Funda Oku Ukuba Awazi Ukuba Uthetha Njani Nomntu One-Autism

Umxholo

• Okokuqala, masiqale ngeenkcazo
• 1. Yiba nesimilo
• 2. Yiba nomonde
• 3. Mamela ngenyameko
• 4. Nika ingqalelo
• 5. Sifundise - kodwa kakuhle
• Umgca wezantsi

Yiba nomfanekiso ngqondweni wale meko: Umntu one-autism ubona kusondela i-neurotypical ephethe isipaji esikhulu, kwaye uthi, "Kanye xa ndicinga ukuba izinto azinakufumana sipaji!"

Okokuqala, kukho ukungaqondi kakuhle: "Yintoni ekufanele ukuba ithetha ntoni? Awundithandi apha? ” Uphendula into ebubungqina bendlela.

Okwesibini, kukho iinzame zokucacisa ukungaqondani: "Oo, e, bendingathethi… bendithetha ... bekufanele ukuba yipun," umntu one-autistic unikezela, ngokungathandekiyo.

Okwesithathu, kukho ukubonakaliswa kweemvakalelo ze-neurotypical ngenxa yokungaqondakali kakuhle: "Ewe, kunjalo, ucinga ukuba ndenza izinto zibe zibi kakhulu!"

Okwesine, ilinge lesibini lomntu one-autistic ukucacisa: "Nooo… ibiyibhegi yakho ..."

Kwaye, okokugqibela: "Nokuba yintoni, ndimkile apha."

Sisoloko sisiva malunga nendlela yokumazi umntu one-autism kunye nendlela yokubaphatha. Kodwa akukho okuninzi phaya malunga nokuba ungaqala ngaphi xa ungayazi i-autism, indlela yokujongana nokungonwabi kwakho, kunye noko kuthathwa njengokucekisa.

Cinga ngale yokupasa kwakho konke ukubuyela emva kwinqanaba lokuba i-neurotypicals inokunxibelelana njani nathi siphila nge-autism.

Okokuqala, masiqale ngeenkcazo

Aspie: Umntu one-Asperger's syndrome, ekwi-autism spectrum.

Autism: kukuphazamiseka kwemithambo-luvo okubonakaliswa kukuphindaphinda isimilo, ubunzima ekunxibelelaneni, kunye neengxaki zokuseka nokugcina ubudlelwane.

Ukwazisa ngesifo sengqondo Intshukumo malunga nokusasaza ulwazi kunye nokwamkelwa kwabantu kwi-autism spectrum.

Neurotypical: Umntu ongabonisi iipatheni zokucinga okanye indlela yokuziphatha.

Ukunciphisa: Ukuzihlaziya, ukuphinda-phinda ukunyakaza komzimba okwenziwa ngabantu abazenzekelayo ekuphenduleni ekuvuseleleni ngaphezulu okanye kuxinzelelo lweemvakalelo. Ii-‘stim ’eziqhelekileyo ziyangcangcazelisa iintshukumo zokubuyela umva nangaphandle, ukubetha ngesandla, nengalo nomlenze.

1. Yiba nesimilo

Nokuba thina Aspie's sikwenza ukuba ungonwabi kancinci, ububele obuncinci bunokuhamba indlela ende! Singaziphatha ngeendlela ezikudidayo, kodwa ndithembe, nawe uziphethe ngeendlela ezisididayo nathi.

Xa abantu bezama ukuthatha amandla ethu engqondo, kusebenza kuphela ukubonisa ukuthandabuza imeko yethu. Oku kubangela inzondo kwaye siziva sikruqukile kuba ayisenzi nto-umz. "Kutheni le nto ungenakukwazi ukuyenza ngoku xa ubuyenza izolo?"

Iyanyanzela ukuzikhusela kwethu "Ndingu-autistic." Umahluko phakathi kwengqondo ye-autistic kunye ne-neurotypical mkhulu. Kunqande ukubuza ukubanakho kwethu, endaweni yoko ujonge kwithemba nasekuqinisekiseni. Amagqabantshintshi ancomekayo okanye akhuthazayo anokuseka isakhelo sobuhlobo obuhlala buhleli.

2. Yiba nomonde

Asinakusoloko sikuxelela indlela esivakalelwa ngayo, kuba asisoloko sinamagama okuchaza iimvakalelo zethu. Ukuba unomonde kuthi, uya kuba nakho ukuxelela into esiyifunayo ngokukhawuleza, kuba ngekhe wothuke kakhulu, ube nexhala, okanye ucaphuke ngokuzama ukuqonda ukuba yintoni ingxaki.

Umonde uza xa uqaphela ukuba ekuphela kwendlela yokuxelela indlela esivakalelwa ngayo kukusimamela ngononophelo olukhulu, kwaye usibukele ngeentshukumo ezingaqhelekanga ngamaxesha oxinzelelo. Ungazivumeli ukuba uzive uxhalabile okanye ucaphuke xa sibona iimpawu.

