UTess Holliday watyhila isizathu sokuba angabelani ngakumbi ngohambo lwakhe lokufaneleka kwi-Instagram

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Ukuba awuzange upose ukuzilolonga kwakho kwi-Instagram, ngaba ukhe wakwenza oko? Ngokufana ne- # poodporn pics yesidlo sasemini okanye ii-epic snapshots zeholide yakho yokugqibela, umthambo uhlala ubonwa njengento babe Ukubhala kumajelo eendaba-kuba ukuba akwenzi njalo, iya kwazi njani into yokuba wonke umntu wenza intshukumo?

UTess Holliday akabhalisi "kwenzele inkcubeko ye 'Gram". Kutshanje uye waya eqongeni wathetha ngokuba kutheni ayenzi yabelana ngaphezulu kohambo lokuqina kwakhe kwi-IG. Ecaleni kwesibuko se-selfie, imodeli yabhala, "Ngaphambili namhlanje ndabelana ngamabali am endisebenza ngawo ukufaneleka kwam kunye nomsebenzi wam. Kungabonakala ngathi andenzanga umsebenzi omninzi ngobulumko. Nangona mna ' andikwazi ukwabelana ngayo nantoni na endiyisebenzayo NGOKU (!), indenza ndizive ngathi abantu abandikhathalelanga okanye into endiyenzayo bc andikho ' busy.'" (Eyeleleneyo: Tess Holliday kunye I-Massy Arias ngokusemthethweni siSithanda kakhulu iDuo yethu entsha yokuSebenza)

U-Holliday uchaze ukuba unombandela omncinci ngegama "uxakekile." Ngokwembono yakhe, wabhala, iyondla "kwinkcubeko yokuthanda umsebenzi," kwaye yenza abantu bazive ngathi babe ukuba ndixakekile ngamaxesha onke, ndingasathethi ke yabelana indlela abaxakeke ngayo kwimidiya yoluntu ukuze baqinisekise wonke umntu ngokuxakeka kwabo kunye nempumelelo yabo.

"Bendisenza konke okusemandleni ukuze ndizibambe ukuze ndonwabe BONKE amaxesha amancinci enza ubomi bam," ubhale watsho uHolliday nge-Instagram. Ngale nto, ukhethwe ukuba agcine uninzi lohambo lokuzilolonga abucala, hayi kuba engafuni ukuqhubeka nenkcubeko yomsebenzi, kodwa nangenxa yokuba "kukho ukubekwa amabala ngabantu abatyebileyo abasebenza ngaphandle," wabhala-ibala kuye kwanyanzeleka ukuba ahambe ixesha elininzi ebomini bakhe.

Ibala okanye akukho mabala, uHolliday ufuna nje abalandeli bakhe kunye nabalandeli ukuba bazi yena indlela eyiyo yokwenza umthambo. "Ndifuna nje ukwazi ukuba iimvakalelo zam malunga nokuqina kunye 'nempilo' zinento yokwenza nokunciphisa umzimba kunye nayo yonke into ekuphuculeni impilo yam yengqondo kunye nokuzomeleza," ubhale watsho. "Kuthathe ixesha elide ukuba ndiqonde ukuba ndifuna ukuzihlonipha nakweyiphi na imizimba endiyithathayo." (Idibeneyo: Njani iTess Holliday ikhuthaza umzimba wakhe ukuzithemba ngeentsuku ezimbi)

Eyona nto iphambili kwiHoliday kukuba ukomelela kumalunga nendlela ukuzilolonga okumenza azive ngayo-hayi ukuba kujongeka njani kwifidi yakhe ye-Instagram, okanye zingaphi "ukuthanda" okuya kufumana isithuba. Ibali le-IG lokuphinda usebenze kwakhona liphela emva kweeyure ezingama-24. Ngokuphathelele ukungxama okuvuyisayo kwe-endorphins okufumana emva kokutyumza umthambo oqatha? Oko ayiphelelwa.

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