Yonke into ekufuneka uyazi malunga neToys zesondo kunye nee-STI

Umxholo

• Ewe, yeha, yeha, ungayifumana i-STI kwinto yokudlala ngesondo?
• Zeziphi ii-STIs ezinokudluliselwa ngale ndlela?
• I-bacterial vaginosis, igwele, kunye nee-UTIs zinokuhanjiswa
• Kwaye ukuba ukubandakanywa kuyabandakanyeka, kunjalo ke nakwezinye izifo
• Ungasasaza nge-STI (okanye olunye usulelo) kuwe
• Izinto ezibalulekileyo
• Into ekufuneka uyazi malunga neethoyi zesini ezingenazintsholongwane
• Ukuba wabelana ngento yokudlala ngesondo, yenze into yokudlala engathandekiyo
• Ukuba uza kusebenzisa into yokudlala enesiphako, sebenzisa ikhondom
• Uyicoca njani iithoyi zakho zesondo
• Unokusebenzisa isicoci sokudlala kwezesondo
• Ungalibali ukomisa ithoyi yakho, kwaye uyibeke kakuhle
• Uyicoca nini iithoyi zakho
• Ungabelana njani ngokukhuselekileyo nangokwesimilo ngokwabelana ngezinto zokudlala phakathi kwamaqabane
• Sukusebenzisa iithoyi zokungena
• Hlamba izinto zokudlala ezingafunekiyo
• Thetha neqabane lakho
• Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ucinga ukuba sesichengeni se-STI
• Ukukhulelwa kunokuba ngumngcipheko (omncinci)
• Umgca wezantsi

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Ewe, yeha, yeha, ungayifumana i-STI kwinto yokudlala ngesondo?

Impendulo emfutshane: Yhu!

Kodwa zama ukungazixakekisi kakhulu, ngekhe ngokukhawuleza fumana isifo esosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo.

Ukufumana i-STI kwinto yokudlala ngesondo, kufuneka isetyenziswe ngumntu owayenayo i-STI emva koko engacocwanga kakuhle phambi kokuba uyisebenzise.

"Ayikuko ukuba into yokudlala ngesondo yona ikunika i-STI," ucacisa watsho ugqirha wezesondo ekliniki uMegan Stubbs, EdD. "Kukuba into yokudlala ngesondo sisixhobo sosulelo."

Nantsi yonke into ekufuneka uyazi.

Zeziphi ii-STIs ezinokudluliselwa ngale ndlela?

Nayiphi na i-STI enokusasazwa ngokwenza izinto zesondo inokusasazwa ngento yokudlala ekwabelwana ngayo ngesondo- kubandakanya ii-STIs ezisasazeka kulwelo lomzimba kwaye ezo zisasazeka ngokudibana kolusu.

Ukuba kukho igazi, amadlozi, i-pre-cum, imfihlo yelungu lobufazi, okanye olunye ulwelo lomzimba kwinto yokudlala ngesondo yomntu A ene-STI ehanjiswa lulwelo, emva koko into yokudlala ngesondo idibana neembumba zomntu B, umntu B unakho suleleka yintsholongwane.

Ngelixa kungekho phando ngesihloko, ii-STIs ezisasazeka kulusu-nolusu okanye ukunxibelelana kwamalungu esini nako kungasasazeka ngento yokudlala ngesondo.

Umzekelo, ukuba iqabane elinokuqhambuka kwe-herpes lisebenzise into yokudlala ngesondo, kwaye emva kwemizuzu embalwa usebenzise into yokudlala efanayo, kukho ithuba lokuba intsholongwane iyosasazeka kuwe.

I-bacterial vaginosis, igwele, kunye nee-UTIs zinokuhanjiswa

Ayizizo nje ii-STIs ezinokudluliselwa ngeethoyi zesini.

"Ungafumana nosulelo lwegwele, ibacterial vaginosis, okanye usulelo lomchamo kwinto yokudlala ngesondo," utshilo uStubbs.

