Umntwana uqala ukuthatha ixesha elingakanani ekhulelwe?

Umxholo

• Ngaba kuqhelekile ukuba ungeva ukuba umntwana ushukuma okwangoku?
• Ungenza ntoni ukuziva ushukuma umntwana
• Ngaba kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuyeka ukuziva usana lushukuma?
• Jonga ukuba umntwana wakho ukhula njani xa uqala ukumva esiswini e: Ukukhula komntwana-iiveki ezili-16 ukhulelwe.

Umfazi okhulelweyo, ngokubanzi, uziva usana luhamba okokuqala esiswini phakathi kwe-16 neye-20 iveki yokumitha, oko kukuthi, ekupheleni kwenyanga yesi-4 okanye kwinyanga yesi-5 yokukhulelwa. Nangona kunjalo, ekukhulelweni kwesibini, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba umama ave usana lushukuma kwangoko, phakathi kokuphela kwenyanga yesithathu kunye nasekuqaleni kwenyanga yesi-4 yokukhulelwa.

Imvakalelo yosana evuselelayo okokuqala inokuthi ifane namaqamza omoya, amabhabhathane abhabha, ukubhukuda kweentlanzi, irhasi, indlala okanye ukurhona esiswini, ngokuka uninzi "loomama bokuqala". Ukusuka kwinyanga yesi-5, phakathi kwe-16 neye-20 yeveki yokukhulelwa, umfazi okhulelweyo uqala ukuziva esiva iimvakalelo rhoqo kwaye ekwazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umntwana uyahamba.

Ngaba kuqhelekile ukuba ungeva ukuba umntwana ushukuma okwangoku?

Ekukhulelweni komntwana wokuqala, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba umama engekaziva okokuqala ukuba ushukuma usana, kuba le yimvakalelo eyahlukileyo neyintsha ngokupheleleyo, edla ngokudideka nerhasi okanye neekram. Yiyo loo nto "owokuqala okhulelweyo" enokumva umntwana evuselela okokuqala kuphela emva kwenyanga yesi-5 yokukhulelwa.

Ukongeza, abasetyhini abakhulelweyo abatyebe kakhulu okanye banamafutha amaninzi esiswini banokuba nobunzima ngakumbi ekuveni usana luhamba okokuqala ngeli xesha, oko kukuthi, phakathi kokuphela kwenyanga yesi-4 kwaye ngenyanga yesi-5 yokukhulelwa .

Ukunciphisa unxunguphalo kunye nokujonga ukuba ngaba umntwana ukhula ngesiqhelo, owasetyhini okhulelweyo kufuneka adibane nengcali yokubelekisa ekhapha ukukhulelwa xa engaziva ukuba umntwana uyahamba emva kweeveki ezingama-22 ekhulelwe, oko kukuthi, inyanga yesi-5 yokukhulelwa. Jonga ukuba umntwana ukhula njani kwiiveki ezingama-22.

Ungenza ntoni ukuziva ushukuma umntwana

Ukuziva ushukuma umntwana, incam enkulu kukuba ulale ngomqolo emva kwesidlo sangokuhlwa, ngaphandle kokuhamba kakhulu, unake umntwana, njengoko uninzi lwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo benika ingxelo yokuba kuqhelekile ukuziva usana ebusuku. Ukuze ukwazi ukuziva umntwana kubalulekile ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo akhululeke ngelixa ehleli kwesi sikhundla.

Ukunyusa amathuba okuziva usana luhamba, umfazi okhulelweyo unokuphakamisa imilenze yakhe, ayigcine iphakame kunesinqe sakhe.

Lala ngomqolo emva kwesidlo sangokuhlwa, ngaphandle kokuhamba

Ukuphakamisa imilenze yakho xa ulele kunganceda

Ngaba kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuyeka ukuziva usana lushukuma?

Kuyenzeka ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo azive usana lushukuma ngokufuthi kwezinye iintsuku okanye ngokufuthi kwezinye, kuxhomekeke kukutya kwakhe, imeko yakhe yengqondo, imisebenzi yakhe yemihla ngemihla okanye inqanaba lokudinwa.

Ke, kubalulekile ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo anikele ingqalelo kwisingqisho somntwana kwaye ukuba ubona ukwehla okukhulu kubungakanani, ngakumbi ukuba kukukhulelwa okuyingozi, kuya kufuneka abonane nengcali yokubelekisa ukukhangela ukuba umntwana ukhula ngokuchanekileyo na.

Jonga ukuba umntwana wakho ukhula njani xa uqala ukumva esiswini e: Ukukhula komntwana-iiveki ezili-16 ukhulelwe.