Indlela yokunika iSex enkulu yoMlomo

Umxholo

• 1. Yiba nomdla!
• 2. Yabelanani ngawaphi amagama/amabinzana/izichazi enizithandayo.
• 3. Bonisa (kwaye uxelele) into ekuvuyisayo.
• 4. Vula.
• 5. Sebenzisa i-lube.
• 6. Guqula ubuchule bakho.
• 7. Zisa izandla zakho zokwenza isipele.
• 8. Cinga ngaphaya (er, ngasemva) amalungu esini.
• 9. Dlala ngezikhundla.
• 10. Zama ukuqhula ngamazinyo.
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Kwi ithiyori, isondo somlomo sivakala njengokuvala imvulophu: ukutshica, ukukhotha, ukuphinda. Kodwa, ewe, ukuba awuqapheli, iimvulophu zangasese. Kwaye, ngelixa wonke umntu ufumana indebe yokuthatha inxaxheba kwimizamo yabo, apho ngu into enje ngesondo esibi ngomlomo. (Ewe besitshilo! Ngelixa ulapho, jonga ezinye iingcebiso zesini kwiingcali.)

Ngena, esi sikhokelo somlomo. Apha, uya kufunda indlela yokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo kunye nokufumana i-10 yeengcebiso ezilungileyo zokwabelana ngesondo zomlomo onokuzisebenzisa kubantu baso nasiphi na isini, ngokuthe ngqo kwiingcali. Yonwabele. (Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba wenze nantoni na, qiniseka ukuba uyazi into ejongene ne-STD yomlomo.)

1. Yiba nomdla!

Xa kufikwa ekunikezeleni ngesondo ngomlomo, "intshisakalo ixilonga i-99.9 yepesenti yexesha," utshilo umhlohli wesini kunye nomqeqeshi osondeleyo u-Andre Shakti, umseki we-IAmPoly.net. Khawucinge ngoku: Ngubani ayenzi bafuna iibits zabo zikhothwe / zityibilike / zidliwe / njl. ngathi basisitya kwindawo yokutyela eneenkwenkwezi ezintlanu? Ngokuchanekileyo. Ke, ukuba awunamdla wokuya edolophini, musa. “Ukunika intloko kuba uziva unyanzelekile ukuba ubuze imibuzo yemvume,” utshilo uShakti. (Funda kwakhona: Uyenza njani into yokuba iqabane lakho lingazukuhla kuwe)

Nje ukuba ufumanise ukuba ufuna ukuhla, ngelixa ulapho, kutheni ungalahli iqabane lakho amagama angqinayo? Zama: "Unambitheka kakhulu," okanye "Ndiyayithanda indlela onuka ngayo," okanye "Ndiyakuthanda ukuhla kwi-X yakho."

Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokuba ugxile kubuchule bakho bezesondo zomlomo, kodwa ungabi nazintloni malunga nokuncwina, ukuncwina, ukuhlambalaza, okanye ukukhwaza kunye nokoyika njengoko usiya kuyo. Ayizizo izandi zakho kuphela ezinokuthi zidale ukungcangcazela okumnandi ngokuchasene namasuntswana abo, kodwa "kukwashushu kakhulu ukuva iqabane lakho lingena ekukonwabeleni, kwaye oko kubonisa ukuba bayazonwabisa nabo," utshilo uShakti.

Ngokukodwa kubanini be-vulva, ngubani ( * faka icala-eluntwini eluntwini *) bakhuliswe ukuba bacinge ukuba ulonwabo lwabo alubalulekanga kunamaqabane abo, ezi ngxolo zinokubanceda bazive bekhululekile xa befumana. (Idibeneyo: Ukuba awunakukhathazeka ngokufumana isondo ngomlomo, awuyedwa - Nantsi indlela yokuphumla)

2. Yabelanani ngawaphi amagama/amabinzana/izichazi enizithandayo.

Ngawaphi amagama athanda ukuwasebenzisa kumalungu omzimba? Ngaba abafuni ngokupheleleyo ukuba amalungu abo angasese abhengezwe njenge-pussy umzekelo? "Le yincoko ebalulekileyo onokuthi ube nayo ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho lidlulile okanye lingeyonyani, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abantu be-cisgender babe nayo," utshilo uShakti. Umzekelo, ukuba ufumana amagama athile akhubekisayo, kwaye iqabane lakho lithetha ngesondo somlomo phakathi, kuya kuwonakalisa umoya. (Into eNxulumanayo: Ithetha ukuthini ngenene ukuba luSini okanye isini esingesosesibini)

Kuya kufuneka ujonge ukuba bathanda ukubhekisa njani kwisini somlomo. UShakti uthi: "Ngaba ndingakudla ngaphandle" Kuyafana "ndingakuphephetha" xa kuthelekiswa "ndingakumunca" okanye "Ndifuna ukuba uze nomlomo wam."

Ngelixa ulapho, babuze ukuba zeziphi izichazi abazithandayo ezazisetyenziselwa ukuchaza eminye imizimba yabo. Womelele, unamandla, unamandla? Ithambile, igudile, imnandi? Izihlunu, ziqinile, ziqinile? Awuyi kufuna ukuxelela i-boo yakho iijusi zabo ezivulekileyo xa befuna ukucinga ngazo njengezomeleleyo, izihlunu eziqinileyo. (BTW: Esi sisixhobo esihle ngaphambi kokuthetha okungcolileyo ngombhalo okanye ngomnxeba.)

3. Bonisa (kwaye uxelele) into ekuvuyisayo.

"Ukwabelana ngento eniyonwabeleyo ngelixa nisabelana ngesondo ngomlomo kwixa elidlulileyo kunokunceda ekuthinteleni ekubeni nizive ngathi niyathekelela xa nihlisana," utshilo uShakti. Ewe, kuya kubakho ijiko lokufunda kunye neqabane ngalinye elitsha, kodwa ezi convos zinokukunceda ukuba ukhwele ngokukhawuleza kwaye ufunde indlela yokunika isondo somlomo bayakonwabela. (Idibeneyo: Iindlela ezili-10 zokuPhakamisa uBomi bakho boSondo)

Eminye imibuzo onokuyibuza:

• Ngaba ukhetha ngokubanzi ukukhuthaza ukuvuseleleka ngokuthe ngqo? Ngaba unobuntununtunu?
• Yintoni oyifunayo ukuze uphumle ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo?
• Ngaba ukhe wazama kunye / okanye ukonwabela indawo ye-G okanye ye-P-indawo yokukhuthaza ngelixa ufumana umlomo?
• Ngaba zikhona izinto zokudlala othanda ukuzibandakanya?

Enye inketho: Cela iqabane lakho lizibambe phambi kwakho. Ngaba bayazichukumisa ngaphezulu kwe-hood yabo okanye banxibelelana ngokuthe ngqo? Ngaba basebenzisa imivumbo emide, ephakamayo-kunye-phantsi, okanye intshukumo ethe chatha? Bafaka uxinzelelo olungakanani? Zonke ezi zinto zinokukubonisa ukuba ungazinika njani ezokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo.

Eli ikwalixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba uqaphele imiqondiso yabo yolonwabo. Ngaba iinzwane zabo ziyagoba xa kukho into emnandi? Ngaba imilenze yabo iyathamba? I-arch engasemva? Iinkophe ziyaphaphazela? Uyakufuna ukucula kwezi mpawu xa nguwe eyona ibanika ulonwabo…nto leyo eveza le ngongoma ilandelayo.

4. Vula.

Akukho nto idlula ukunxibelelana ngomlomo. Kwaye ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho aniziva nikhululekile xa ninxibelelana ngomlomo xa into ethile iziva ilungile / imbi / icinyiwe / ibuhlungu / njlnjl. Okwangoku, umzimba weqabane lakho uya kwenza "ukuthetha" kwakhona. (Eyeleleneyo: Yintoni eyaKho-okanye yeqabane lakho-Iingxolo zezesondo zithetha ngokwenene)

"Kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kulwimi lomzimba weqabane lakho," utshilo uCarly S, umfundisi ngesondo kunye ne-Pleasure Chest. "Ngaba bayayityhala intloko yakho? Okanye uyisondeze? Ngaba bayashenxisa isinqe ukutshintsha indawo yomlomo wakho? Ngaba bayayivala imilenze okanye bayisasaza?" Kwiimpendulo zale mibuzo, uya kufumana imikhondo malunga nokuba yintoni engasebenziyo kwaye ayisebenzi. Lungisa ngokufanelekileyo.