Ngamaxesha athile oku kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba usebenzise into yokudlala ngesondo ukuba umntu one-bacterial vaginosis okanye usulelo lwegwele olusetyenzisiweyo ngaphandle kokuba lucocwe ngokufanelekileyo ngaphambi kokuba lusetyenziswe.

Kodwa nokuba omnye umntu ayenzi unesinye sezi zifo, ukuba unesini, iibhaktheriya ezivela kwiimpawu zazo zingalahla i-pH yakho yangasese kwaye zikhokelela kwisifo.

Ukuba usebenzisa ithoyizi yokwabelana ngesondo kwi-butt yakho kwaye uyisebenzise kwilungu lakho lobufazi (okanye macala onke ekuvulekeni kwepenile), oku kungakhokelela kolunye lwezi zifo.

Kwaye ukuba ukubandakanywa kuyabandakanyeka, kunjalo ke nakwezinye izifo

Umcimbi welindle kunye nentsalela yelindle ngumngcipheko owamkelweyo jikelele wokudlala ngasemva.

Ngokuka, oku kulandelayo kungadluliselwa kwilindle:

• hepatitis A, B, kunye no-C
• iiparasites, kubandakanya UGiardia lamblia
• ii-amoebas zesisu
• ibacteria, kubandakanya Shigella, Salmonella, Ubunjani benkampu, kunye E. coli

Oko kwenza ukuba usulelo lube semngciphekweni wokwabelana ngesondo ezimpundwini.

Kwaye le mingcipheko ayipheli ukuba into yokudlala ngesondo isetyenziselwa ukonwabisa i-derrière yakho, ngokuchasene nepipi okanye umnwe. (Nangona umngcipheko wokusebenzisa into yokudlala ngesondo usezantsi xa kuthelekiswa nomngcipheko wokusebenzisa umlomo wakho).

Ungasasaza nge-STI (okanye olunye usulelo) kuwe

Masithi ufumana i-bacterial vaginosis, sebenzisa i-vibrator yakho, musa ukuyicoca ngokufanelekileyo, yiya kwi-antibiotics yosulelo kwaye iyacoca, kwaye uphinde usebenzise into yokudlala ngesondo kwakhona ...

Ewe, ugh.

Kuyafana nakwii-STI zebhakteria. Umzekelo, ukuba une-gonorrhea yelungu lobufazi, sebenzisa into yokudlala kwilungu lobufazi, kwaye kwangoko uyisebenzise ukuvuselela umngxuma wakho, kunokwenzeka ukuba uzinike i-anal gonorrhea. Ugh.

Izinto ezibalulekileyo

Nokuba ungayidlulisela okanye ungayisebenzisi into yokudlala ngesondo kuxhomekeke, ngokuyinxenye, ekubeni ungayicoca ngokupheleleyo into yokudlala xa uyihlamba.

Into ekufuneka uyazi malunga neethoyi zesini ezingenazintsholongwane

"Izinto zokudlala zokwabelana ngesondo ezenziwe ngezixhobo ezinomhlwa zinemingxunya encinci encinci enokubambelela kwiibhaktiriya, uthuli, isepha, kunye nesiqholo nasemva kokucoca," ucacisa watsho uCarly S., ingcali yolonwabo, umsunguli weDildo okanye iDildon't.

Inguqulelo: Nokuba isepha kunye namanzi azinakufumana iithoyi zesini ezihlambulukileyo ngokupheleleyo ziipesenti ezili-100 zicocekile. Yikes.

Izinto ezibonakalayo ziquka:

• irabha ye-thermoplastic (TPR)
• Elastomer ye-thermoplastic (TPE)
• Irhafu
• Polyvinyl chloride (PVC)
• irabha yejeli

Izinto zokudlala ezingathandaniyo zesondo zinakho-ukuba uzicoce ngokufanelekileyo-zicocwe ngokupheleleyo.

"Umthetho olungileyo… kukuba kukhuselekile ukuba utye kunye nokupheka kunye kwaye ungakufumana ekhitshini, yinto ekhuselekileyo, engafunekiyo yokudlala ngesondo," utshilo uCarly S.

