Kukho isizathu sokuba sithanda ukucofa kwi-Gross Stuff kwi-Intanethi

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I-intanethi ikuvumela ukuba ungakhange ujonge izinto ongenakuze ukwazi ukuzibona kwi-IRL, njengoTaj Mahal, iteyiphu yakudala yovavanyo lukaRachel McAdams, okanye ikatana edlala ngehedgehog. Ke kukho imifanekiso ongakhawuleziyo ukwabelana ngayo ngeFookook-inxeba elosulelekileyo, ukugqabhuka kwee-cysts, amathambo aphukileyo ancamathele kulusu ... Ew! Kwaye sihlala sicofa nje.

Ukujonga izinto ezingaqhelekanga kwi-Intanethi kunokukwenza uzive unesicaphucaphu, uxhalabile, uneentloni ... kwaye unomdla. Kuqhubeka ntoni ngale ntshukumisa? Kukho i-psychology ecacileyo kwesi senzo, iingcali zithi, kunye nesinyanzeliso sebhayoloji. Ingcaciso inokukwenza uzive ungcono kancinci malunga nembali yesikhangeli sakho.

Xa kuthelekiswa nolonwabo, usizi, uloyiko nomsindo, ukucaphuka kubonakala kade ekukhuleni komntwana, utsho uAlexander J.Skolnick, Ph.D., unjingalwazi oncedisayo kwizifundo zengqondo kwiYunivesithi yaseSaint Joseph. Phantse kwiminyaka emibini, abazali basebenzise isikizi xa umntwana efundiswa indlu yangasese, utshilo. “Baya kuthi, ‘Musa ukudlala ngendle yakho, musa ukuyiphatha, imbi kakhulu.’” Kwaloo ngcamango ifanayo yokuhlazisa isetyenziswa ekuchameni kwidiaper yabo, ekufakeni ukutya ezinweleni zabo, ezama ukutya ukungcola, nasekudleni ukungcola. kakhulu ngakumbi. (Njengokuthi, ukutya ukutya emva kokukulahla. Ukuthetha, fumana ukuba ithini iNzululwazi malunga noMgaqo wesi-5 weSibini.)

"Uluvo lokuzivelela kwezinto kukuba, yintoni esebenzayo malunga nezothe? Isigcina sikhuselekile," uqhubeke uSkolnick. "Ukutya okubolileyo kunencasa emuncu, ekrakra, kwaye le yinto kuthi. Siyayikhafula." Incasa engaqhelekanga kunye nevumba elibi likukhusela ekutyeni ibhaktheriya enokukugulisa. Iifoto okanye iividiyo zamanxeba zifeza injongo efanayo. USkolnick uhlala ekhaba enye yeeklasi zakhe zengqondo ngokukhuthaza abafundi ukuba bangakhangeli umfanekiso kuGoogle "balahle isigcawu" nangona kunjalo, bayakwenza, kwaye usenokuba ngoku. "Ngamanye amaxesha siyothuka xa sibona umntu onerhashalala ebomvu okanye i-welts. Asifuni kuma ecaleni kwabo. Elo siko lisigcina sikhuselekile kwizinto ezosulelayo."

Ke ukuba oko kuchaza ukuba kutheni sifuna ukuzonyanyeka, kutheni sisenza njengaye ukucekiseka (uyazi ukuba ucofe umdlalo Ubuncinci ividiyo enye ekhuthaza ukuba ikhutshwe kwi-Facebook feed)? UClark McCauley, Ph.D., uprofesa wezengqondo kwiKholeji yaseBryn Mawr, unezimvo ezithile. "Kuyafana nokuba kutheni abantu behamba kwii-roller coasters. Uziva usoyika, nangona uyazi ukuba ukhuselekile," utshilo. "Ufumana ixabiso elikhulu lokuvusa kubo." Ewe, ukuvusa umzimba akuthethi nje ngesondo; Cinga ngayo yonke imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo eyenza ukuphefumla nokuphefumla kwentliziyo yakho. "I-Arousal inecandelo elincomekayo, njengoko ihlasela le ndlela yomvuzo," ucacisa. (Echaza zonke izizathu ezingaqhelekanga ukuba uthande iipaki zokuzonwabisa.)

I-Skolnick iphinda ifanise i-Googling izinto ezimbi kunye nokubukela imuvi eyoyikisayo. Inqaku elipheleleyo kukuzikhulula kwindawo elawulwa ngokupheleleyo, ekhuselekileyo-awusoze ngokwenene kwingozi. I-intanethi, ewe, iyenza ikhuseleke ngakumbi-konke okufuneka ukwenze kukuvaleka ngefestile kwaye into eyoyikisayo iyanyamalala. Kwaye akukho mntu ufunayo ukuba uyazi ukuba ukhethe ukubonakala kwasekuqaleni, ukuba ukhuhle imbali yakho yesikhangeli.

Asingabo bonke abafuna uloyiko, okanye i-freaks kulo mbandela. USkolnick ukholelwa ukuba esi sidingo kuGoogle sinokubanjiswa ngomnqweno wokwenene wabantu. "Sifuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni engalunganga apha phandle, yintoni eyoyikisayo phaya," utshilo. Xa kuziwa kumtshato wesini ongaqhelekanga, "awufuni jonga Izenzo zesondo, ufuna nje ukwazi ukuba yintoni phaya ngaphandle, "ucacisa uSkolnick. (Funda ngakumbi ngeBongo yakho kwi-Fetish yesini.)

Ukuba usenexhala malunga nesizukulwana esiphakanyiswe kumanxeba abosulelekileyo kunye ne-porn engaqhelekanga, qiniseka ukuba i-intanethi inokuba yinto entsha, kodwa imfuno yezinto ezimbi ayikho. "Abantu abaziphethe kakubi," utshilo uMcCauley. "Awahlukanga, kodwa ukufikelela kwabo kunjalo." Ke nokuba uthe phithi kukufunda amabali amdaka kwiReddit, yazi ukuba umakhulu-makhulu wakho ngewayebanjiswe ngocingo ngendlela efanayo. Ukwahluka okwahlukileyo kukwazi 'ukucacisa imbali' emva kokuba uzonwabisile.

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