5. Sebenzisa i-lube.

Ndiyazi, mhlawumbi uyazibuza: "Kutheni ndingasebenzisa i-lube xa nditshicile ...?" Kulungile, "iyafana umahluko phakathi kokukhotha imilebe yakho kunye nokusebenzisa i-chapstick xa unemilebe eyomileyo; enye isebenza ngcono," utsho uCarly S.

Ukuba unomlomo owomileyo ongapheliyo, "i-aloe vera inokunceda, ke i-lube efana ne-Sliquid Satin (Thenga yona, i-20, ellaparadis.com) ene-aloe kuyo inokuba ngumtshintshi womdlalo, utshilo.

Kwaye, ewe, "phantse zonke iityisi ziyatyiwa kwaye zikhuselekile ukungenisa," kodwa yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukunqanda naziphi na iimveliso ezineglycerin, eyehla iswekile kwaye inokunyusa umngcipheko wokufumana usulelo lwegwele, utshilo. Kwaye khumbula: Akufanele usebenzise i-lube esekwe kwisilicone enento yokudlala yesilicone. Ke ukuba wenza ngomlomo kwi-dildo okanye ubandakanya isidlidlizi okanye iringi yeqhude eyisiSilicone, sebenzisa i-lube esekwe emanzini. (Eyeleleneyo: Eyona Lube igqwesileyo kuyo nayiphi na iSex Scenario)

6. Guqula ubuchule bakho.

I-TBH, ukuba umamele iqabane lakho, uphendule intetho yabo yomlomo kunye nolwimi lomzimba, kwaye uye kuyo ngentshiseko, eyona ndlela yakho yokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo ayinamsebenzi kangako-iqabane lakho sele linethuba elihle. Kodwa ukuba ufuna isikhokelo esincinci malunga nendlela yokunika isondo ngomlomo, ezi ngcebiso zinokukunceda. (BTW, ubusazi ukuba ii-clitorises kunye neepenise ayizizo zonke ezahlukileyo?)

• Zama ukwenza iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo. Khotha unyuke usehle kwingcinga okanye umngxuma wabo ngemivumbo emide, ebanzi; qhwakraza isiphelo solwimi lwakho kwiclit yabo (i-nub ebuthathaka phezulu kwi-vulva) okanye i-frenulum (indawo ebuthathaka apho ijwabu lidibana nomzantsi wepipi); okanye uzame ukuqhuba ulwimi lwakho kwizangqa ezijikeleze iklit okanye intloko yelungu lobudoda. Ukuba iqabane lakho lineklit, ungazama ngobunono kuyo okanye ucofe umlomo wakho kwilungu labo lobufazi. Ukuba iqabane lakho linelungu lobudoda, ungathatha yonke into emlonyeni wakho (kakhulu njengoko ukhululekile) kwaye unyuka kwaye uhle kwi-shaft, okanye ukunika iibhola zabo ingqalelo encinci ngolwimi nomlomo wakho, ngokunjalo.
• Gxila kwiklit.Ukuba iqabane lakho ine vulva kwaye uziva wonganyelwe, ugxile umzamo wakho kwi clit ubhejo elungileyo; ngaphezu kwe-80 ipesenti yabantu abane-clits bafuna ukuvuselela apho kwi-orgasm.
• Vary itempo yakho. Ukuba ukhe wayisebenzisa into yokudlala engcangcazelayo ngaphambili, uyazi ukuba ukuziva isantya esifanayo kunye nokuziva ixesha elide ungaphazanyiswa kunokugqibela ukuyeka ukuziva unomdla. Ngenye indlela itempo yakho kunye noxinzelelo ukugcina imvakalelo yenoveli kwaye uvumele ulonwabo lukhule. Ukuba iqabane lakho liyekile ukuphendula ngentshiseko, kunokuba lixesha lokutshintsha ubuchule. Oko kuthetha, ukuba uziva ukuba iqabane lakho lisondela, kungangcono ukunamathela kule nto uyenzayo ukuze ufikelele kuvuthondaba.

