Imfundo yezesondo eU.S. Iphukile-Ukuzigcina ufuna ukukulungisa

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• Kuqala, izibalo kwezesondo Ed
• Kutheni le nto uMsebenzi weMfundo ngesondo esemgangathweni?
• Ukucinga ngeMfundo eBanzi ngesondo
• Yintoni omele uyilindele kwi-Lindela engakumbi
• Ungayilwa njani iMbali eQhelekileyo yoSondo Ed
• Apho ufunda ngakumbi ngeSondo okwangoku
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Ukuba kukho nantoni na Iintombi ezikhohlakele, Imfundo yezesondo, okanye Umlomo Omkhulu Isifundisile, kukuba ukunqongophala kwekharityhulamu yethu yokufundisa ngesondo kwenza ukonwatyiswa okukhulu. Into kukuba, akukho nto iyonwabisa malunga nokuba abantwana abafundiswa ulwazi oluchanekileyo lwezonyango abaludingayo ukuze benze ukhetho olunolwazi malunga nemizimba yabo.

ISustain — inkampani eyaziwa kakhulu ngeetampon zayo zendalo, iikhondom, kunye nezinto zokuthambisa — ilapha ukubonisa ukuba ayisiyomfuneko. Namhlanje inkampani iqalise iphulo elitsha elibizwa ngokuba yiSexpectpect More ngevidiyo (funda: ukuhlangana ngokukhala) inamazwi angama-20 anempembelelo ekwabelaneni ngokucacileyo ngento abanqwenela ukuba bafundiswe ngayo eklasini. Injongo: ukubalaselisa indlela emaxongo ngayo imeko yemfundo yesini eUnited States nokuqalisa incoko enyanisekileyo malunga nokuba ikhangeleka njani ngokwenene.

Funda ezinye zezibalo ezothusayo malunga nemfundo yesondo eMelika. Kwaye, indlela ekhuthazayo yokuSebenza isebenza ukuyiphucula.

Kuqala, izibalo kwezesondo Ed

Ukuba uyakhumbula ukugubungela iifoto ezibonisa ukungasetyenziswanga kwezifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo okanye ukoyisa njengomama olilayo waqhekezwa wasuka ngaphakathi njengoko usana olugqithisileyo lukhala lukhona, ungomnye (kwaye ndiyakucaphukela ukutsho) unethamsanqa ababenayo nayiphi na inkangeleko yemfundo yesini kwaphela.

Ukusukela nge-15 kaJuni ka-2020, kuphela ngamazwe angama-28 kunye nesithili somdibaniso saseWashington DC esidinga imfundo yezesondo kunye nemfundo ye-HIV, ngokweGuttmacher Institute, uphando oluphambili kunye nombutho womgaqo-nkqubo ozinikele ekuqhubekeni phambili kwezempilo ngokwesondo kunye nokuzala kunye namalungelo e-US nakwilizwe jikelele. . Ewe, ngaphantsi kwesiqingatha. Okubi nangakumbi: Kula mazwe, zi-17 kuphela ezifuna ukuba ikharityhulam yezemfundo yesondo ichaneke ngokwezonyango. Ngamanye amazwi, kusemthethweni ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba abafundisi-ntsapho baphakame baze baphelise ubuxoki.

Kwaye ngenxa yokuba uninzi lwezinto zichaphazela ngqo imfundo efunyanwa ngumfundi-kubandakanya urhulumente kunye nomanyano mali, imithetho yelizwe kunye nemigangatho edlalwa ngokwesini, imigaqo-nkqubo yesikolo kwinqanaba kunye nemigangatho malunga neekharityhulam kunye nomxholo, inkqubo okanye ikharityhulam yesikolo ngasinye kunye nento ethile Umhlohli ofundisa le nkqubo-amava e-sex ed anokwahluka kakhulu, nakwiindawo okanye kwizithili eziyigunyazayo, ngokutsho kwe-Advocates for Youth.

