Isifo esinganyangekiyo sandishiya ndinomsindo kwaye ndihleli ndedwa. Ezi ziQendu zi-8 ziguqule ubomi bam.
Umxholo
- “Ukuthetha ngeengxaki zethu sesona siyobisi sikhobokisayo. Yahlula loo mkhwa. Thetha ngovuyo lwakho. ” -Rita Schiano
- Ingca iluhlaza kulapho uyinkcenkceshela khona. -Neil Barringham
- Yonke imihla ayinakulunga, kodwa kukho into elungileyo yonke imihla. - Ayaziwa
- "Indlela yam ingahluka, kodwa andilahlekanga" - Ayaziwa
- Elinye lawona maxesha amyoli ebomini inokuba kukufumana isibindi sokuyeka into ongenakuyitshintsha. ” - Ayaziwa
- “Yonke into izakulunga ekugqibeleni. Ukuba ayilunganga, ayisosiphelo. ” -UJohn Lennon
- Unikwe obu bomi kuba womelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba ubuphile. ” - Ayaziwa
- "Ndizibonile iintsuku ezingcono, kodwa ndikhe ndabona okubi kakhulu. Andinayo yonke into endiyifunayo, kodwa ndinazo zonke izinto endizifunayo. Ndavuka ndinamahlaba neentlungu, kodwa ndavuka. Ubomi bam bungangabi ngogqibeleleyo, kodwa ndisikelelwe. ” - Ayaziwa
Ngamanye amaxesha amagama axabisa imifanekiso eliwaka.
Impilo kunye nokuphila kakuhle kuchaphazela ngamnye wethu ngokwahlukileyo. Eli libali lomntu omnye.
Ukuziva uxhaswa ngokwaneleyo xa unesifo esinganyangekiyo kunokubonakala ngathi akunakufikeleleka, ngakumbi kuba izigulo ezinganyangekiyo zihlala ixesha elide kwaye zinokubuchaphazela kakhulu ubomi bakho.
Khange ndicinge ukuba ndingaze ndizive ndixhaswa kwaye ndinoxolo njengangoku.
Ndahamba ubomi bam bonke ndiziva ndililolo, ndedwa, kwaye ndinomsindo ngenxa yendlela ubomi bam obabusetyenziswa ngayo kukugula kwam. Kuthathe umthwalo omkhulu kwimpilo yam yengqondo nengokwasemzimbeni, ngakumbi ngenxa yokuba izifo zam ezizimeleyo zibangelwa luxinzelelo.
Kwiminyaka eliqela eyadlulayo, ndazibophelela ekutshintsheni ubomi bam ngendlela elungileyo. Endaweni yokuziva nditshatyalaliswe sisifo esinganyangekiyo, bendifuna ukufumana indlela yokuziva ndonelisekile.
Izicatshulwa, iimotto, kunye neemantra ziphele zidlala indima enkulu kolu tshintsho. Ndifuna izikhumbuzo rhoqo zokundinceda ndamkele ubunyani bam, ukuziqhelanisa nombulelo, kwaye undikhumbuze ukuba kulungile ukuziva ngendlela endivile ngayo.
Ke, ndiye ndaqala ukwenza imiqondiso yokufaka iindonga kunye nezipili, ndaza ndazigcwalisa ngamagama awanceda ukundikhupha kwingqondo endandikuyo ubomi bam bonke.
Nazi izinto ezisibhozo endizithandayo:
“Ukuthetha ngeengxaki zethu sesona siyobisi sikhobokisayo. Yahlula loo mkhwa. Thetha ngovuyo lwakho. ” -Rita Schiano
Ngelixa kunokuba nzima hayi ukugxila kwintlungu yomzimba nokudinwa endikuva, kuninzi kuphela endinokuthetha ngako ngaphambi kokuba ndiqalise ukubandezeleka ngokungeyomfuneko.
Ndifumanise ukuba kusabalulekile ukuthetha malunga nokutsha kunye nokuziva ndigula kakhulu, kodwa kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuyeka. Intlungu iyinyani kwaye iyasebenza, kodwa emva kokuba ndithethile endifuna ukuyithetha, iyandinceda ngakumbi ukugxila kokulungileyo.
Ingca iluhlaza kulapho uyinkcenkceshela khona. -Neil Barringham
Ukuthelekiswa kwandenza ndaziva ndililolo. Esi sicatshulwa sindincede ndakhumbula ukuba wonke umntu uneengxaki, nditsho nabo ingca yabo ibonakala iluhlaza.
Endaweni yokulangazelela ingca eluhlaza yomnye umntu, ndiye ndifumane iindlela zokwenza ezam zibe luhlaza ngakumbi.
Yonke imihla ayinakulunga, kodwa kukho into elungileyo yonke imihla. - Ayaziwa
Ngeentsuku xa ndiziva ngathi andinakubuyisa umva, okanye nditsho ndoyike ukusukela mhla ndivuka, ndihlala ndizama ukuzityhala ukuze ndifumane ubuncinci 'obulungileyo' yonke imihla.
Into endiyifundileyo kukuba ikhona njalo elungileyo, kodwa uninzi lwamaxesha, siphazamiseke kakhulu ukuyibona. Ukuthathela ingqalelo izinto ezincinci ezenza ukuba ubomi bakho bube nakho ukuhlala, ngokunyanisekileyo, kunokutshintsha ubomi kuko buqu.