7. Zisa izandla zakho zokwenza isipele.

Xa kuziwa kwindlela yakho yokwenene yokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo, enye yezona zinto zibalaseleyo onokuzenza kukongeza izandla kumxube. “Umlomo wakho nesandla sakho zinokusebenza njengeqela kwaye zifanele zisebenze njengeqela,” utsho ingcaphephe ngesondo eqinisekiswe yibhodi uLanae St. John, umbhali wencwadi ethi Ndifunde: I-Primer yabazali 'yeNtetho'. "Baza kuba nakho ukubonelela ngokonwaba ngaphezu komlomo wakho wedwa."

Ukuba iqabane lakho linomntu obhinqileyo, ucebisa ukuba usebenzise iminwe yakho "ukudlala ujikeleze ngaphandle kwilungu lobufazi kwaye ukuba bayakonwabela ukungena, nokuba bangene kwilungu lobufazi ukongeza ulonwabo." Ngelixa ungaphakathi, unokuzama ukuhambisa iminwe yakho ngaphandle nangaphandle, okanye ngokuxhoma umnwe wakho phezulu kunye nemvakalelo yendawo yabo ye-G. (Ukufumana iingcebiso ezingaphezulu malunga nendlela yokwenza umnwe kumntu, jonga esi sikhokelo sokwabelana ngesondo.)

Ukuba iqabane lakho linelungu lobudoda, ukusebenzisa izandla zakho kunokunceda ukwenza imvakalelo efanayo ukuya ekujuleni komqala - nto leyo ngokupheleleyo *ayiyo* yimfuneko kufellatio oyolisayo. Qala ngokubamba isixa esimnandi se-lube esandleni sakho. Emva koko, "sebenzisa isandla sakho eshafini, ngelixa ujonge umlomo nolwimi entloko nakwi-frenulum [umqolo ongaphantsi kwentloko] yelungu lobudoda, zezona ndawo zibuthathaka," utshilo uSt.

"Ungasebenzisa iminwe yakho ukwenza umsesane weqhude kwisiseko, nto leyo eya kubanceda ukubagcina nzima ukuba bayasokola," wongeza uShakti.

Kwaye ukuba iqabane lakho libotshiwe, u-Shakti uthi unokusonga izandla zakho kwi-dildo kwaye usebenzise uxinzelelo ukuze isiseko se-dildo sivuselele isiduli seqabane lakho okanye i-clit ngaphantsi. (I-FYI, ii-dildos ziluhlobo olunye lokudlala ngokwesondo. Nazi ezinye ezili-11).

8. Cinga ngaphaya (er, ngasemva) amalungu esini.

Kutheni unciphisa i-lick-a-thon yakho ngaphambili komzimba xa kukho ihlabathi lonke lokuzonwabisa-okunokwenzeka 'okujikelezayo? "I-anus ngummandla oxineneyo wemithambo-luvo kubantu babo bonke abantu besini kwaye uyibandakanya kwisenzo ngolwimi, umnwe, ne-lube, okanye iplagi yempundu inokuwonyusa amava," utshilo uShakti. (Jonga: Uphononongwa njani Ukuphulula amalungu esini)

Kubantu abanelungu lobudoda, ukuncamathelisa umnwe kwimpundu (kunye nokuwugobela ngaphambili kumzimba womntu owamkela incanca) kunokunceda ukuvuselela idlala lobudoda. Indawo ye-P yi-bulb yeethishu eyinyani kunenye kunye neebits apho. Abantu abohlukeneyo bakhetha imivumbo eyahlukeneyo, ke kuya kufuneka uzame ukuhambisa umnwe wakho kwicala ukuya kwelinye, ukucofa ngobunono, ukufaka uxinzelelo oluncinci, kunye nokushukumisa umnwe wakho ngokuza apha ukuze ufumane eyona nto ithandwa liqabane lakho. (Okanye zama ukongeza iplagi yempundu.)

