Kanye kanye kutheni iSex eHotele imangalisa kakhulu-kunye nendlela yokwenza uninzi lwalo

Umxholo

• 1. Ikubeka kwi "Isikhongozelo"
• 2. Kukuthatha kude neRhoqo yakho
• 3. Entsha Iyabukeka kwaye iyonwabisa
• Uyenza njani iSondo yeHotele nokuba imangalisa ngakumbi
• Ungayikhetha njani ihotele eNkulu yokuHamba ngesondo
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Ukuba uhlala ehotele kunye neqabane, mhlawumbi uyazi ukuba isondo ehotele uziva nje kancinci ... siyonwabisa. Kodwa, kutheni ivakalelwa ngale ndlela? Kutheni le nto iihotele ngokwemvelo ziziva zithandeka?

Kukho amandla kulo lonke uphumlo olungakuncedisi kuphela ukuba uphumle kodwa lukuxhume ngokulula kwiqabane lakho. Nasi kanye isizathu sokuba isondo ehotele siziva sanelisekile-kunye, nendlela yokwenza ngcono nangakumbi.

1. Ikubeka kwi "Isikhongozelo"

Kutheni i-sex yasehotele inomtsalane nje? Kwesinye, sisiqulatho sokwenyani sesondo. Makhe ndikucacisele.

Nanini na xa ndiqala ukufundisa okanye ukwenza unyango okanye iseshoni yokuqeqesha, ndibeka isikhongozeli: ukuthetha malunga nexesha elingakanani kwiseshoni, zithini iinjongo, njl. Njl. Igumbi lakho lehotele sisiqulatho sokwenene sayo nayiphi na into ofuna ukuba yiyo. Ngaba ufuna ukuzisa iithoyi zakho ezintsha zesondo kwaye uzinikele iyure yexesha apho ukuze uphonononge? Kakhulu! Awudli ngokuba nethuba lokubeka uphawu "ungaphazamisi" kwaye ube nokudlala ngokujikelezayo kubomi "bokwenyani". Esi sikhongozeli ngumda wokoqobo kunye nomfuziselo wokugcina izinto ezithile zingaphandle. Abantwana bakho, ii-imeyile ezivela emsebenzini wakho, imisebenzi yasekhaya, kunye neengcinga malunga nobunye ubudlelwane zizinto eziphazamisayo ezinokukugcina ungabikho. Kwaye xa ukhona, unesondo esihle kakhulu. Kwaye kuloo nqaku ...

2. Kukuthatha kude neRhoqo yakho

Ukuba awukwazi ukuyeka ukucinga ngayo yonke imali oyibhatalayo okanye wonke umsebenzi ekufuneka wenziwe, kusenokwenzeka ukuba kunzima ukungena kwisithuba sokufuna ukuvulwa, kungasathethwa ke ngokudlala ujikeleze neqabane lakho .

Kodwa eholideyini? Iphantse yafana nazo zonke ezo nkxalabo zanyibilika kwaye ukho apha nangoku. (Inxulumene: Uzifundisa Njani Ukuphulula amalungu esini- kwaye Kutheni kufuneka)

Esinye sezizathu eziphambili zokuba kutheni uninzi lwabantu luziva luhle kakhulu kwiihotele kungenxa yokuba wahlulwe kuxanduva oluqhelekileyo- kwaye ke uxinzelelo- kubomi bemihla ngemihla obuzisayo. Cinga ngako: ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuziva uvuliwe xa usebenze usuku olupheleleyo, upheke isidlo sangokuhlwa, usebenza, kwaye mhlawumbi unakekela abantwana Uninzi lwexesha, ubomi bemihla ngemihla abunyanzelekanga ukuba bukhwaze enomtsalane.

Kwaye eyona nto, uxinzelelo luhlobo lotshaba lobomi bakho bobulili; uphando lubonisa ukuba iihomoni zoxinzelelo, ezifana ne-cortisol, zinxulunyaniswa nokulahlekelwa kwi-libido, okwenza kube nzima kuwe ukuphumla kunye ne-orgasm.

Ukuba ehotele kunye nomthandi wakho kude nezixhala zemihla ngemihla kunokuziva kukhulula kwaye kunika umdla. Emva koko, yongeza kwinto yokuba xa uhlala ehotele, uhlala ukwiholide ethile, nto leyo ethetha ukuba uziva unyanzelekile ukuba unxibe ezona mpahla zakho zintle, uye kwiindawo zokutyela ezintle, usele ngakumbi (amanzi kwaye utywala) rhoqo imini yonke, njl. zonke zenza ulungiselelo oluphambili lwexesha le-sexy.