"Indlela yam ingahluka, kodwa andilahlekanga" - Ayaziwa
Ndigcina esi sicatshulwa engqondweni rhoqo xa ndinamathela ekudlaleni umdlalo wokuthelekisa. Kuye kwafuneka ndihambe ndisenza izinto ezithile ngokwahlukileyo kunenkoliso yabantu ixesha elide - enye yezona zinto zamva nje zokuba ndiphumelele ikholeji kunyaka opheleleyo.
Ngamaxesha athile, bendiziva ndingafaneleki xa ndizithelekisa noontanga bam, kodwa ndiye ndabona ukuba andikho yabo umendo, ndihamba yam. Kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ndingagqitha kuyo kungekho mntu undibonisayo ukuba kwenziwa njani kuqala.
Elinye lawona maxesha amyoli ebomini inokuba kukufumana isibindi sokuyeka into ongenakuyitshintsha. ” - Ayaziwa
Ukwamkela ukuba isigulo sam asipheli (i-lupus okwangoku ayinalo unyango) yenye yezona zinto zinzima endakhe ndazenza.
Intlungu kunye nokubandezeleka okuze ngenxa yokucinga ukuba ukuxilongwa kwam kuya kuthetha ntoni ngekamva lam kwakunzima kwaye kwandenza ndaziva ngathi andinakubulawula ubomi bam. Njengolu catshulwa uthi, ukuba nesibindi sokuyeka uluvo olungelulo lolawulo kubalulekile.
Konke esinokukwenza ukuba sibe seluxolweni xa sijongana nokugula okunganyangekiyo kukusivumela ukuba sazi kwaye ayisiyiyo yonke into kulawulo lwethu ngokupheleleyo.
“Yonke into izakulunga ekugqibeleni. Ukuba ayilunganga, ayisosiphelo. ” -UJohn Lennon
Le yenye yeengcaphuno endizithandayo kuba inika ithemba elininzi. Kubekho amaxesha amaninzi kangangokuba bendiziva ndingasokuze ndizive ndingcono kunendlela endandiziva ngayo ngalo mzuzu. Ukwenza ukuba kube lusuku olulandelayo waziva kungenakwenzeka.
Kodwa bekungesiyo isiphelo, kwaye bendihlala ndisenza njalo.
Unikwe obu bomi kuba womelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba ubuphile. ” - Ayaziwa
Esi sicatshulwa sihlala sindikhuthaza ukuba ndibone amandla am. Kwandinceda ukuba ndikholelwe kum kwaye ndiqale ukuzibona njengomntu 'onamandla', kunokuba zonke izinto endizixelele ukuba ngenxa yezifo zam ezingapheliyo.
"Ndizibonile iintsuku ezingcono, kodwa ndikhe ndabona okubi kakhulu. Andinayo yonke into endiyifunayo, kodwa ndinazo zonke izinto endizifunayo. Ndavuka ndinamahlaba neentlungu, kodwa ndavuka. Ubomi bam bungangabi ngogqibeleleyo, kodwa ndisikelelwe. ” - Ayaziwa
Esinye sezona zakhono zixabisekileyo zokujamelana ndizisebenzisa xa ndinosuku olubi kukufumana uxabiso lwezona zinto zincinci.Ndiyayithanda le quote kuba iyandikhumbuza ukuba ndingathathi nantoni na, nokuba ndivuka nje ekuseni.
Ukususela ebuntwaneni ukuya ebudaleni, ndandinenzondo emzimbeni wam ngenxa yokungasebenzisani nobomi endandifuna ukubuphila.
Ndandifuna ukuba kwibala lokudlala, ndingaguli ebhedini. Ndandifuna ukuba semtshatweni kunye nabahlobo bam, hayi ekhaya ndinenyumoniya. Ndifuna ukugqwesa kwizifundo zam zasekholejini, ndingayi rhoqo ezibhedlele kuvavanyo kunye nonyango.
Ndizamile ukuphalazela abahlobo bam kunye nosapho ngale mvakalelo kule minyaka idlulileyo, nditsho nangokunyaniseka malunga nomona ngempilo yabo elungileyo. Ukuba bandixelele ukuba bayayiqonda indenze ndaziva ndibhetele kancinane, kodwa olo lonwabo lwalulifutshane.
Usulelo ngalunye olutsha, umsitho ophosiweyo, kunye notyelelo esibhedlele zindibuyise ndaziva ndindedwa kakhulu.
Ndidinga umntu onokuhlala endikhumbuza ukuba kulungile ukuba impilo yam imdaka, kwaye ndingaphila ngokugqibeleleyo ngaphandle kwayo. Kuthathe ixesha ukuba ndimfumane, kodwa ekugqibeleni ndiyazi ngoku ukuba ukhona umntu mna.
Ngokuziveza imihla ngemihla kwizicatshulwa ezahlukeneyo ezixhasayo kunye nemantras, ndawucela umngeni kuwo wonke umsindo, umona, kunye nosizi ngaphakathi kwam ukufumana ukuphiliswa ngamazwi abanye - ngaphandle kokufuna umntu ukuba akholelwe kubo kwaye andikhumbuze, ngaphandle kwam.
Khetha umbulelo, uyeke ubomi obunokuthi uthathwe sisifo sakho kuwe, ufumane iindlela zokuphila ubomi obufanayo ngendlela eyamkelekileyo kuwe, ubonise imfesane kuwe, kwaye uyazi ukuba ekupheleni kosuku, yonke into iza kulungile.
Asinakukuguqula ukugula kwethu, kodwa sinokutshintsha iingqondo zethu.
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