Eyona nto ithetha ukuba noBuntu bohlobo C

Umxholo

• Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo
• Ukuchonga uhlobo lwakho
• Amandla okutshintsha
• Udlala kakuhle nabanye
• Ungathanda ukunceda
• Uzinikele
• Ungumcwangcisi
• Uzixabisile iinyani
• Izinto ekufuneka zikhunjulwe
• Ukuziqinisekisa
• Ukuthetha ngokweemvakalelo
• Impikiswano esempilweni
• Ukufuna ukwenza izinto ngendlela egqibeleleyo
• Ukuphelelwa lithemba
• Ukuqwalaselwa kwezempilo
• Impembelelo yengqondo
• Umgca wezantsi

Ukuba uyakonwabela ukufunda ngakumbi ngobuntu bakho, awuwedwa nakancinane.

Umthamo opheleleyo wemibuzo yobuntu ekwi-intanethi (yeyiphi i "Game of Thrones" Character Ngaba ukhona? Nabani na?) Ugxininisa indlela exhaphake ngayo lo mdla.

Ngelixa kumnandi ukufanisa iimpawu zobuntu nomlinganiswa owuthandayo (ngokuqinisekileyo hayi Ngokukhetha iimpendulo ezicacileyo zokufumana iziphumo ozifunayo), iingcali ziphuhlise iindlela ezininzi zesayensi, ezixhaswe ngophando zokuchaza ubuntu.

Oku kubandakanya i-Myers-Briggs Type Indicator kunye novavanyo olukhulu lwabantu abahlanu.

Usenokuba ukhe weva ngamanye amanyathelo anzima-amanye alula njengo-A, B, C, no-D.

Ngelixa unokuba nolwazi malunga nohlobo A kunye nohlobo B ubuntu, ukuphononongwa kutshanje kohlobo C lweempawu zobuntu kusenokwenzeka ukuba akuzange kufike kwi-radar yakho okwangoku.

Nantsi inkcazo emfutshane: Abantu abanobuntu bohlobo C bahlala bebonakala:

• cwaka
• kugxilwe
• ungenise
• ndicinga nzulu

Banokuba nengxaki yokuvula ngokwasemphefumlweni nasekuboniseni iimfuno, bekhetha ukuvumela abanye babenendlela yabo yokugcina ukuvumelana kweqela.

Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo

U “c” kuhlobo C unokumela:

• iyahambelana
• ilawulwa
• cwaka
• intsebenziswano
• uyilo
• ukumelana nokungqubana

Ezi mpawu zingabonisa ngakumbi kwezi ndlela zilandelayo zokuziphatha:

• utyekelo lokufuna ukugqibelela
• kunzima ukulungelelanisa utshintsho olungafunekiyo
• umdla kwiinkcukacha ezincinci
• uvakalelo kwiimfuno zabanye
• umphandle wangaphandle
• ukungabi nathemba
• utyekelo lokukhanyela okanye ukunqanda iimvakalelo ezigabadeleyo
• Uvakalelo lwangaphakathi lokungancedi okanye ukungabi nathemba

Ukuchonga uhlobo lwakho

Ubuntu bunokuba nzima, ngenxa yoko akusoloko kulula (okanye kusebenza) ukukhupha iimpawu zakho ezizodwa kunye namandla akho kudidi olunye.

Kodwa ukuba ngaphezulu kwezi mpawu zingasentla zichongiwe kuwe, usenokuzibuza ukuba ungabona njani ukuba, eneneni, uthambekele ekuxhomekekeni kuhlobo C lobuntu.

Ukufumana ukuqonda ngakumbi, zama ukuzibuza le mibuzo ingezantsi:

• Ngaba ndizama konke okusemandleni am ukunceda abanye, nokuba kunempembelelo embi emsebenzini wam, kwimood, nakwimpilo-ntle yam?
• Ngaba ndiyaphanda kwaye ndicinge ngezigqibo zam (kunye neziphumo ezinokubakho) ngononophelo ngaphambi kokuthatha inyathelo?
• Ngaba ndiyakhathazeka xa kufuneka ndisebenze nabanye abantu-zombini kuba ndikhetha ukuba ndedwa kwaye ndikholelwa ekubeni ndingenza umsebenzi ongcono ndedwa?
• Ngaba ndinengxaki yokuzeyisa xa ndinestres?
• Ngaba ndiziva ndifuna ukulawula imeko-bume yam?
• Ngaba ndichitha ixesha elininzi ndiqinisekisa ukuba umsebenzi wam awunaziphene?
• Ngaba ndiyavana nabantu abaninzi kodwa ndikhetha ukuchitha ixesha lam ndedwa?
• Ngaba ndihlala ndithe cwaka ngezinto ezindicaphukisayo ndize ndizithele ngasese?
• Ngaba kubalulekile kum ukuba wonke umntu ayavana?
• Ngaba ndiyathanda ukuchitha ixesha elininzi ndiphanda izihloko kunye nemibono emitsha?
• Ngaba ndisebenza nzima ukufezekisa iinjongo zam?
• Ngaba kunzima ukuveza iimfuno kunye neemvakalelo zam?
• Ngaba ukungakwazi ukuthetha le nto ndiyifunayo kundenza ndizive ndikhathazekile okanye ndingenakuzinceda?