3. Entsha Iyabukeka kwaye iyonwabisa

Abantu bayayithanda inkqubo yesiqhelo. Umbono wokwazi ukuba ulindele ntoni, nini ukuyilindela, kunye noku-odola izinto. Kodwa ukungakhathali kuyaxatyiswa nako, imincili yokuxuba izinto-kukulingana okuthe tye. Kwaye xa kuziwa kwisondo, ngokukodwa, indawo entsha kodwa ekhululekile inokusebenza ukudala iimvakalelo ezongezelelweyo zokonwaba. Kuba ukwindawo entsha, unokuziva uphonononga - nokuba ukuhlola kuthetha nje ukuba neentlobano zesini rhoqo kunokuba uqhele ukwenza. Xa uzama izinto ezintsha, ingqondo yakho inokukhulisa ngokwenyani iindlela ezintsha ze-neural, uthotho lweemithambo ezixhumeneyo apho ukuhamba kombane kuhamba emzimbeni (ngokusisiseko oohola bendlela kwingqondo yethu). Xa usenza oku, uyazivulela ngokwakho ukuba ufuna amava ahlukeneyo. Kwaye xa usenza ezi zinto zintsha, ingqondo yakho ikhupha imichiza eyongezelelweyo njenge-dopamine, i-neurotransmitter ebandakanyeka kulonwabo, inkuthazo, ukufunda kunye nenkumbulo.

Ibhedi entsha, isingqengqelo esitsha, ishawa entsha, ibhalkhoni entsha - intsha iziva imnandi, kwaye ukuba namava amatsha kunye neqabane lakho kunokuziva kunene. Kwaye ukuba ucinga ngokwakho "Andizithandi izinto ezintsha," usenakho ukusiqonda isidingo sokwenza utshintsho kwinkqubo yesiqhelo. Kufuneka ngamaxesha athile ubekhona kwiindawo ezintsha kunye nobudlelwane bakho (zombini ngokwesini hayi!). Xa uzama izinto ezintsha, unokuxhamla ngeendlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, njengokuzazi ngcono, ukudala iindlela ze-neural ukoyisa uloyiko, kunye nokuvuselela ubuchule. (Idibeneyo: Uba njani uBuchule obungakumbi-ngakumbi, Zonke iiPerks ezinazo kuBongo bakho)

Ezi zinto zihamba ngabom zongeza i-jolt encinci yobomi kubudlelwane bakho - zikhumbuza ukuba uchithe umgangatho, ixesha elilodwa kunye kunye, splurge kancinane ukuba unako, kwaye uyonwabele inkampani yomnye nomnye. Ngamanye amaxesha kubomi bemihla ngemihla, inyani ebuhlungu yile, kunzima ukuyeka yonke into iqhubeke ukwamkela ngokupheleleyo oku kwaye ubone iqabane lakho lithandana kunye nezesondo.

Uyenza njani iSondo yeHotele nokuba imangalisa ngakumbi

Izinto zokuqala kuqala, xa uthetha ngamagumbi ehotele, ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho lixhalabile ngeenjongo zococeko lokwabelana ngesondo kwindawo ethile, lala phantsi itawuli! Okanye, hamba ngeFuxPad (Yithenge, $ 185, fuxpads.com) okanye iLiberator Fascinator Phosa (Yithenge, $ 120, amazon.com) kunye nawe nje ngesondo (kuvakala ngathi kuyaphambana, kodwa kufanelekile).

Kwaye ukuba unexhala malunga nesandi, zama umatshini wesandi ophathwayo (Thenga, $28, amazon.com). (Ndihamba nenye kwaye ndiyisebenzisa xa ndibona abathengi nam.)

Ukuba uhlala kufutshane nomgangatho ophezulu kwihotele ende kakhulu, kunokuba mnandi kakhulu ukuba neentlobano zesini xa ujonge ngaphandle kwefestile. Andithethi nje ngokungena kwilungu lobufazi- ungasebenzisa iithoyi, wenze ngomlomo-uyayibiza ngegama! Ukubona iimbono naphi na apho uhlala khona ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ngamava apholileyo ngokwenene kwaye kunokukunceda uhlale ukhona. Ukuba ukhathazekile malunga nokuvezwa okungamanyala (ilizwe ngalinye linemithetho eyahlukeneyo; jonga eyakho apha), gcina izambatho zehotele zivuliwe.

