Ngaba kufuneka ujonge ukuba ngubani ongakufanekisanga kuFacebook?

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Akunakuphikwa ukuba ixesha lakho kwimidiya yoluntu linokuchaphazela i-psyche yakho. (Kubi kangakanani Ngaba I-Facebook, i-Twitter, kunye ne-Instagram yeMpilo yeNgqondo?) Nokuba kukwaneliseka kokufumana ukuthanda okwaneleyo kwi-Instagram yakho ukujika ukusuka kumagama ukuya kwinani (i-10-plus, kungekhona ukuba sibala ...) okanye ikhwele phezu komhlobo ukutsala okugqibeleleyo, into oyikroliyo kwimicimbi. Kungenxa yoko le nto iapps entsha ekuvumela ukuba ubone ukuba ngubani ongakufanekisanga kuFacebook ithandwa kangaka kwaye iyingozi kwimpilo yakho yengqondo.

Ngubani ondicimileyo ugcina uluhlu lwakho lomhlobo kuFacebook ngalo mzuzu uyikhuphelayo, kwaye emva koko uhlaziye xa ungena kwakhona ukuba ngabaphi abahlobo bakho abakucimileyo okanye bavale iiakhawunti zabo. Akuyonto yokuqala yohlobo lwayo; Ii -apps ezifanayo ezinje ngoBani abangazange bandilandele kunye noMhlobo okanye ukulandela ubukho bokulandela abalandeli kwi-Twitter nakwi-Instagram, kwaye kukho ezinye iinguqulelo zomkhondo we-Facebook nazo. Ngemfihlelo yentsholongwane, nangona kunjalo, ngubani owandicimayo uzuze i-330,000 yabasebenzisi bayo abangama-500,000 kwinyanga ephelileyo. Ukufuna ukwazi ngokukhawuleza kubangele ukuphuma kunye nokuphazamiseka kwimpelaveki kaJulayi wesine.

Siyifumana-izizathu zokuba kutheni umntu angakuthandi kuFacebook zinomtsalane kwaye ziyamangalisa njengokuba kutheni laa ntombazana ingaqhelekanga ikuphose umthunzi esitratweni. Kodwa okubaluleke ngakumbi, kutheni ukhathalele? "Abantu baphendula ngokungahambelani ngeendlela ezininzi," utshilo uJulie Gurner, ingcali yezonyango eseNew York efunda ngenkcubeko kunye netekhnoloji. "Abanye bayonwaba kwaye bayakhathala, abanye bayonzakala kwaye bayadabuka. Kodwa uhlobo lwabantu abaza kujonga ngononophelo uluhlu lwabahlobo babo lolona hlobo banokuziva libuhlungu ngalo."

Kufana nesiprofeto esizalisekisayo sokungathandwa, ngandlela thile. Abo babeka iliso banokuba balumkile ukuba bangakwamkeli, uGurner wongeza. "Kwaye le app ibeka ukwaliwa ngaphambili kunye nendawo."

Oko kunokucebisa ukuba nabani na okhuphela iapp ukuqalisa uyaphambana akakhuselekanga, kodwa uGurner akothuki ukuba umkhondo uthandwa kakhulu. “Umkhwa ngoku kukubeka esweni izinto ezininzi kangangoko sinako malunga nobomi bethu,” ucacise watsho. "Singakwazi ukulandelela ukufaneleka kwethu, ukulala kwethu, amanyathelo ethu ngosuku. Ukusuka kwimbono yengqondo, sinokufuna ukwazi ukuba ngubani ongasichaziyo kwaye nini."

Malunga nokuba kutheni le ntombazana ekwiklasi yakho yobugcisa beklasi yesithoba ngoku ingakufakwanga, kulungile, kukho izizathu ezingenakubalwa zokuba awufuni kubona imeko yomntu okanye iifoto okanye amanqaku abelweyo kuFacebook. "Elinye lawona maqela aqhelekileyo ukuba angabhencwa ngabantu esibaziyo kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, abaqhele ukwenza iingxelo kwezopolitiko esingavumelani nazo," utshilo uGurner. Oko kuvakala kulungile. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba zininzi iindlela zokungahoyi umhlobo kuFacebook, njengokungalandeli okanye ukuzifihla okanye ukungazithandi izinto zabo, eyona nto ingafakwanga yingxelo eqinileyo yokwaliwa. "Ingaziva ikhawuleza."

Mhlawumbi awukwazi ukunceda kodwa khangela i-app-inomdla! Kodwa qwalasela zonke izizathu wena ukuze ungabi ngumhlobo umntu-izinto zabo zezopolitiko, iifoto zabo zomntwana, indlela abaphule ngayo intliziyo yakho kwaye ngoku banentombi entsha-kwaye baqonde ukuba abanye banokuziva ngendlela efanayo ngawe. Kwaye akufuneki ukuba ukhubeke yile nto. "Kukho ukunyuka kwendalo kunye nokuhamba kwenethiwekhi," utshilo uGurner, njengokuba kukho i-IRL.

Qiniseka ukuba awujolisanga ukwaliwa ngendlela engenampilo, kwaye ulungile ukukhuphela.

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