Esona sizathu sokwenyani awukwazi ukwenza i-Orgasm ngexesha leSex

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I-Orgasms yinto ~*yomlingo*~, kwaye ukuba awunazo, inokuziva imbi kakhulu. Xa ungakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo kunokukushiya uziva ungonelisekanga, kukukhathaza wena kunye neqabane lakho, kwaye, i-ICYMI, unokufumana iibhola eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka (kulungile, i-blue vulva). Ewe, ngokwenene.

Kodwa ukuba uphoswa kwi-O enkulu, awuwedwa. Umthengisi we-SHAPE, uGqr. Logan Levkoff, uthi kuqikelelwa ukuba i-70 pesenti yabasetyhini ayinayo i-orgasms rhoqo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Kwaye ngokutsho koPhando lweSizwe lweMpilo yezeSondo kunye nokuziphatha, kuphela i-64 ipesenti yabasetyhini ababene-orgasm ngexesha lokuhlangana kwabo ngesondo kwamva nje (nokuba yayiyisondo sangasese, isondo somlomo, izinto zezandla, njl.). Kungenxa yoko le nto uninzi lwabasetyhini-malunga neepesenti ze-80, ngokolu phononongo lwase-UK-vuma ukwenza i-orgasm ubuncinci bexesha.

Into kukuba, akukho sidingo sokuyikhohlisa okanye uzive unyanzelekile kwi-orgasm ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Ngapha koko, kokukhona uxinzelelo malunga nokuba ne-orgasm, kuncinci ukuba ubunako.Unokufuna nje uvuselelo lweclitoral (olufuneka ngokuqhelekileyo ukuqinisekisa i-orgasm), utsho uLevkoff. Enye into inokukusebenzela ngaphandle kwesini sangasese (njenge-vibrator okanye isondo ngomlomo), okanye mhlawumbi kukho umba ongabelani ngesondo oza kuhamba nawo (njengoxinzelelo oluphezulu okanye ukungalali). Ukuba unenkathazo yokuphuma ngokupheleleyo, kwaye uzame zonke ezinye iindlela, kukho ithuba lokuba ungomnye we-10 ukuya kwi-15 ekhulwini labasetyhini abane-anorgasmia, ukungakwazi ukufikelela kwi-orgasm emva kokuvuselela ngokwesondo okwaneleyo.

Phambi kokuba uphambuke malunga ne-Os yakho elahlekileyo, zama ukubamba ezi ndawo zesondo zisisiseko ukuze wandise ukonwaba kwakho okanye # uzenzele ngokwakho kwi-solo sesh apho ukwazi khona ngokwenene yazi into oyithandayo. Ukuba unomdla ngokwenyani, bona i-doc yakho. Ngaphandle koko, gcina lo mthetho wegolide ngesondo engqondweni: * wonke umntu wahlukile. Uvuthondaba!

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