Mhlawumbi uvile ukuba ukuhamba ngasemva naphambili phakathi kwe-anus kunye ne-vagina yinto enzulu yo-hayi-hayi kuba ukwazisa ibhaktheriya ukusuka kumnyango wakho ongasemva ukuya phambi kwakho kunokukhokelela kwizifo ezifana ne-bacterial vaginosis. Ngelixa umngcipheko ukhona hayi I-MIA ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo, uCarly S. uphawula ukuba kukho umngcipheko omncinci ohamba ngasemva naphambili phakathi kwe-cunnilingus kunye ne-rimming kunokuba kukho ukuhamba umva naphambili phakathi kwelungu lobufazi kunye nokudlala ngokungena ezimpundu. (Idibeneyo: Ungayilungiselela njani i-Anal sex)

Okwangoku, isicwangciso sakho sokwenza ngaphambi kokuba ubuyele emva, okokuqala, ukubuza-kuba imvume ayinakuxoxwa. Yiba nengxoxo kunye neqabane lakho malunga nokudlala ezimpundu ngaphambili ulwimi lwakho zii-intshi kude nempundu yabo (ngathi, xa unxibe ngokupheleleyo kwaye * hayi * kwigumbi lokulala). Ukuba yinto eninomdla kuyo nobabini, zama enye yale migca xa ilixesha:

• Ndingakhotha phakathi kwezidlele zakho?
• Ndingathanda ukuhlala ndikhotha ezantsi, ulungile ngalonto?
• Ndinedama lamazinyo. Ungaziva njani xa ndisebenzisa yona ngelixa ndikubopha?

9. Dlala ngezikhundla.

"Kumadolo akho" inokuba kukuya kwisikhundla sokulalana ngomlomo. Kodwa kutheni ungazami ii-angles ezintsha? Nantsi enye: "Ngaba iqabane elamkelayo lilele phantsi imilenze ijinga ecaleni kwebhedi, ikhawuntari, okanye itafile. Emva koko, tsala isitulo okanye isitulo, okanye amadolo ukuba uyafuna, kwaye uxakeke," utshilo uSt. UYohane. (Nazi iitoni zezikhundla zesondo onokuthi uzame ngesondo sokungena, nazo.)

Enye inketho: Shintsha indawo kunye neqabane lakho, ukuze wena, njengomphi, ulele ebhedini emqolo wakho. "Lala ngentloko yakho phezu komda webhedi, uvule umlomo, emva koko ube neqabane lakho lijikeleze intloko yakho kwaye lizithobe emlonyeni wakho," ucebisa. Ukuba iqabane lakho linepenisi, oku kunokukunceda uphephe i-gag reflex kuba umqala uvulekile ngokwendalo kwesi sikhundla, utshilo. (Nazi ezinye izimvo malunga nezikhundla ezinkulu zesini somlomo kubanikazi be-vulva.)

Kwaye kunjalo, ungasoloko uzama ukubheka ubuso okanye i-69-ing. (Bona ngakumbi: Yonke into ekufuneka uyazi malunga nePosition 69).

10. Zama ukuqhula ngamazinyo.

Amathuba kukuba okoko nje ubusazi ukuba yintoni into eyabelana ngesondo ngomlomo, uxelelwe ukuba ugqume iichompers zakho ngelixa usenza. Ngokubanzi, yindlela elungileyo yokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo ukusongela imilebe yakho ngamazinyo akho ngelixa ujongene nolusu olubuthathaka. Kodwa (!) "Abanye abantu bathanda ngokwenene imvakalelo yamazinyo ngaphakathi kunye nangaphandle kwezitho zabo zangasese," utsho uCarly S. Uya kufuna ukufumana imvume yeqabane lakho ngaphambi kokuba ubamangalise ngee-nips kumasuntswana abo, kodwa ukuba i-junk yeqabane lakho ngokubanzi ayikho. Ubuthathaka, uxinzelelo oluncinci lwamazinyo lunokuziva lulungile, utshilo.

Amazinyo akho anokusetyenziswa njengokudlala kwimimandla ye-erogenous yeqabane lakho njengamathanga abo, iimpundu, amathambo esinqe kunye nentamo. Ke, ngaphambi kokuba ufike kuMnyhadala woMlomo oyiNtloko, kutheni ungangxoli amathanga eqabane lakho ngokukhotha kunye (nokulunga) ukulunywa luthando? (BTW: Ngaba ubusazi ukuba akufuneki uhlambe amazinyo akho phambi kokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo?)

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