Izinto ezingafunekiyo zibandakanya:

• abicah
• xprex
• Iplastiki ye-ABS
• iglasi
• yenziwe ngentsimbi eshayinayo

Ukuba wabelana ngento yokudlala ngesondo, yenze into yokudlala engathandekiyo

Ngale ndlela unokuyihlamba into yokudlala phakathi kwawo onke amaqela ayisebenzisayo.

"Ungayiphosa ikhondom phezu kwento yokudlala uphinde ufake ikhondom entsha ngaphambi kokuba iqabane lakho liyisebenzise," utshilo ugqirha wezesondo kunye nogqirha we-naturopathic uJordin Wiggins.

Sukuba nexhala: “Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uthengise ingalo kunye nomlenze ukuze ufumane into yokudlala enganambithekiyo,” utshilo uCarly S. Blush Novelties, umzekelo, wenza iimveliso ezikumgangatho ophezulu, ezinamaxabiso asezantsi.

Ukuba uza kusebenzisa into yokudlala enesiphako, sebenzisa ikhondom

Nokuba uyisebenzisa wedwa okanye neqabane, phosa ikhondom entsha kuloo mfana ungalunganga ngalo lonke ixesha kusithiwa uthinte umntu omtsha-ngakumbi i-latex, i-polyurethane, okanye ikhondom ye-polyisoprene.

Iikhondom ezenziwe ngolusu lwezilwanyana azikhuseli kwi-STIs.

Ukuba usebenzisa iikhondom zelatex, sebenzisa i-silicone okanye i-lube esekwe emanzini njenge-Sliquid Sassy okanye i-Uberlube-ioyile esekwe kwioyile ithoba isidima sekhondom kwaye yenza imingxunya emincinci.

Kuyavunywa, ukuba iithoyi zesini ezingamiswanga njenge-phallic, ukubeka ikhondom ngaphezulu kunokuba… kungathandeki.

UCarly S. “Zama ukubopha ikhondom kangangoko unako ukunqanda ukuyekelela ngokweqile,” utshilo uCarly S. "Okanye ungasebenzisa iglavu, okanye isongezo esingenakususwa saran (le microwavable inemingxunya kuyo)."

Kwizinto ezithile zokudlala zesini ezinje ngeepenisi-strokers, nangona kunjalo, eyona nto ukubheja kwakho kukufumana into yokudlala eyahlukileyo ngomsebenzisi.

"Uninzi lwe strokers lwenziwe ngezinto zerabha ezixonxileyo ngenxa yokuba ithambe, kwaye uninzi lwabantu alunakufuna ukubetha incanca yabo ngento evakala ngathi yitena," utsho uCarly S.

Kulungile!

Ngelixa izibini ezitshatileyo ezinamanzi- i-AKA ngabom, ngokungavisisani, kwaye ngabom babelana ngeencindi zomzimba- banokwabelana ngestroker kungekho ngxaki, ukuba awudityaniswanga lulwelo kufuneka ufumane iithoyi ezimbini ezahlukeneyo.

Olunye ukhetho: Zama iOctopus Pulse Duo eshushu, isitroker esenziwe ngeplastikhi yesilicone kunye neABS.

Uyicoca njani iithoyi zakho zesondo

Nokuba yeyiphi na into yokudlala yakho, kuya kufuneka uhlambe olo sana ngaphambi nasemva kokusetyenziswa. Indlela oyihlamba ngayo ixhomekeke kwizinto eziphathekayo.

"Qiniseka ukuba isepha ithambile kwaye ayinantsingiselo," utshilo uWiggins. "Ezinye iimveliso zinokucaphukisa amalungu akho obuni."

Kwizinto zokudlala ezingezizo ezomoto, ukuphosa into yokudlala kwindawo yokuhlambela isonka nayo inokwenzeka, ngokweStubbs.

"Asithethi ngokubeka into yokudlala kwisitya saselasna sangokuhlwa," utshilo uStubbs. "Yenza umthwalo wezinto zakho zokudlala zokwabelana ngesondo."

Owu, kwaye ungasebenzisi isepha! Vumela nje amanzi afudumeleyo abaleke.