Iimpendulo zakho aziboneleli ngokuqinisekileyo ubungqina besimbo sakho.

Oko utshilo, ukuphendula ngo-ewe kuninzi (okanye konke) kule mibuzo ingentla ucebisa ukuba uhambelane kakuhle nenkcazo ekuvunyelwene ngayo ngokubanzi yohlobo C lobuntu.

Amandla okutshintsha

Ubuntu buyafuneka kubuntu, kodwa ubuntu ngokwabo abulunganga kwaye abubi.

Njengabantu abaninzi, unokuthiya amagama amandla aphambili, okanye izinto owaziyo ukuba uzenza kakuhle, kunye neendawo ezimbalwa onokufuna ukusebenza kuzo.

Ukuba unobuntu bohlobo C, usenokuba uqaphele ezi zinto zilandelayo zilandelayo:

Udlala kakuhle nabanye

Abantu abanobuntu bohlobo C bathambekele ekubeni nobuntununtunu kwiimfuno neemvakalelo zabanye.

Ungadlala uxolo, usebenza ukunceda wonke umntu ukuba afike kwisivumelwano- okanye ubuncinci kulungelelwaniso-emsebenzini, esikolweni, okanye kubudlelwane bakho.

Abahlobo kunye nabantakwenu banokufuna uluvo lwakho malunga nokungavisisani, kwaye unokuba nesakhono sokwenza abantu basebenzisane.

Xa ucaphuka okanye ucaphuka, uye uthande ukuphepha ukubonisa ezi mvakalelo.

Oku akusoloko kuyeyona ndlela inemveliso yokujongana nezi mvakalelo, kodwa iyabanceda abanye ukuba bakuthathe njengolungileyo kwaye kulula ukusebenzisana nabo.

Ungathanda ukunceda

Uncedo luphawu oluphambili lohlobo C. Ufuna izinto zihambe ngokutyibilikayo, kwaye ufuna ukugcina abantu bonwabile, ukuze ubenexhala lokuba abanye baziva njani nokuba bayazifumana na izinto abazifunayo.

Ngenxa yoko, ungangowokuqala ukunika isisombululo xa umntu ebambekile.

Ukuba umntu osebenza naye ukhathazekile ngokungazukuyigqiba iprojekhthi yabo ngexesha, unganikezela ngokuhlala emva kwexesha kwaye ungene.

Uzinikele

Ukuba unobuntu bohlobo C, ngokunokwenzeka uneliso elihle ngeenkcukacha kunye namandla aphucukileyo okugxila.

Unomnqweno onamandla wokufezekisa. Olu dibana lunokunyusa amathuba okuphumelela kunye neenjongo zakho.

Awunangxaki yokubona i-snags ezinokubakho kwaye uza nezisombululo apha endleleni, kwaye kunokubonakala kungokwemvelo ukunamathela kwizigqibo zakho, ukuzilandela de kube sekupheleni.

Ungumcwangcisi

Ukuze ufezekise iinjongo zakho, uzimisele ngokupheleleyo ukwenza umlenze owongezelelweyo ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukhethe eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuphumelela. Oku kunokubandakanya:

• uphando ngokulungileyo kunye nokubi
• ukulungiselela iziphumo ezingafunekiyo
• Ukujonga iimeko ezahlukeneyo
• ukulungiselela utshintsho oluzayo

Konke ukucwangciswa ngokubanzi kuhlawula, nako.

Khange uphumelele okokuqala? Kulungile. Unesicwangciso sokugcina (okanye ezimbalwa) epokothweni yakho.

Uzixabisile iinyani

Ngubani ongakuqondiyo ukubaluleka kobungqina besayensi kunye nolunye ulwazi oluyinyani?

Abantu abanobuntu bohlobo C bathambekele ekubeni neempendulo ezichanekileyo. Ukuba awazi nto, uya kuthatha ixesha lokwenza uphando ukuze ufumane impendulo kunye nobungqina bokuyibuyisela.

Olu tyekelo lokubeka phambili izinto kunye nobungqina aluthethi ukuba awuyileli. Ngapha koko, inokukunceda ukuba ucinge ngakumbi ngobuchule.

Unokuba netalente yokufumana iindlela ezizodwa zokusebenzisa ulwazi ngaphandle kokuphambuka kwinto onokuyibonisa, enokukunceda kakuhle kwimisebenzi efana nomthetho kunye nemfundo.

Izinto ekufuneka zikhunjulwe

Sonke sinesiphene kunye neendawo ezinokuthi zisebenzise uphuhliso. Emva koko, singabantu kuphela.

Kodwa ukufunda ukuziqonda ezi nkalo zobuthathaka kunokwenza kube lula ukuzilungisa kwaye uthathe amanyathelo okuphucula.

Ukuba unobuntu bohlobo C, unokuzabalaza:

Ukuziqinisekisa

Unokubona ukuvumela abanye ukuba babe nendlela yabo njengendlela yokuququzelela ukuvumelana.

Kodwa ukungathethi ngento oyifunayo, nokuba kuziwa kwizinto ezilula ezinjengokubukela imovie, kungakhokelela kukukhathazeka kunye nenzondo.

Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuba nenkxalabo ngabanye, kodwa olu phawu lunokuba negalelo kutyekelo lokukholisa abantu.

Ukufuna abanye bacinge kakuhle ngawe kungenza kube nzima ukuthi hayi xa umntu ecela uncedo, umzekelo.

Kodwa ukuba awufuni nyani ukunceda okanye sele uneshedyuli exakekileyo, ukuthatha ngaphezulu kuya kwandisa uxinzelelo lwakho.

Kubalulekile ukuba uqinisekise ngeemfuno zakho, nazo. Inxalenye yokuthethela ngokwakho ithi hayi xa ufuna ukulawula ukuzibophelela kwakho kuqala.

Ukuthetha ngokweemvakalelo

Abantu abanobuntu bohlobo C bathanda ukulwa nokuba nolwazi ngezinto ezintle okanye iimvakalelo ezingalunganga. Abanye banokukubona njengomntu osengqiqweni, wabucala osoloko ezigcina epholile.

Ngelixa ukuba nengqiqo kunokuba nezibonelelo, ukucinezela iimvakalelo zakho kunokuba nokuhla.

Inokuba nefuthe elibi kubudlelwane bakho. Ubunzima bokuchaza ezakho iimvakalelo bunokwenza ukuba kube nzima ukuqonda iimvakalelo kunye nolwimi lomzimba lwabanye.

Usenokucinga ukuba abanye abantu banomsindo okanye bacaphukile xa bengekho, umzekelo.

Inokuchaphazela nempilo yakho. Abantu abacinezela iimvakalelo bahlala benamanqanaba aphezulu e-cortisol, ihormone yoxinzelelo, kunye nokukhusela okuncinci kwisifo.

Impikiswano esempilweni

Awuyithandi ingxabano? Mhlawumbi uyifumana yoyikisa kwaye uyiphephe kangangoko kunokwenzeka.

Oko kuhle ngokwesiqhelo njengobuntu bohlobo C buya. Unokuba nomzabalazo wokuzisa iimvakalelo zokukhathazeka kunye nomsindo kwaye uziveze ngobundlongondlongo endaweni yoko okanye ubacinezele ngokupheleleyo.

Uninzi lwabantu alufuni ukuphikisana. Kodwa ukungavumelani kwinto ayithethi ukuba uphikisana ngayo.

Abantu bahluke kakhulu, kwaye kwanabo banolwalamano olusondeleyo mhlawumbi abayi kuhlala bevuma.

"Ungquzulwano" kuhlala kubonakala ngathi ligama elibi, kodwa unganakho ukungqubana okwakhayo, okunempilo ngokuliphatha ngendlela eyiyo.

Ukufunda ukusebenza ngokungavisisani ngokufanelekileyo kunokubanceda ubudlelwane bakho, hayi ukubenzakalisa.

Ukufuna ukwenza izinto ngendlela egqibeleleyo

Uyazingca ngomsebenzi wakho. Ufuna iimpendulo ezichanekileyo kwaye uqiniseke ukuba iinkcukacha ezincinci zichanekile.

Ukwaneliseka komsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle kunokukukhuthaza, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba uchithe kancinci naye ixesha elininzi lokuqinisekisa ukuba zonke iinkalo zomsebenzi wakho zilungile, zilungile.