Njengothusayo: Mahlanu kuphela amazwe athi isihloko semvume kufuneka sibe kwikharityhulamu yemfundo yesondo. Kuyothusa, kuyaphoxa, kwaye kufuneka kutshintshe ngoku kunakuqala, utshilo umbhali, umlingisi kunye nesithethi u-Alok Menon, umbhali Ngaphaya koBini boBini, kwividiyo yokuxhasa. (Idibeneyo: Iyintoni Imvume, Ngokwenene? ​​Kwaye, njani kunye nexesha lokuyicela)

Kutheni le nto uMsebenzi weMfundo ngesondo esemgangathweni?

Kubaqalayo, njengamava okanye ingcinga inokukuxelela: Ukuziyeka-kuphela imfundo yesondo ayigcini abantwana ukuba babelane ngesondo. Konke okwenzayo kukugcina abantwana ukuba bangazibandakanyi kwezesondo ezikhuselekileyo okanye ezikhuselweyo. Izibalo ze-STIs kunye nokukhulelwa okungafunekiyo kolutsha okulandelayo: Ngokophando olupapashwe ngu Ijenali yaMazwe ngaMazwe ye-STD kunye nee-AID, amazwe aneenkqubo zokuzikhwebula kuphela anezinga eliphezulu losulelo oludluliselwa ngeentlobano zesini olufana negonorrhea kunye ne-chlamydia phakathi kwabafikisayo. Kwaye amaxabiso okukhulelwa okungacwangciswanga nokungafunekiyo nawo aphezulu (ngakumbi, kabini (!) Ephakamileyo) kwindawo apho abantwana bafumana khona ikharityhulamu yemfundo yezesondo egxininisa ekuziphatheni kuphela.

Asiyonzululwazi ye-rocket: Ngaphandle kolwazi olwaneleyo okanye lwezonyango oluchanekileyo abanalo, ulutsha alufumani umfanekiso opheleleyo wemingcipheko enokubakho (kunye nolonwabo!) Ngesondo. Kwaye ngenxa yoko, ngokwenyani abanakho ukwenza izigqibo malunga nokwazi impilo, ukuthatha izigqibo ngomngcipheko okanye ukuthatha amanyathelo okhuseleko ukunciphisa loo mngcipheko.

Kodwa ngaphezu koko, naziphi na iinkqubo zokuzikhwebula kuphela zihlala zishumayela ukuba ngumfazi omnye, "iinqobo zosapho" ezintle, kunye nesakhiwo sentsapho yenyukliya. Ngenxa yoko, bagqibela ngokuhlazisa ngokuphandle nangokucacileyo amaxhoba ohlaselo ngokwesondo, abo sele besabelana ngesondo, ulutsha oluthandabuzayo nolubuza imibuzo, kunye nabantu abasuka kumakhaya agada umntu omnye.

Khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni uxelelwa ukuba nabani na owaba neentlobano zesini ngaphambi komtshato uya esihogweni xa sele unaso. Okanye, ukuqala ukubuza ngesini sakho kwaye uxelelwe ukuba i-P-in-V lolona hlobo lwesini "olubalwayo." Ezi ntlobo zezifundo (ukuzikhwebula kwisondo-zigxile kwi-sex-ed okanye enye imiyalezo yenkcubeko) zinokuvelisa ihlazo lokwabelana ngesondo okanye ihlazo elinxulumene nazo naziphi na iingcinga zesini, iimvakalelo, indlela yokuziphatha kunye nezimo zengqondo. Intsingiselo, olu hlobo lwesini esilihlazo lungashiya iimpembelelo ezihlala zihleli kumandla omntu wokuba nobomi besondo obuphilileyo nobonwabisayo kunye / okanye abe nolwalamano olusempilweni nomzimba wakhe.

