Imidlalo emi-3 elula yokukhulisa ingqondo yomntwana wakho

Umxholo

• 1- Dlala ngomzimba
• 2- Fihla kwaye ufune
• 3- Dlala ngesiciko sepani

Ukudlala kukhuthaza ukukhula komntwana, sisicwangciso-qhinga esihle sokuba abazali bamkele yonke imihla kuba benza ulwalamano olukhulu lweemvakalelo nomntwana kwaye baphucula ukukhula komntwana kunye nokuqonda kwengqondo.

Ukuzivocavoca kunokuba lula njengokufihla kunye nokufuna, kodwa ziluncedo kuba ingqondo yabantwana ivumela ukwenziwa konxibelelwano lwengqondo olutsha, olusisiseko senkqubo yokufunda. Olunye uqeqesho olunceda ukukhula kwengqondo yomntwana zezi:

1- Dlala ngomzimba

Ukudlala ngomzimba kunokwenziwa ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:

• Thatha isandla somntwana;
• Beka isandla sosana kwilungu lomzimba ngelixa usitsho into ayichukumisayo;
• Buyisa umva umdlalo kwaye uchukumise usana njengoko lusitsho icandelo lomzimba elichukumisayo.

Phakathi kweenyanga ezintandathu ukuya kwezisithoba, iintsana zidinga amava okuchukumisa ukuze "zikhule" kwingqondo kwaye zikhule zombini ingqondo nomzimba.

2- Fihla kwaye ufune

Ukudlala ukufihla kunye nokufuna nosana lwakho kwaye uphuhlise ingqondo yakho kufuneka:

• Ukubamba into yokudlala ayithandayo phambi kwakhe;
• Fihla into yokudlala;
• Khuthaza usana ukuba lukhangele into yokudlala ngokubuza imibuzo efana "Iphi into yokudlala? Ngaba isezulwini?" kwaye ujonge phezulu esibhakabhakeni okanye "Okanye ngaba usemhlabeni?" kwaye jonga phantsi;
• Ukubuza "Ngaba into yokudlala isezandleni zam?" kwaye uphendule: "Ewe, ilapha".

Njengokuba umntwana ekhula, uya kukhangela into yokudlala kwakamsinya nje ukuba ayifihle, ke lo mdlalo ngumsebenzi omkhulu wokuvuselela ingqondo yomntwana.

3- Dlala ngesiciko sepani

Umdlalo onesivalo sepani unokwenziwa ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:

• Beka isiciko sepani phantsi, ujonge phantsi, ngento yokudlala ifihlwe phantsi kwayo;
• Yithi "Inye, zimbini, zintathu, umlingo" kwaye ususe isiciko phezulu kwinto yokudlala;
• Fihla ithoyizi kwakhona kwaye uncede umntwana ukuphakamisa isiciko, ephinda "Inye, zimbini, zintathu, umlingo" kwakhona.

Olu vavanyo lukwakhuthaza ukukhula komntwana, kodwa kufuneka lwenziwe kuphela emva kweenyanga ezi-6 ubudala.

Bukela ividiyo ukuze ufunde okwenziwa ngumntwana okwangoku kunye nendlela onokumnceda ngayo ukuba akhule ngokukhawuleza: