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• UDemi Moore kunye noAshton Kutcher
• UKim Kardashian kunye noKris Humphries
• USandra Bullock kunye noJese James
• Scarlett Johansson kunye noRyan Reynolds
• J-Lo kunye noMarc Anthony
• UCharlie Sheen kunye noBrooke Mueller
• UArnold Schwarzenegger kunye noMaria Shriver
• Ashlee Simpson kunye noPete Wentz
• I-Courteney Cox kunye noDavid Arquette
• U-Eva Longoria kunye noTony Parker
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Ngamanye amaxesha ibinzana elithi "ulwalamano lodumo" lodwa liyi-oxymoron. Umtshato unzima njengoko unjalo, kodwa phosa kuxinzelelo lwaseHollywood kwaye, kwiimeko ezininzi; sisiresiphi sentlekele esikhuphisana nasiphi na isikripthi semuvi. Ngaphandle kobukhazikhazi be-A-lister yomfanekiso, "Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukungalindeli ukugqibelela," utshilo ugqirha wezengqondo waseBeverly Hills uGqirha Fran Walfish. "Sonke singabantu abaneziphene kwaye kubalulekile ukuyamkela loo nto kwaye siphendule ngeziphoso zethu kunye neempazamo zethu."

Apha, sichitha ubudlelwane obudumileyo obudumileyo obabumuncu kwaye kunokwenzeka ntoni ukubagcina.

UDemi Moore kunye noAshton Kutcher

Ngomahluko weminyaka eli-15 ubudala, izinto ezingathandekiyo zibekwe ngokuchasene nesi sibini samandla kwasekuqaleni. Kodwa bakwazile ukuyenza iminyaka emithandathu, ngaphambi kokuba amarhe okukhohlisa uKutcher ekugqibeleni abeke i-kibosh kwesi sibini sithandanayo saseKabbalah (uMoore wabhengeza ngokusesikweni ukuba wayefaka uqhawulo mtshato ngoNovemba 17).

"Oku kubizwa ngokuba" zii-cougars "okanye ubudlelwane obudala bomfazi-mfana buye banda, kodwa masibe yinyani, akunakulindeleka ukuba bahlale ixesha elide, utshilo uKriger. Ukholelwa ukuba, kwimeko kaKutcher, bekumnandi okwexeshana kodwa xa uchulumanco luphelile, babengenanto ingako abafanayo yokubagcina bevuya kuMtshato oNgcwele.

Ukungathethi, onke amanyathelo abo alandelwe kwaye axelwa kuye nabani na oya kumamela. UMiller uthi: "Ukuba zonke izibini ezakha zaneqhuma endleleni zazinokufakwa kwikhava yamaphephancwadi onke emhlabeni," sonke siza kutyhafiswa. " I-Donaghue iyavuma: "Ndingabaxelela aba babini ukuba bakhumbule malunga nento ebenze bathandana kwasekuqaleni."

UKim Kardashian kunye noKris Humphries

Nge-ping-pong ye-wathi / wathi-eqhubeka kumajelo eendaba kunye nezityholo zokuba yonke into yayiyi-sham, kunzima ukuqonda ukuba yintoni eyonakeleyo kulo mtshato "wenzelwe i-tv" oye wangena ngesisu. ngaphezulu nje kweenyanga ezimbini. "Into ngokwenene kubi ukuba kwenzeke ukuba uphelise lo mtshato ngokukhawuleza, utshilo uTina Tessina, ugqirha wezengqondo osebenza eMzantsi Melika.

Okanye ngaba iikhamera zinokuba netyala? "Inyani yeTV yenza iTV enkulu, hayi ubudlelwane," utshilo uAllison Pescosolido, umseki weDivorce Detox. Ingcaphephe yobudlelwane uLindsay Kriger uyavuma ukuba uKardashian udlala ubomi bakhe ukuze bonke babone kunokuba yinto yokuwa emtshatweni wakhe. "UKim noKris bebexakeke kakhulu besasaza ubudlelwane babo kwi-TV yokwenyani, khange bathathe ixesha lokuqinisekisa ukuba iyasebenza ngokwenyani," utshilo uKriger. "Nangona uKim eyenzile imali njengomboniso wehashe kumabonwakude, kubonakala ngathi akukho mntu umxelele ukuba xa kufikwa kuthando, umanyano lwentsomi" alunakuyalelwa kwi-Gilt. "

UChris Donaghue, umphathi woluhlu olutsha lwe-LOGO Isondo esibi, ineengcebiso ezithile kwi Ukuhlala kunye neKardashian's inkwenkwezi. "Yeka ukuleqa izinto ezikhazimlayo kwaye ubeke ixesha kunye nokusebenza kanzima kuthatha umtshato ukuze usebenze ixesha elide," utshilo. "Umtshato awufani nefashoni-ngexesha elinye kwaye ngaphandle kwelandelayo!" UKardashian kufuneka asebenzise izakhono ezifanayo ezenza ukuba aphumelele kwishishini kubudlelwane bakhe bexesha elizayo, utshilo uKriger. "Ngaphandle kokuzimisela kwabo bobabini ukuxoxisana kwaye banike kwaye bathathe, umtshato awunathemba."

USandra Bullock kunye noJese James

Njengoko eli bali lidlalwa kabuhlungu kwiingxelo zeendaba kwilizwe liphela, USandra Bullock uphumelele ivoti yovelwano kwaye wavuma umkrexezi UYese James waba ngumntu ombi. Umnqa, Icla elingabonakali umdlali ophelileyo waba amehlo ngokwakhe, ebumnyameni ngokupheleleyo ngeendlela zokuqhatha zomyeni wakhe. Kodwa abanye bacinga ukuba kukungalingani kwimisebenzi yabo ethe yakhokelela kulwalamano lwabo. "Ngokubanzi, ndicinga ukuba aba babini babengumdlalo ofanelekileyo, kodwa ndinorhano lokuba umsebenzi wakhe wokunyuka kunye nokuwongwa kwakhe njengokuphumelela kwakhe u-Oscar ekugqibeleni kwamlimaza ubudoda bakhe," utshilo uTessina.

Ngelixa kungekho nanye kwiingcali zethu ezilahla uJames kuxanduva lwakhe lokubangela isiphithiphithi emtshatweni, uDonaghue ucinga ukuba inokuba yimisebenzi kaBullock eyatyhala uJames kude-kunye neengalo zabanye abafazi. "Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba uSandra wahlala njani enxibelelana nomyeni wakhe ngelixa wayehlala engekho ethatha iimuvi." Uyongeza, "Umntu kufuneka abazise ukuba ubudlelwane abuhambi kwi-autopilot, nokuba uxakeke kangakanani." Ngelixa zonke iingcali zethu zivuma, unyango ngokuqinisekileyo lumele uJames, uBrooke Miller, weSoapboxtherapy.com uyathemba ukuba uSandra uyafunda ukuthanda nokuthemba kwakhona. "Ekugqibeleni, uya kuba nako ukuvula intliziyo yakhe kwindoda efuna izinto ezifanayo ezifunayo."

Scarlett Johansson kunye noRyan Reynolds

Abadlali ababini abashushu baseHollywood kwincopho yomsebenzi wabo-kuvakala njengomdlalo ogqibeleleyo, akunjalo? Ayikhawulezi kangako-ezi zimbini bezisingise e-splitsville kwasekuqaleni zitsho iingcali zethu. “Ayothusi into yokuba eyona ndoda iSexiest ePhila kunye neSexiest woman of the Year badibane, kodwa ayisothusi into yokuba baqhawule umtshato emva kweminyaka emibini kuphela,” utshilo uKriger. "Kubonakala ngathi yinto eqhelekileyo eHollywood."

Ngelixa olu qhawulo-mtshato belunobudlelwane ubukhulu becala, aluzange lufike ngaphandle kokusola uluntu. UJohansson wabanga ukuba uRyan "wayekude kakhulu" ngelixa uReynolds wathi uJohansson "wayezimele kakhulu kwaye eneemvakalelo." "Wamkelekile kwinto esiyibiza ngokuba bubomi," utshilo uDonaghue. "Ngaphandle kokuba uceba ukuncama imisebenzi yakho, nobabini ngcono nifunde indlela yokunyamezela umgama, ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho kunye nokuqonda ukuzincama."

J-Lo kunye noMarc Anthony

Imitshato embalwa eye yasilela phantsi kwebhanti nganye kwaye ngezifundo ezifundiweyo, aba bahlobo bakudala bajika abathandi besiLatin babonakala ngathi badalelwe ubomi obonwabileyo kunye. " UJennifer Lopez uphatha ubudlelwane njengomnyango ojikelezayo kwaye kubonakala ngathi uhlala eleqa ukuphakama okufumana ekuqaleni komnye, utshilo uDonaghue.

Kodwa, ngokukaMiller, u-Anthony ubonakala ethwala ityala. "[U-Anthony] wayenomdla ku [Lopez] iminyaka emininzi kwaye wayebukele njengoko efumana uthando kuzo zonke iindawo ezingalunganga. Xa wathi ekugqibeleni waqonda ukuba ulufanelwe luthando kunye nothando, waqonda ukuba ungumntu wokwenene hayi oyintelekelelo, kwaye zawa zonke.

UTessina ucinga ukuba le yayiyimeko yokungqubana kwemisebenzi-kunye ne-ego "s." Akukho lula ukulawula indawo yamandla njenge-J-Lo. Ndikrokrela ukuba indoda eyomeleleyo njengo-Anthony waziva ekhuselekile kuye okwethutyana kodwa ekugqibeleni yajika yangumzabalazo wamandla. "

UCharlie Sheen kunye noBrooke Mueller

Ngelishwa, ligama elinye kuphela eliza engqondweni xa kuziwa kumtshato oqhumayo phakathi UCharlie Sheen kunye nomfazi wesithathu UBrooke Mueller, kunye neziganeko ezithe zenzeka kwisithuba seenyanga ezininzi: Ukwaphuka koololiwe. UMiller uchaza athi: “Xa abantu ababini abakhotyokisiweyo bedibana, baya kuba ngamakhoboka omnye komnye baze benze impazamo ngenxa yothando. "Lithambeka elimtyibilizi wakuba ufumanise ukuba umane utshintshela elinye iziyobisi kwelinye iziyobisi."

Ngelixa uSheen wayekhathazwa ngamahemuhemu okusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi, ukwenza amatheko kunye nokuba likhoboka iminyaka ngaphambi kokuba atshate noBrooke, ukugula ngengqondo kwakubonakala kuyingcambu yale ngxaki yalo mtshato. "Ingcebiso yam ku-Brooke iya kuba kukunika ingqwalaselo engcono kwimpilo yeqabane lakho elilandelayo," utshilo uTessina, "Awungekhe utshate nomntu oza kumsindisa kuye."

UArnold Schwarzenegger kunye noMaria Shriver

Kubonakala ngathi ngumtshato wencwadi yamabali, oqhubeka ngaphezulu kwekota yenkulungwane, de iingxelo ezothusayo zatyhila umlingisi kunye nowayesakuba yiRhuluneli yaseCalifornia UArnold Schwarzenegger Wayenomntwana othandana ngokufihlakeleyo kunye nesicakazana esinexesha elide-kwaye wasigqiba iminyaka elishumi. "Ndicinga ukuba uMaria wachitha iminyaka ejonge iindlela zika-Arnold zokubhinqa ade afumane malunga nokuthandana phantsi kwempumlo yakhe. Leyo yayiyi-deal breaker," kusho uTessina.

UMiller uqikelela ukuba ukugcina loo mfanekiso wemfezeko ixesha elide kube nzima kakhulu ukuwuphatha. "Ukwenza impazamo kuba ungumntu njengoArnold, kodwa emva koko uyigubungele kwaye uqhubeke nobomi bakho njengokuba ingazange yenzeke ekugqibeleni ibangela isiseko sayo yonke into oyimeleyo ukuba inyibilike. Kancinci uyacima kwaye ubudlelwane buyadodobala kwaye oko kugqibelele I-façade iza kuwa phantsi. "

U-Kriger wongeza, "Ngethemba lokuba isivumelwano sakhe se-15 sezigidi zeedola sencwadi siyakunceda ukuthomalalisa iintlungu. ngu Umkhohlisi. "

Ashlee Simpson kunye noPete Wentz

Ngelixa umtshato we "rockstar" ubonakala ngathi unobomi obufutshane ngakumbi kunezinye iinkalo zeshishini lokuzonwabisa, Ashlee Simpson kwaye UPete Wentz Kwakubonakala ngathi wonwabile kwaye uyathandana-de wafaka uqhawulo mtshato kwiminyaka nje emibini emva kokuba nonyana uBronx.

"Ngenxa yokuba" usaziwayo awuthethi ukuba awuyi kuwela kwindawo eqhelekileyo yokuwa emva kokuba nomntwana, "utshilo uMiller. babe nonyana wabo kunye noxanduva, uloyiko kunye nemiceli mngeni yokuba ngabazali kuthathe umthwalo omkhulu kakhulu. "

UDonaghue uziva ukuba le yayiyimeko yokubaleka xa kuhamba ubunzima. "Ukudlala ngothando, ukuhluba impahla kunye nokugqabhuka kweemvakalelo esidlangalaleni akuwenzi umtshato owonwabisayo. Babefanele babeke imida ethile baze bayeke ukwamkela ukuziphatha kobuntwana."

Kwaye nangona umama wayebonakala ephilisa u-Ashlee ngeendlela zakhe ezinzima, kwakungabonakali ngathi kunjalo kuPete. "Esi yayisisibini sepati sokwenyani, esingazange sifihle ngayo. Kodwa xa umntwana efika, intombazana yentombazana uAshlee yakhula ngokukhawuleza kwaye yaqala ukuthatha ubomi ngokungxamisekileyo ngelixa uPete engakhange afike kuloliwe okhulileyo." Xa uloliwe ongumzekeliso wakhupha isikhululo, u-Ashlee wamshiya ngasemva uPete.

I-Courteney Cox kunye noDavid Arquette

Obu budlelwane babonakala ngathi buyakhelwe ukuhlala ixesha elide, nkqu ngokwemigangatho yokubonisa. Inkundla yeCapeeney Cox kwaye UDavid Arquette kungenzeka ukuba badibene kwiseti yebhanyabhanya kodwa akukho mntu wayenokuqikelela ukuba umanyano lwabo lweminyaka elishumi elinanye luya kuphelela ekubeni yi-ofisi yebhokisi. Ngaphandle koko, esi sibini besikhulisa intombazana eneminyaka eyi-7 ubudala uCoco kwaye bade bathi bayiphuhlisa kunye i-TV. "Kubonakala ngathi, kulo lonke ixesha lomtshato, uCourteney wakhula kwaye uDavid wahlala indima yomntwana. Kodwa ngoku ukuba babenomntwana wangempela, uCourteney wagqiba ekubeni akanakuba ngumama kubo bobabini, "ucebisa uMiller.

Ukuba ubukho bakhe kubaphulaphuli bolunye ukhuphiswano lukaDavide Ukudanisa Neenkwenkwezi nawuphi na umqondiso, esi sibini kunokwenzeka ukuba sesinye sezona zinto zithandekayo eHollywood. UMiller uthi: "Inokuba sisiphelo senkqubo yentsapho ebonakala ngendlela ethile, kodwa le nto ayizange ibe sisibini esifuna ukujonga inxalenye."

U-Eva Longoria kunye noTony Parker

Xa umdlali weqonga omtshatileyo watshata imbaleki entle ngokulinganayo, wonke umntu wayezenzela iingcambu. Emva komtshato wasentsomini waseParis, esi sibini sagqiba emva kweminyaka emithathu, "bafuna izinto ezahlukeneyo" kwaye bafaka uqhawulo mtshato. Yintoni ebangela ukuba kube lula? Ukufunyanwa kukaLongoria kwamakhulu emiyalezo engafanelekanga komnye umfazi-kwifowuni kaParker.

"Ndiyayitolika ingxelo yokuba" bafuna izinto ezahlukeneyo "kuthetha ukuba wayefuna ukuba neqabane elinye, ubomi bomtshato kwaye usafuna ukuba ngumdlali, ngaphakathi nangaphandle kweenkundla," uqinisekisa uTessina. UMiller uyavuma. "Wayefuna yonke i-kit-n-caboodle kwaye ngokucacileyo akazange." Ngelixa uLongoria amkela indawo kaNkosikazi Tony Parker, umyeni wakhe wayebonakala ngathi uyazigcina eyedwa. "Xa umntu ephulukana nobuntu bakhe kubudlelwane, eneneni akusekho kubudlelwane," utshilo uMiller. "Iba ngumboniso womntu omnye."

Kodwa, u-Eva osoloko ezithembile wazifunela okungakumbi kwaye waqhubeka nomfana omncinci noshushu. “Inkwenkwe eshushu, entsha yeyona bhendi yoncedo lwentliziyo eyaphukileyo,” utshilo uPescosolido.

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