Uxelela njani ukuba umntwana wakho uncancisa ngokwaneleyo

Umxholo

• Ezinye iindlela zokuchonga ngokuncancisayo
• 1. Umntwana ulifumana kakuhle ibele
• 2. Ubunzima bomntwana buyanda
• 3. Iilweyinti ezimanzi ziyatshintshwa amaxesha amane ngemini
• 4. Iidilitha ezingcolileyo zitshintshwa amaxesha ama-3 ngemini

Ukuqinisekisa ukuba ubisi olunikezwa umntwana lwanele, kubalulekile ukuba ukuncancisa ukuya kuthi ga kwiinyanga ezintandathu kwenziwa ngeemfuno, oko kukuthi, ngaphandle kwezithintelo zexesha kwaye nangaphandle kwexesha lokuncancisa, kodwa ubuncinci iinyanga ezisibhozo ukuya kwezili-12 ubudala Amaxesha kwisithuba seeyure ezingama-24.

Xa ezi ngcebiso zilandelwa, akunakulindeleka ukuba umntwana alambe, njengoko eza kondliwa ngokufanelekileyo.

Okwangoku, emva kokuncancisa, umama kufuneka ayazi le miqondiso ilandelayo ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukuncancisa kwakwanele:

• Isandi sokugwinya kosana sasibonakala;
• Usana lubonakala luzolile kwaye lukhululekile emva kokuncancisa;
• Usana luzikhuphele ngaphandle ibele;
• Isifuba siye sakhanya ngokuthamba emva kokuncancisa;
• Ingono iyafana njengoko yayinjalo ngaphambi kokutyisa, ayicaba okanye mhlophe.

Abanye abantu basetyhini banokuxela ukunxanwa, ukozela kunye nokuphumla emva kokuba banike umntwana ubisi, ekwabubungqina obunamandla bokuba ukuncancisa kuyasebenza kwaye umntwana wancanciswa ngokwaneleyo.

Ezinye iindlela zokuchonga ngokuncancisayo

Ukongeza kwiimpawu ezinokuthi ziqwalaselwe kanye emva kokuncancisa, kukho eminye imiqondiso enokujongwa ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye inceda ukwazi ukuba umntwana uncancisa ngokwaneleyo, njenge:

1. Umntwana ulifumana kakuhle ibele

Ukuncamathelisa ibele ngokuchanekileyo kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukondla komntwana, njengoko kuqinisekisa ukuba usana luyakwazi ukuncanca kwaye liginye ubisi ngokukuko kwaye ngaphandle kokubeka umngcipheko engozini. Jonga ukuba umntwana ufanele ukubambeka njani na ngelixa lokuncancisa.

2. Ubunzima bomntwana buyanda

Ngexesha leentsuku ezintathu zokuqala zobomi kuqhelekile ukuba umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa anciphise umzimba, nangona kunjalo emva kosuku lwesi-5 lokuncancisa, xa imveliso yobisi inyuka, usana luya kubuyisa ubunzima obulahlekileyo kwiintsuku ezili-14 kwaye emva kwelo xesha luza kufumana malunga nama-20 Iigrama ezingama-30 ngosuku kwiinyanga ezintathu zokuqala kunye ne-15 ukuya kwi-20 yeegram ngosuku kangangeenyanga ezintathu ukuya kwezintandathu.

3. Iilweyinti ezimanzi ziyatshintshwa amaxesha amane ngemini

Kanye emva kokuzalwa, kwiveki yokuqala, umntwana kufuneka amanzise ilweyile ngomchamo yonke imihla kude kube lusuku lwe-4. Emva kweli xesha, ukusetyenziswa kwamanabukeni ama-4 okanye ama-5 ngosuku kuqikelelwa, ekufanele ukuba kubenzima kwaye kubemanzi, nto leyo ebonisa ukuba ukuncancisa kwanele kwaye nosana lunamanzi awaneleyo.

4. Iidilitha ezingcolileyo zitshintshwa amaxesha ama-3 ngemini

Ilindle ngeentsuku zokuqala emva kokuzalwa, liziphathe njengomchamo, oko kukuthi, usana lune-diap engcolileyo kusuku ngalunye lokuzalwa kude kube lusuku lwe-4, emva koko ilindle litshintsha ukusuka kuluhlaza okanye kumdaka mnyama ukuya kwitoni. utshintshe ubuncinci ama-3 ngamaxesha ngemini, ukongeza kubungakanani obukhulu xa kuthelekiswa neveki yokuqala.