Kwaye ukuya kuthi ga ngokunqongophala kolwazi malunga nemvume? Njengoko i-comedian kunye nomdlali we-actress uSydnee Washington uthi kwividiyo yephulo, "Ewe, loo nto yenza ingqiqo, ngokuqwalasela izinto eziqhubekayo." Ngamanye amagama, inkcubeko egqugqisileyo yelizwe ibangelwa, ubuncinci ngokuyinxenye, kukungabikho kwemvume efundiswayo ezikolweni. (Idibeneyo: Iyintoni Imvume, Ngokwenene? ​​Kwaye, njani kwaye nini ukuYicela).

Ukucinga ngeMfundo eBanzi ngesondo

Imfundo ebanzi ngesondo kufuneka idlulele ngaphaya nje ukwabelana ngolwazi malunga nezifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo kunye nokukhulelwa. Kuya kufuneka igubungele i-e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-g, kubandakanya i-anatomy, ulonwabo, imvume, impilo yokuzala, ukuzimela komzimba, ukubonakaliswa kwesini, isini, ubudlelwane obunempilo, impilo yengqondo, ukuphulula amaphambili, kunye nokunye.

Ndinqwenela ukuba ndifunde ngesondo ed kukuba ayizizo zonke iilabias ezibukeka zilinganayo. Kwaye ii-vaginas zibonakala zahlukile. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba eyakho ibonakala yahlukile kuleyo usenokuba uyibonile ayithethi ukuba awuqhelekanga okanye kukho into engalunganga ngawe. Ithetha nje ukuba zahlukile, kwaye zahlukile zisempilweni kwaye zahlukile zilungile, kwaye zahlukile zizinto ezenza imizimba ukuba mihle.

UMary Beth Barone, umhlekisi

Abaphembeleli abayinxalenye yenyathelo likaSustain bafumana ngakumbi nangakumbi malunga nokuba imfundo yesondo ebanzi inokubonakala njani. Umzekelo, kwividiyo, umdlali weqonga kunye nomhlekisi uTiffany Haddish wongeza: "Ndinqwenela ukuba bafundise abantu ukuba [ukumisa) kwenzekile ukuze ungazithembi kwaye ucinge ukuba ubufazi bakho buphukile!" (ICYWW, iiqueefs azikho nje i-vagina farts.) Kwaye umvelisi wevidiyo uFreddie Ransom uthi, "Akwaba ndandifundile ukuba i-masturbation ilungile! Kuyinto eqhelekileyo! Kwanempilweni kwaye [ukuba akufanele] uzive uhlazekile." (Ngelixa sikumxholo, Nazi ezinye zeendawo zokuphulula amalungu esini ukuzama i-er, isandla sakho.)

Ngenxa yekharityhulamu yezemfundo yesondo ye-MIA, abantu abaninzi bayanyanzeleka ukuba baye kufuna iimpendulo kwenye indawo. Uninzi lufuna ukhathalelo lwamaziko okukhulelwa ngexesha lentlekele, ahlala eqhutywa yimibutho yezenkolo eneenjongo ezizezinye, iiforamu ezikwi-Intanethi ezinje ngeReddit, ezingakhange zihlolwe zizazisi, okanye kubanikezeli bezempilo. Ngexesha kubonakala njengoogqirha baya kuba ngumthombo olungileyo wolwazi lwezempilo, oogqirha abaninzi abazimiselanga ukuphendula izigulane zabo malunga nempilo yesondo kunye nemibuzo; Uphando lubonisa ukuba oogqirha abathethi kulutsha malunga nemfundo yezempilo ngokwesondo ikakhulu kuba baswele uqeqesho kunye nokuzithemba. Kwisifundo esiphanda ngendlela isikolo esilungiselela ngayo oogqirha ukuba bafumane isifo kwaye baphathe iingxaki zesini, abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba isini sabantu sasifundiswa njengekhosi kwizifundo ezingama- ~ 30% kuphela. (Esi sesinye sezizathu zokuba uluntu lwezonyango luye lwathetha amaxesha ngamaxesha ngokuchasene * nokuzikhusela kwimfundo yesondo kuphela.)