Kungcono kuwo onke amaqela ukuba unomonde kwizakhono zethu zonxibelelwano-okanye ukusilela kwayo. Oko kuzisa kumncinci olandelayo ...

3. Mamela ngenyameko

Sisebenzisa unxibelelwano kuphela ekusetyenzisweni kwamagama hayi kubume bobuso obufihlakeleyo, ngenxa yoko sinokungaqondi intsingiselo yamagama owasebenzisayo, ngakumbi iihomophones. Siphinde sidideke kukhetho.

Umzekelo, sinobunzima ngokuhlekisa. Umama wayehlala esithi "Enkosi," xa singakwenzanga oko akuceleyo. Ke ngelinye ixesha ndicoca igumbi lam, waphendula ngo "Enkosi!" Ndaphendula ndathi, "Kodwa ndiyicoca!"

Kulapho ukumamela kwakho kusinceda sobabini. Kuba mhlawumbi uyakuqaphela ukungaqondani ngaphambi kokuba senze, nceda ucacise ukuba uzama ukuthini ukuba iimpendulo zethu azingqinelani nale nto uyithethayo. Umama uyenzile loo nto, kwaye ndafunda ukuba yintoni impoxo kunye nokuba "Enkosi" kuthetha ntoni.

Sinokuyiqonda into eyahlukileyo kuba ukusetyenzwa kweaudiyo yeemvakalelo kuthanda ukuba nokudideka kancinci xa sizama ukuva. Asihlali silungile kwincoko enesidima okanye intetho encinci, ke ukufumana ubuqu kulungile kuninzi lwethu. Siyalonwabela unxibelelwano njengaye wonke umntu.

4. Nika ingqalelo

Ungaqaphela ukuba siqala ukunciphisa. Senza oku xa siba neemvakalelo ezigqithileyo okanye inkuthazo yovakalelo. Ayisoloko imbi, kwaye ayisoloko intle. Injalo.

Uninzi lwabantu abane-autism banamaxhala asemzimbeni ahamba simahla naxa sonwabile, kwaye ukuncipha kunceda ukugcina oko kulawulwa. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba sihamba ngaphezu kwesiqhelo, qhubeka uye usibuze ukuba akukho nto siyifunayo na. Enye ingcebiso eluncedo iya kuba kukucima izibane kunye nayo nayiphi na ingxolo egqithisileyo.

5. Sifundise - kodwa kakuhle

Ngaba siyakukhubekisa? Sixelele. Abantu abane-autism banokufumana ukungaqondani ngendlela yesimbo. Oku kuthintela ukwenziwa kunye nokugcinwa kobudlelwane obuhlala buhleli, kwaye bunokwenza ubomi obunesithukuthezi.

Kithina, ukuhlakulela izakhono zentlalo kubalulekile ekuvaleni umsantsa wokungaqondani. Asizalwanga sinabo obu buchule, kwaye abanye bethu bebengafundiswanga ngokufanelekileyo kwimikhwa yokuziphatha okanye iindlela zokulwa. Ukungazi ukuba izinto ngokwendalo zenza uxhulumaniso lube nzima ngakumbi.

Xa siqhubekeka iindlela zentlalo, sinokuphoswa yinto kwaye ngempazamo sithethe into eza njengesidenge, intsingiselo, okanye ekhubekisayo. Ngaphandle kwezo zikhombisi zengqondo ukukhokela impendulo yethu, sishiywa ngamagama nje, ngamanye amaxesha sisenza amava angathandekiyo e-neurotypical.

Ukubonisa ubunzima obubangelwa koku, zama ukuvala amehlo akho kwixesha elizayo xa umntu ethetha nawe. Iya kukunika umbono wokuba siphulukana kangakanani. Kukholelwa ukuba ngaphezulu kwesiqingatha sonxibelelwano alunamazwi. Ukuba ungumntu one-neurotypical kwincoko, luxanduva lwakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyacaca kwiintsingiselo zakho. Ukusazisa ukuba sikhubekile uza kufumana uxolo kuthi ngokukhawuleza kunokuba wenze ubuso obukhubekisileyo kuthi.

Umgca wezantsi

Abantu be-Neurotypical benza izigqibo ngokusekwe kwimikhwa efihlakeleyo yeemvakalelo ezinikezwe ngabo banabo. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntu othetha naye akenzi njalo, usenokuba uthetha nomntu one-autism.

Ukuziqhelanisa nezi ngcebiso ngalo mzuzu kunokukunceda ukuba ulungele iimeko ezinzima zentlalo xa unxibelelana nomntu one-autism. Bancede kwaye bazicacise ukuba babonakala bedidekile. Ngokukhumbula okwangoku, uya kuziva ukhululekile ukunxibelelana nabantu abakwi-spectrum.

Iklasi ikhutshiwe.

UArianne Garcia ufuna ukuhlala kwihlabathi apho siyavana sonke. Ungumbhali, umculi, kunye nommeli we-autism. Ukwabhloga malunga nokuhlala ne-autism yakhe. Tyelela iwebhusayithi yakhe.