Zibuze, "yintoni eya kuziva yahlukile kunasekhaya?" Oku kunokunceda ukukhulisa ubuchule bakho. Umzekelo, ukuba wena neqabane lakho ninabantwana, ninokulala ngesondo kwigumbi lakho lokulala, ebhedini yakho. Ke, ungazama isondo le-sofa, isondo somgangatho, isondo se-balcony, isondo eludongeni, isini seshawa, i-counter sex, isondo sesitulo - nantoni na eziva ihenda, entsha, kunye neyahlukileyo.

Ungayikhetha njani ihotele eNkulu yokuHamba ngesondo

Xa ukhetha ihotele xa udibana, cinga ngohlobo lwe-vibe oyifunayo. Nokuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba "ewe" ngokukhwaza kwindawo entle ngamashiti apholileyo kunye neengubo ezirhabaxa, kusafuneka ucinge malunga nokuba ufuna ukudlala umdlalo (jonga iRoxbury Motel kwiiCatskill eNew York) W Ihotele ePunta de Mita eMexico), umoya ococekileyo nothando (cinga: IMontage eDeer Valley, eUtah).

Ukundwendwela iindawo zembali ezijike zaba ziindawo zokuphumla ezinobunewunewu ezifana ne-Hutton Brickyards kunokunceda ukudala imeko apho ufuna ukuba nobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nokuba nomdla kunye neqabane lakho. Kukho into malunga nokuntywiliselwa kumxholo (kwimeko yeHutton Brickyards, kumzi mveliso wezitena wefektri) onokwenza imvakalelo yefantasy yomelele ngakumbi. Ukuqwalaselwa kweenkcukacha kwindawo efana ne-Hutton Brickyards kwenza ukuba ungacingi kakhulu. Oku ke kuvumela ukuba ingqondo yakho ikhululeke kwaye ivulekele kwezinye izinto-izinto ezithandekayo. (Idibeneyo: Iindawo zokuHlala eziBalaseleyo kwiiBini eMelika)

Jonga kumagumbi, kwaye uqiniseke ukuba akwindawo oya kuziva ukhululekile kwaye unenkanuko. Umzekelo, ehotele i-Dylan eWoodstock, eNew York, baneendawo zokulala ebusuku ezithi nkxu phantsi komphetho webhedi, zenze ukuba ungaboni ukuba kukweliphi ibhedi yakho xa sele ulele. Masithembeke: Indawo yakho yasebusuku ihlala igcwele uburhabaxa, kunye nefowuni yakho ihlala ihleli apho ihlawulisa xa ilixesha lokulala. Ngaphandle kweendawo zokuma ebusuku, ivakalelwa ngokungathi ngamava "angabonakaliyo ngaphandle kwengqondo", ekunceda ukuba uhlale ubekhona nangaliphi na amava ezesondo apho.

Khangela amagumbi okuhlambela nawo - anokuba yeyona ndawo ifanelekileyo yokwabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kwebhedi okanye (ngokoqobo) umdlalo wangaphambili onomphunga. Cinga ngeHotele iDelamar eConnecticut, eneshawa ezimangalisayo ezilingana ezimbini dibanisa ibhafu yokufunxa. Phuma ngaphandle kwaye usongele enye yeengubo zabo zokuncoma - kuphela ukuyikhupha.

Endikucebisayo kubaxumi bam (kwaye ndizame ukuziqhelanisa) nokuthatha ikota nganye kunye ne (ama) qabane lakho - kuzo zonke ezi zizathu zingasentla. Ukwabelana ngesondo ehotele kukunika ithuba kunye nemfihlo yokwenza izinto ngendlela ongaziva ungakhululekanga ngayo ekhaya, kodwa ungabinalo nethuba lokwenza ekhaya. Ke, yilandeleni emva kweentsana! (Kwaye ungalibali ukuzisa i-lube yakho!)

URachel Wright, MA, LM.FT, (yena) ngugqirha wezengqondo onelayisensi, utitshala wezesondo kunye nengcali kwezonxibelelwano eseNew York City. Usisithethi esinamava, umququzeleli weqela, kunye nombhali. Usebenze namawakawaka abantu kwihlabathi liphela ukubanceda ukuba bakhale kancinci kwaye bajike ngakumbi.

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