Ukuxhomekeka kubaboneleli bezempilo kwimfundo yezesondo kusemngciphekweni ngakumbi kwizigulana ezingamalungu abantu abambalwa: Kuvavanyo luka-2019 lwee-oncologists ezingama-450 ezipapashwe kwi Ijenali yeOncology yeklinikhi, sisiqingatha kuphela soogqirha ababezithembile kulwazi lwabo ngemicimbi yezempilo yabantu abathandana nabathandana nabesini esinye. Uphononongo lwesibini lubonisa ukuba izigulane eziMnyama zifumana, ngokomyinge, ukhathalelo olubi ngakumbi xa kuthelekiswa nabamhlophe baseMelika-ukukhusela, ukuzala, kunye nokunakekelwa kwezempilo ngokwesondo zonke zibandakanyiwe. (Bona: I-LGBTQ + Ukhathalelo lwezeMpilo lubi kakhulu kunabo baThantana babo baThe ngqo kwaye kutheni iiNkqubo zokuPhila kakuhle kufuneka zibe yinxalenye yeNguquko malunga nobuhlanga)

Kwaye, "ngekhe uye kwagqirha qho xa unombuzo malunga nento eyenziwa ngumzimba wakho okanye uza kuba neqabane elitsha lezesondo," utshilo uSustain ongumseki kunye nomongameli, uMeika Hollender. "Akunakwenzeka."

Ke ukuba oogqirha abasoloko beyindlela ethembekileyo yokuzalisa imingxunya eshiyekileyo ngesondo lesikolo sakho, ungaya phi esihogweni ukuze ufunde okungakumbi? Ukwazisa: Lindela Okungakumbi.

Yintoni omele uyilindele kwi-Lindela engakumbi

Ukuxhasa iSexain ngesondo ngakumbi inyathelo elinamalungu amaninzi.Okokuqala, ibhrendi inethemba lokuqaqambisa indlela ikharityhulamu yelizwe yokufundisa ngesondo-kwaye ifuna utshintsho-ngokwenza ezi nkcukacha-manani zingentla zibe zezakhe ngokubanzi. Abantu abaninzi abazi ukuba imbi kangakanani imeko yokwabelana ngesondo, utshilo uHollender.

Okwesibini, eli phulo lonyusa imali yamaGqwetha oLutsha, umbutho olwela amalungelo abantu abancinci ngolwazi oluthembekileyo lwezempilo yezesondo kunye nokufikeleleka, ukugcinwa okuyimfihlo, kunye nononophelo lwempilo yezesondo olufikelelekayo. I-Sustain iyayikhaba ngomnikelo we-25,000 yeedola, kwaye ke ngalo lonke ixesha ividiyo yabo yephulo yabelwana ngayo kunye ne-hashtag #sexpectmore, inkampani iya kunikela nge-1 eyongezelelweyo yeedola kumbutho. UDitto uya ukuba uposa impendulo kumbuzo "yintoni eyayilahlekile kwimfundo yakho yesondo?" ku-Instagram, kuFacebook, okanye kuTwitter (ungalibali nje i-hashtag).

Ekugqibeleni, kamva kulo nyaka, uphawu luya kusungula ikharityhulam yayo epheleleyo, ekhululekile ngokupheleleyo, yokufundisa ngesondo, ngokusekelwe kwimpendulo ethe ngqo kule vidiyo yephulo. "Le kharityhulamu iyakuba linyathelo lokuqala kwiphulo likaSustain lokubonelela ngokubandakanya, ukufikelela, kunye nokufundisa ngesondo ngokuqhubekayo kubantu bayo yonke iminyaka," utshilo uHollender.

Ungayilwa njani iMbali eQhelekileyo yoSondo Ed

Ukongeza ekwabelaneni ngevidiyo kaSustain kude nakubanzi, ungasebenzisa ilungelo lakho lokuvota kunyulo lwasekhaya nolomanyano. Ulawulo lukaMongameli uDonald Trump aluphelelanga nje ekwenzeni umsebenzi kaMongameli u-Barack Obama obhekiselele kwimfundo ebanzi yezokwabelana ngesondo kodwa ukwabele i-75 yezigidi zeedola kwikharityhulamu kuphela. Le yitoni yemali eya kwinkqubo engasebenziyo (khuphela ezo zibalo zingasentla kwakhona), awucingi? (Andiqinisekanga ukuba ungabhalisela njani ukuvota? Yiya apha.)

