Yintoni i-Oedipus Complex?

Umxholo

• Ushwankathelo
• Imvelaphi entsonkothileyo ye-Oedipus
• Iimpawu ezinzima ze-Oedipus
• I-Oedipus kunye ne-Electra complex
• Isisombululo esimbaxa sika-Freud's Oedipus
• Yise kude

Ushwankathelo

Ikwabizwa ngokuba yi-oedipal complex, i-Oedipus complex ligama elisetyenziswe kwizigaba zengqondo zesini zophuhliso ngu-Sigmund Freud. Umbono, owacetyiswa okokuqala nguFreud ngo-1899 kwaye awuzange usetyenziswe ngokusesikweni de kube li-1910, ubhekisa kumtsalane womntwana oyinkwenkwe kumzali wabo wesini esahlukileyo (umama) kunye nomona womzali wabo wesini esifanayo (utata).

Ngokomxholo ophikisanayo, abantwana bajonga umzali wesini esifanayo njengotshaba. Ngokukodwa, inkwenkwe iyaziva isidingo sokukhuphisana noyise ukuze iqwalaselwe ngunina, okanye intombazana iya kukhuphisana nonina ukuze iqwalaselwe nguyise. Ingcamango yokugqibela yabizwa ngokuba yi "Electra complex," ngumfundi owayengumfundi kunye nomnxibelelanisi kaFreud, uCarl Jung.

Impikiswano igxile kwithiyori yokuba umntwana uneemvakalelo zesini ngakumzali. UFreud wayekholelwa ukuba nangona ezi mvakalelo okanye le minqweno icinezelwe okanye ingazi nto, zisenayo impembelelo ebalulekileyo ekukhuleni komntwana.

Imvelaphi entsonkothileyo ye-Oedipus

Ubunzima bathiywa ngegama lika-Oedipus Rex - umlinganiswa kwimidlalo ebuhlungu kaSophocles. Kwimbali, u-Oedipus Rex ngokungazi ubulala uyise aze atshate nonina.

Ngokwengcinga kaFreud, ukukhula kwengqondo kwabantwana ngokwesini kwenzeka kwinqanaba. Inqanaba ngalinye limela ukulungiswa kwe-libido kwindawo eyahlukileyo yomzimba. UFreud wayekholelwa ukuba njengoko ukhula ngokwasemzimbeni, amalungu athile omzimba wakho aba ngumthombo wolonwabo, unxunguphalo, okanye zombini. Namhlanje, la malungu omzimba aqhele ukubizwa ngokuba yimimandla erogenous xa uthetha ngokonwaba ngokwesondo.

Ngokuka-Freud, amanqanaba okuphuhla ngokwesini kubandakanya:

• Ngomlomo. Eli nqanaba lenzeka phakathi kweentsana kunye neenyanga ezili-18. Kubandakanya ukulungiswa emlonyeni, kunye nolonwabo lokuncanca, ukukhotha, ukuhlafuna kunye nokuluma.
• Uhlalutyo. Eli nqanaba livela phakathi kweenyanga ezili-18 kunye neminyaka emithathu ubudala. Ijolise kulonwabo lokupheliswa kwamathumbu kunye nokuphuhlisa imikhwa yoqeqesho lwendlu yangasese esempilweni.
• Ilungu lesini. Eli nqanaba liqala ukusuka kubudala be-3 ukuya kwi-5. Kukholelwa ukuba lelona nqanaba libaluleke kakhulu kuphuhliso lwezesini apho amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana bakhulisa khona endaweni yokutsala kwabo kumzali wesini esahlukileyo.
• Ukubambezeleka. Eli nqanaba livela phakathi kweminyaka emi-5 ukuya kweli-12 ubudala okanye ukufikisa, ngexa apho umntwana ekhula ngokuziva esempilweni kubantu besini esahlukileyo.
• Isini. Eli nqanaba livela kubudala be-12, okanye ukufikisa, ukuya ebudaleni. Ukuvuthwa komdla ophilileyo wesini kwenzeka ngeli xesha njengoko onke amanye amanqanaba adityaniswa engqondweni. Oku kuvumela iimvakalelo zesondo kunye nokuziphatha okunempilo.