Inyaniso kukuba, ukugqibelela kunzima kakhulu ukufikelela.

Xa ugxila ekufumaneni yonke into ngokuchanekileyo, nokuba uyila iprofayile ebalulekileyo yomsebenzi okanye ukhathaza ileta eya kumntu othandana naye, uhlala ulahlekelwa ngumbono wezona zinto zibalulekileyo: ukusebenza nzima kunye neemvakalelo zakho zothando , ngokulandelelana.

Ukufuna ukwenza izinto ngendlela egqibeleleyo kunokukugcina ungahambeli phambili ebomini.

Ukuba ubanjwa kukuzama ukwenza into egqibeleleyo, njengobudlelwane, ulungiselelo lokuphila, okanye umhlobo onamandla, usenokungaphumeleli ukuqaphela xa loo meko ingasazifezekisi iimfuno zakho.

Ukuphelelwa lithemba

Ngokulindela okubi, ungathatha amanyathelo okulungiselela ezo ziphumo zingafunekiyo, akunjalo? Ngale ndlela, ukungabi nathemba kunokukunceda.

Kodwa ukuphelelwa lithemba akusoloko kunceda. Ukuba ulungisa izinto ezingenakulindeleka, ungaphelela ekubeni uzive usoyika kakhulu iimeko ezinobuzaza ukuthatha naliphi na inyathelo konke konke.

Usenokuba uqaphele ukuba ukuphelelwa lithemba kuthambekele ekuziseni umhlobo osondeleyo, ukuthetha okungathandekiyo.

Ukuba uhlala ucinga ngethemba, unokuphelelwa lithemba ngekamva lakho okanye amathuba okuphumelela okanye uzigxeke ngezinye iindlela.

Ukuqwalaselwa kwezempilo

Uhlobo C lwe… umhlaza?

Ukuba ukhe wafunda nantoni na malunga nohlobo C lomntu, unokuthi ukhubeke kwiimangalo zokuba abantu abanobuntu bohlobo C banomngcipheko ophezulu womhlaza.

Iingcali unxibelelwano oluqinisekileyo phakathi kohlobo C lweempawu zomhlaza. Nangona kunjalo, obunye ubungqina buchaza uhlobo oluthile lweempawu C ezinokuthi zibe negalelo kumngcipheko womhlaza, ngokungangqinelaniyo nokudibanisa zombini.

Njengoko kukhankanyiwe ngasentla, iimvakalelo ezicinezelweyo zinokuchaphazela amajoni akho omzimba. Ukuba amajoni akho omzimba awasebenzi njengoko kufanelekile, unokuba semngciphekweni wokugula okuninzi, kubandakanya nomhlaza.

Ukwaphawula abantu abanobuntu bohlobo C bahlala benengxaki ekulawuleni uxinzelelo, kubandakanya uxinzelelo olunxulumene neemvakalelo ezicinezelweyo.

Ukonyuka koxinzelelo kunye nokunye ukungalingani kwehomoni kunokukwenza ube semngciphekweni womhlaza xa unezinye izinto ezinobungozi.

Impembelelo yengqondo

Uhlobo C lweempawu zobuntu ezinxulunyaniswe noxinzelelo kunye neemvakalelo zokuphelelwa lithemba.

Ubunzima bokuchaza iimvakalelo bunokudlala kuxinzelelo. Xa ungakwazi ukuveza iimfuno zakho kwaye uphephe ingqumbo okanye unxunguphalo, ugcina uziva ungavunyelwa, ucaphukile, okanye ungafunwa.

Ukuba le pateni iyaqhubeka, unokukufumanisa kunzima ukucinga ngezinto eziguqukayo, ezinokuthi zibe negalelo ekuphelelweni lithemba, ukugxeka, kunye neemvakalelo eziphantsi.

Ukuba ulwa nokudakumba okanye ukungabi nathemba okanye ukufumana kunzima ukwabelana ngeemvakalelo zakho nabanye, ugqirha unokukunika isikhokelo kwaye akuncede ujonge izinto ezinegalelo kule micimbi.

Umgca wezantsi

Ubuntu bunokuchaphazela indlela ophendula ngayo kwimiceli mngeni kunye nezinye izinto zobomi bemihla ngemihla, kodwa ayizenzi ngqo ezo ngxaki.

Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga neempawu ezithile zobuntu okanye ufuna ukufunda iindlela ezintsha zokujongana noxinzelelo okanye ukunxibelelana nabanye, ukuthetha nonyango kunokuba linyathelo lokuqala.

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