UCarly S. "Isicoci sesicoci sokuhlambela impahla singaqulatha imichiza erhabaxa kunye neziqholo ezikhokelela ekucaphukeni okanye kusulelo kubantu abanoomatshini ababuthathaka."

Unokusebenzisa isicoci sokudlala kwezesondo

NgokukaCarly S., "Kungangcono ke ukusebenzisa into yokucoca isini esekwe emanzini kunokuyihlamba ngesepha onayo, kuba aba bacoci bathanda ukuba nobulali nangakumbi kunesepha ezininzi zesandla." Kuhle ukwazi!

Ukucoca izinto zokudlala ngesondo ucebisa ukuba:

• Ucoceko lweBabeland Toy
• Ilitye elikhanyayo
• We-Vibe Coca

UZoe Ligon (owaziwa njengoThongria kwimidiya yoluntu), utitshala wezesondo kunye nomnini weSpectrumBoutique.com, indawo yokugcina izinto zokudlala ngesondo, ucebisa ukuba usebenzisa isicoci, hlamba into yokudlala ngamanzi ngaphambi kokuyisebenzisa ukuthintela nakuphi na ukucaphuka okunokwenzeka.

Ungalibali ukomisa ithoyi yakho, kwaye uyibeke kakuhle

UStubbs uthi: “Iibacteria ziyakuthanda ukufuma, emva kokuba ucoce into yokudlala. Vala nje into yokudlala eyomileyo ngetawuli ecocekileyo okanye ushiye iithoyi ngaphandle zome umoya.

Emva koko yigcine ngokufanelekileyo. Kule mihla, uninzi lwezinto zokudlala ezinokwabelana ngesondo ziza neepakethi zokubamba satin, ke ukuba into yakho yokudlala iza nayo, yisebenzise.

Loo ngxowa iya kuyikhusela into yokudlala ekuqokeleleni uthuli, inkunkuma, noboya bezilwanyana phakathi kokusetyenziswa.

Awunayo isikhwama esikhethekileyo sokudlala ngesondo? Cinga ngokutyala imali kwezi zilandelayo:

• Ingxowa yeTristan Velvish Toy
• Ikhululo lokuLungisa iLadder ngePadLock ngeSitshixo
• I-Lovehoney evaliweyo yeTyala leSondo

Uyicoca nini iithoyi zakho

Ngokufanelekileyo, emva kwaye ngaphambi kokusetyenziswa.

UCarly S. "Ukuba wena neqabane lakho ninobulunga obumanyeneyo, ungalinda ude uyisebenzise ekuyihlambeni, ukuba nje omnye wenu akanakungena gwele kwizifo zomchamo," utshilo uCarly S. "Ngaphandle koko, ihlambe phakathi kwenu. ”

Ukuyihlamba ngaphambi kokuyisebenzisa kunokuvakala njengokugqithileyo, kodwa khawucinge ngoku: “Nokuba into yokudlala sele ihlanjiwe, kuhlala kulicebo elihle ukuyinika enye into ngaphambi kokuba idlale,” utsho uLigon.

Ukwenza njalo kunokumisa inja yakho yoboya ekufumaneni yonke into kwiibits zakho!

Ungabelana njani ngokukhuselekileyo nangokwesimilo ngokwabelana ngezinto zokudlala phakathi kwamaqabane

Ewe, impilo kwaye Ukuziphatha kuyadlala apha!

Sukusebenzisa iithoyi zokungena

Njengomgaqo oqhelekileyo, iithoyi ezinokungena ngaphakathi kufuneka zingasetyenziswa kumaqabane angaphezu kwelinye. Kwaye kufuneka zisetyenziswe kuphela kunye namaqabane odibene nawo ulwelo.

Hlamba izinto zokudlala ezingafunekiyo

Oku kufanele ukuba kunikwe, kodwa ukuba uza kusebenzisa into yokudlala ngesondo noKaren osandula ukuyisebenzisa noMary, wena imfuno Ukuyihlamba ngaphambi kwexesha.

Ukusilela ukwenza njalo kunokubangela ukuhanjiswa kwe-STI.