Oko kwathiwa, ngelixa izikolo zinokufumana inkxaso-mali yomanyano kwiinkqubo ezithile zemfundo yezesondo, iSebe leMfundo laseMelika kunye norhulumente womanyano akanalo nelizwi malunga nokuba imfundo yezesondo (okanye luhlobo luni) olugunyazisiweyo ezikolweni; eliwela phantsi kolawulo lukarhulumente kunye noorhulumente basekhaya kunye nezithili zesikolo ngokwabo, ngokwee-Advocates for Youth. Ngelixa kungekho mthetho okwangoku oxhasa isini esibanzi, kukho umthetho osalindelweyo obizwa ngokuba yiMfundo eyiNene yoMthetho woLutsha olusempilweni, oya kuqinisekisa ukuba inkxaso-mali yomanyano yabelwe iinkqubo zemfundo yezempilo yezesondo ezibonelela abantu abancinci ngezakhono kunye nolwazi olufunekayo ukuze bazise , izigqibo ezinoxanduva nezisempilweni.

Ukuxhasa imfundo engcono yesini kwindawo yakho, unga:

• Nxibelelana nebhodi yakho yesikolo. Babongoze ukuba bafune iinkqubo zempilo yezesondo ezibanzi kwaye bamkele iMigangatho yeSizwe yezeMfundo ngokweSini-izikhokelo eziphuhliswe ziingcali kwiinkalo zempilo yoluntu kunye nemfundo yezesondo malunga nomxholo omncinci oyimfuneko kunye nezakhono ezifunekayo ukunceda abafundi ukuba benze izigqibo ezinolwazi malunga nempilo yesondo.
• Joyina iBhunga leNgcebiso ngezeMpilo leSikolo. Uninzi lweebhodi zezikolo zicetyiswa ngamaBhunga aBacebisi ngezeMpilo eSikolweni (ii-SHACs), aqulathe abantu abamele uluntu nabanikezela ngengcebiso malunga nemfundo yezempilo.
• Qhagamshelana namalungu akho eCongress. Finyelela kuye buqu, ngomnxeba, okanye kwi-intanethi ukubakhuthaza ukuba baxhase iMfundo yokwenyani yoMthetho woLutsha oluphilileyo.
• Phanda ngawo nawuphi na amatyala okanye imithetho efanelekileyo kwilizwe lakho. Umzekelo, iNew York State okwangoku ayifuni ukuba kufundiswe ngesondo ezikolweni. Ukuba uyiNew Yorker, ungayixhasa neBhili yeNdibano yesiXeko se-NY A6512, efuna imfundo ebanzi, ebandakanyayo, kunye nemfundo echanekileyo yezesondo kwizikolo ze-NYS. Intloko nje kule webhusayithi, cofa u "aye" ukuvota, yongeza (ngokuzithandela) inqaku kwisenator yelizwe laseNew York, kunye no-ta-da-ngaphantsi kwemizuzwana engamashumi amathandathu, ulwenzile ulutsha lwangomso ngokuqinileyo. (Nalu uluhlu lwemithetho yezokwabelana ngesondo ngurhulumente.)

Apho ufunda ngakumbi ngeSondo okwangoku

Ngelixa ulinde ngomonde ukuqaliswa kwemfundo yezesondo ebanzi, jonga amanye amaqonga asebenzayo ukuzalisa umsantsa wemfundo yezesondo njengeO.School, i-OMGYes, iScarleteen, iQueer Sex Ed, kunye neAfrosexology.

Ukuze waziswe xa ikhosi kaSustain isiya kuphila, ngenisa imeyile yakho apha.

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