisane ngokuba sisiphelo sokupha nokwamkela - nantoni na ekonwabisa ezantsi.

Isigqibo sesakho nesakho kuphela

Impundu yakho, isigqibo sakho. Ukhetha into ovumelana nayo kunye nabani. Ungavumeli iqabane likuxinzelele ekuzameni isondo ezimpundu- okanye naluphi na uhlobo lwesini ngaloo nto - ukuba awuqinisekanga ngokupheleleyo ukuba uyayifuna.

Njengokuba kumnandi njengokuzonwabisa kwe-anal, ayisiyomfuneko yobomi besini obonelisayo, nokuba nidibanisene okanye uwedwa. Zininzi ezinye iindlela zokonwaba ukuba ukhetha ukugcina umnyango wakho wangaphandle uvaliwe.

U-Adrienne Santos-Longhurst ngumbhali ozimeleyo kunye nombhali obhale ngokubanzi kuzo zonke izinto zempilo kunye nendlela yokuphila ngaphezulu kweshumi leminyaka. Xa engakhange ahlanganiswe kwindawo yakhe yokubhala ephanda inqaku okanye evale udliwanondlebe neengcali zempilo, unokufunyanwa edlala ejikeleze idolophu yaselunxwemeni kunye nomyeni kunye nezinja kwi-tow okanye ngokutshiza malunga nechibi elizama ukulawula ibhodi yokuma.