Thetha neqabane lakho

UCarly S. "Ayisiyongxaki yezempilo kuphela le, kwaye ikwayimvakalelo kwabanye abantu, kwaye iyafuneka kwimvume yawo onke amaqela."

Andiqinisekanga ngendlela yokuzisa ukwabelana ngesondo kunye neqabane lakho? Zama oku kulandelayo:

• "Ndiyazi ukuba sele siyisebenzisile iHitachi yam kunye, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba senze njalo bendifuna ukukhangela inqanaba lenu lokundijonga ndisebenzisa loo nto yokudlala namanye amaqabane."
• “Ndingathanda ukusebenzisa i-Womanizer yam kuwe ukuba yinto ocinga ukuba ungayithanda. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba sizame ebomini bokwenyani, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba ndiyisebenzisile le nto yokudlala kubudlelwane bam bangaphambili.
• "Ndiyazi ukuba sobabini sinengqokelela yeethoyi zesini ebesizisebenzisa namaqabane ethu angaphambili, kodwa ngoku sikubudlelwane obukhethekileyo, ndingathanda ukuthenga iithoyi zesini ezizezethu nje kuphela."
• Sakhe sathetha ngawe f cking ngam ngentambo ngaphambili. Ndiyazi ukuba unayo inkuku, kodwa bendizibuza ukuba ingaba ungavula na imali yokwahlulahlula entsha oza kuyisebenzisa nam? "

Ngokufanelekileyo le ncoko iya kwenzeka ngaphambili ubushushu bomzuzwana. Intsingiselo, nceda unxibe ngokupheleleyo xa uzisa oku!

Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ucinga ukuba sesichengeni se-STI

Yiya kuvavanywa! "Chaza into obuchazelwe kuyo kwaye ucele iphaneli epheleleyo yovavanyo ukuba unayo indlela," utshilo uLigon.

Ukuba awuyazi into obutyhileke kuyo, xelela ugqirha wakho ukuba, nawe!

Emva koko, "phinda uvavanywe kwakhona kwi-2 ukuya kwiiveki ezi-3 okanye nokuba ugqirha ekude kangakanani, ngoba ezinye ii-STIs azinakuvavanywa kwangoko emva kokuvezwa, utshilo.

Isikhumbuzo somhlobo: Uninzi lwezifo ezingumvuka wokwabelana ngesondo zingangqinelani, ke nokuba awufumani zimpawu, kuya kufuneka ukuba uvavanywe kube kanye ngonyaka naphakathi kwamaqabane, nokuba yeyiphi eza kuqala.

Ukukhulelwa kunokuba ngumngcipheko (omncinci)

Ukuba unokukhulelwa kwaye wabelana ngento yokudlala ngesondo nomntu onepenisi, ukukhulelwa kunokwenzeka ukuba kukho nayiphi na i-pre-cum okanye i-ejaculation kwinto yokudlala xa uyisebenzisa.

Ukuba ufuna ukunqanda ukukhulelwa, thetha neqabane lakho malunga nolawulo lwendlela yokuzalwa nangaphambi kokuba wabelane ngento yokudlala. Okanye, yicoce okanye usebenzise ikhondom entsha phambi kokuba uyisebenzise.

Umgca wezantsi

Nanini na xa usabelana ngesondo nomntu one-STI okanye osimo sakhe se-STI ungasaziyo, ukosulela nge-STI ngumngcipheko. Kwaye oko kubandakanya ukusebenzisa okanye ukwabelana ngokudlala ngesondo kunye.

Unganceda ukunciphisa umngcipheko wosulelo ngo:

• ukuncokola ngesimo sabo se-STI kunye nezenzo ezikhuselekileyo zokwabelana ngesondo ofuna ukuzisebenzisa kunye
• ukusebenzisa ikhondom entsha ngaphezulu kwento yokudlala yomsebenzisi ngamnye omtsha
• ukusebenzisa into yokudlala engathandekiyo kunye nokuyicoca phakathi kwamaqabane
• ukuba nezinto zakho zokudlala zesini

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