Ezi "Iikhondom zeMvume" zithatha abantu ababini ukuvula ipakethe

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Imvume isenokungabi sesona sifundo sinesini kwisifundo, kodwa xa kukho ingxoxo evulekileyo akunjalo Kuyakhuthazeka, ukuseka oku phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho kungawa ngokulula ecaleni kwendlela — ngakumbi xa kushushu izinto. Yiyo loo nto inkampani yaseArgentina yokudlala iTulipán idale "iikhondom zemvume," ezifuna ukuba abantu ababini bavule ipakethe. (Inxulumene: "Ukuba" yeyona nto iqinisekileyo ngokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo kwaye lixesha lokuba umthetho uqonde ukuba kunjalo)

Ubhidekile? Ungabi-yinto elula kakhulu ingcamango xa uyibona.

Nantsi indlela esebenza ngayo: Ikhondom ifakwe ngaphakathi kwebhokisi encinci, eyisikweri, kwaye kufuneka ucinezele zonke iikona zone zepakethe (kukho amaqhosha kwicala ngalinye abonisa indawo yokucofa) ngaxeshanye ukuze uyivule.

"Le pakethi ilula ukuyivula njengoko kufuneka uyiqonde ukuba ukuba ayithi ewe, hayi," ufunda umbhalo oguqulweyo ohamba nentengiso yevidiyo. "Imvume yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kwisini." (Idibeneyo: Iindlela ezi-3 zokuZikhusela ekuhlaselweni ngokwesondo)

I-Tulipán inokuthi ivelise iithoyi zesini, kodwa inkampani ikholelwa ekubeni uyolo kunye nemvume ziyahambelana. "UTulipán uye wahlala ethetha ngolonwabo olukhuselekileyo, kodwa ngeli phulo saqonda ukuba kufuneka sithethe ngeyona nto ibalulekileyo kuyo yonke ubudlelwane bezesondo: ulonwabo lunokwenzeka kuphela ukuba nobabini ninika imvume yenu kuqala," isithethi seBBDO Argentina, iarhente yentengiso eyile uyilo, utshilo kwingxelo ku Iveki. (Idibeneyo: Ufumana njani ulonwabo ngakumbi kwizikhundla zesondo eziqhelekileyo)

"Ikhondomu yemvume" ayithengiswa eArgentina; okwangoku, iTulipán isasaza ilizwi kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo kwaye inikezela ngeesampulu zasimahla kwiibhari zaseBuenos Aires, ngokutsho KwiPosi yaseNew York.

Ukuba uluvo "lwekhondomu yemvume" luvakala luluhlwayi, kulungile, injalo loo nto. Ukuthetha malunga nemvume ngu Uhlobo olunzima ngamanye amaxesha, ngakumbi ukuba awufuni ukulimaza okanye ukwala iqabane lakho, utshilo uSherrie Campbell, Ph.D., umcebisi onelayisensi, ugqirha wezengqondo, kunye nomtshato kunye nonyango losapho.

Imvume ihlala ilahleka "koloyiko lokwaliwa, ucacisa. "Singathanda ukucela into esiyifunayo kumzamo wokungakhathazi omnye umntu; okwangoku, siyazenzakalisa," utshilo. Ubume.

Malunga nowasetyhini omnye kwabahlanu kunye nenye kumadoda angama-71 baya kuhlaselwa ngokwesondo ngaxa lithile ebomini babo, ngokweZiko leSizwe leZibonelelo ngoBundlobongela ngokweSondo. Ngaphezu, malunga nesiqingatha samaxhoba ababhinqileyo bahlaselwa liqabane elisenyongweni. "Ikhondomu yemvume" ayizukutshintsha manani, kodwa yona yenza bonakalisa inyathelo kwicala elifanelekileyo. Sithetha ngakumbi malunga nemvume kwezi ntsuku kunanini na ngaphambili, kubandakanya ukuba zithini na ezo ncoko kunye neqabane lakho owabelana nalo ngesondo. Xa konke kuthethiwe kwaye kwenziwe, umgca ovulekileyo wonxibelelwano yeyona ndlela yokufumana nayiphi na umba onzima. (Eyeleleneyo: Uhlaselo ngokwesondo luchaphazela iMpilo yengqondo kunye neyoMzimba, ngokweSifundo esitsha)

Ukuthetha ngesondo kufuneka ube nomonde, ububele, kunye nokuqonda, uthemba ukuba ukuba iqabane lethu lisithanda kakhulu, uyakuzihlonipha iimfuno zethu zemida, utshilo uGqirha Campbell. "Akukho mntu kufuneka afune ukulala ngesondo nomntu esazi ukuba akakhululekile okanye akakulungele."

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