UKristen Bell kunye noDax Shepard 'Balinde Ukunuka' Ngaphambi Kokuhlamba Iintombi Zabo

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Kwiveki enye emva ko-Ashton Kutcher kunye noMila Kunis baye kwintsholongwane ngokubonisa ukuba bahlamba abantwana babo kuphela, intombi eneminyaka engama-6 ubudala uWyatt kunye nonyana oneminyaka engama-4 ubudala uDimitri, xa bebonakala bengcolile, abanye abazali abadumileyo, uKristen Bell kunye UDax Shepard, ngoku ulinganisa kwincoko yococeko. (Eyeleleneyo: UKristen Bell Watyhila Ngochulumanco Indlela Yena kunye noDax Shepard abalwenza ngayo uninzi loNyango)

Ngexesha lokubonakala kwangoLwesibini nge Umbono, UBell noShepard, abangabazali kwiintombi uLincoln, 8, noDelta, 6, bavule malunga nemikhwa yabo yococeko. "Sasihlamba abantwana bethu rhoqo ebusuku phambi kokulala njengesiqhelo," utshilo uShepard. "Ke ngandlela thile baqala ukulala bodwa ngaphandle kwesiqhelo kwaye kwafuneka siqale ukuthi [omnye komnye] ngathi, 'Heyi, wagqibela nini ubahlamba?'

UShepard emva koko wabelana ngolwe-Lwesibini ukuba ngamanye amaxesha, iintsuku ezintlanu okanye ezintandathu ziya kudlula ngaphandle kokuba iintombi zabo zihlanjwe ngaphandle kokunuka. Imizuzwana emva kokwamkelwa kukaShepard, uBell wangena ngaphakathi. Kodwa xa uShepard wayesele eza kuqinisekisa ababukeli ukuba abantwana babo abanuki, uBell wamnqanda. "Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha. Ndingumlandeli omkhulu wokulinda ukunuka," utshilo Umbono. "Nje ukuba ubambe inkungu, yindlela yebhayoloji yokwazisa ukuba kufuneka uyicoce. Kukho iflegi ebomvu. Kuba ngokunyanisekileyo, ziibacteria nje. Kwaye xa sele ufumene ibhaktheriya, kuya kufuneka ufane, 'Ngena ebhafini okanye ishawa. '"

Kwaye, uBell waqinisekisa ukuma kwakhe kunye nenkxaso kaKutcher noKunis, "Andikuthiyanga oko bakwenzayo. Ndilinde ivumba elibi." (Eyeleleneyo: uKristen Bell kunye noMila Kunis bangqina ukuba oomama ngabona baGqibeleleyo be-Multitaskers)

UKutcher noKunis, abatshatileyo ukusukela ngo-2015, bavela kwelikaShepard Ingcali yeZitulo podcast ngasekupheleni kukaJulayi kwaye bathethe ngendlela ababahlamba ngayo abantwana babo emva kokuba isihloko seshawari sivele, ngokutsho Abantu. "Nantsi into: Ukuba ubona ukungcola kubo, bacoce. Ngaphandle koko, akukho sizathu," utshilo uKutcher ngelo xesha.

Nangona abanye benokuthandabuza amaqhinga kaKunis noKutcher, isayensi, nangona kunjalo, iyayixhasa. NgokweAmerican Academy of Dermatology, abantwana abaneminyaka emi-6 ukuya kweli-11 bafuna ukuhlamba kube kanye okanye kabini ngeveki, xa bebonakala bengcolile (umzekelo, ukuba badlale eludakeni), okanye babile kwaye banevumba lomzimba. Ukongeza, i-AAD icebisa ukuba abantwana bahlanjwe emva kokuqubha emanzini, nokuba lichibi, ichibi, umlambo, okanye ulwandle.

Kwishumi elinesibini kunye nabaselula, i-AAD icebisa ukuba bahlambe okanye bahlambe yonke imihla, bahlambe ubuso babo kabini ngemini, kwaye bahlambe okanye bahlambe emva kokuqubha, ukudlala imidlalo okanye ukubila kakhulu.

Njengokungaqhelekanga njengoko imeko kaBell noShepard inokubonakala, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ayiloxesha lokuqala bacela umngeni kwimilinganiselo yobuzali. UBell, owatshata noShepard kwi2013, ngaphambili bavulelwa Ngeveki ngokukhetha amadabi akhe nabantwana. "Ndiyeke imoto yam yafumana igranola kuyo yonke indawo kuba ndinje, 'Ewe, eli lelona xesha ebomini bam apho imoto yam izakugutyungelwa ngegranola,' kwaye ndingayilwela le mihlanu ilandelayo iminyaka okanye ndiyakwazi ukunikezela ndilunge ngayo, kwaye ndikhethe ukuzinikela, utshilo kudliwanondlebe luka-2016. "Yonke into ilula kwimodi yokwamkela."

Kwiminyaka emibini emva koko, uBell noShepard nabo bachaza ukuba kutheni bezama ukusombulula iingxabano zabo phambi kwabantwana babo. "Uyazi, ngokubanzi, abantwana babona abazali babo belwa kwaye emva koko abazali bayilungisa kwigumbi lokulala kwaye kamva balungile, ke umntwana akaze afunde, wehla njani? Ucela uxolo njani?" watsho uShepard Ngeveki ngo 2018. "Ngoko sizama, rhoqo kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ukwenza oko phambi kwabo. Ukuba silwe phambi kwabo, sifuna kwakhona ukwenza phambi kwabo."

Akukho mbuzo wokuba uBell noShepard bathembekile ngokunyanisekileyo kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi. Kwaye ngelixa kusenokubakho izimvo ezingafaniyo kwicala labazali, isibini ngokucacileyo sibonakala sonwabile kunye neziqhelo zabo zemihla ngemihla.

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