NgokukaFreud, iminyaka emihlanu yokuqala yobomi ibalulekile ekwakheni nasekuphuhliseni ubuntu bethu abadala. Ngeli xesha, wayekholelwa ukuba sikhulisa amandla ethu okulawula kunye nokuqondisa iminqweno yethu yesini kwiindlela zokuziphatha ezamkelekileyo ekuhlaleni.

Ngokusekwe kwithiyori yakhe, ubunzima be-Oedipus budlala indima ebalulekileyo kwinqanaba lobudoda, elenzeka phakathi kweminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwe-6 ubudala. Kule nqanaba, i-libido yomntwana ijolise kwi-genitalia.

Iimpawu ezinzima ze-Oedipus

Iimpawu kunye neempawu ze-Oedipus complex azikho ngokwesondo ngokugqithiseleyo - ukuba kunjalo - njengokuba umntu unokucinga ngokusekelwe kule ngcamango ephikisanayo. Imiqondiso ye-Oedipus complex ingaba nobuqili kwaye iquka indlela yokuziphatha engayi kwenza ukuba umzali acinge kabini.

Le ilandelayo yimizekelo enokuba ngumqondiso wobunzima:

• inkwenkwe eyenzayo into kanina kwaye ixelela utata ukuba angamchukumisi
• umntwana onyanzelisa ukulala phakathi kwabazali
• intombazana evakalisa ukuba ifuna ukutshata noyise xa sele ikhulile
• umntwana onethemba lokuba umzali wesini esahlukileyo uyaphuma edolophini ukuze bathathe indawo yabo

I-Oedipus kunye ne-Electra complex

Inkqubo ye-Electra ibizwa ngokuba ngumlingani wesifazane kwi-Oedipus complex. Ngokungafaniyo nobunzima be-Oedipus, obhekisa kubo bobabini abesilisa nabasetyhini, eli gama le-psychoanalytic libhekisa kwabafazi kuphela. Kubandakanya ukuthandwa kwentombi kuyise kunye nekhwele kunina. Kukho into "yomona wobudoda" kwizinto ezintsonkothileyo, apho intombi igxeka umama ngokumhlutha ilungu lobudoda.

Isakhiwo se-Electra sachazwa nguCarl Jung, omnye woovulindlela be-psychoanalysis kunye nalowo wayesebenzisana noFreud. Yayibizwa ngegama lenkolelo yamaGrike ye-Electra. Kwintsomi, u-Electra ucenga umntakwabo ukuba aphindisele ukubulawa kukayise ngokumnceda ukuba abulale umama wakhe kunye nesithandwa sakhe.

Isisombululo esimbaxa sika-Freud's Oedipus

Ngokuka-Freud, umntwana kufuneka oyise ukungqubana kwinqanaba ngalinye lezesondo ukuze akwazi ukuhlakulela iminqweno yesini kunye nokuziphatha. Xa i-Oedipus complex ingasombululwa ngempumelelo ngexesha lesigaba se-phallic, ukulungiswa okungenampilo kunokukhula kwaye kuhlale. Oku kukhokelela ekubeni amakhwenkwe azinze koomama kunye namantombazana azinze kooyise, ebangela ukuba bakhethe amaqabane athandanayo afana nomzali wabo wesini esahlukileyo njengabantu abadala.

Yise kude

Ubunzima be-Oedipus yenye yezona zinto zixutyushwa kakhulu kwaye zigxekwa kwizengqondo. Iingcali ziye, kwaye ziya kuthi gqolo ukubanazo, iimbono ezahlukileyo kunye nezimvo ngobunzima nokuba zikhona okanye azikho.

Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokuziphatha komntwana wakho, thetha nodokotela wezilwanyana okanye ugqirha wezempilo yengqondo.