Izinto ezi-5 zokwazi ngaphambi kokuba uye kwiNdawo yokuqala yokuNyulwa kwengqondo

Umxholo

• Yiza uzilungiselele ngembali yakho yezonyango
• Zilungiselele ukuba ugqirha wengqondo akubuze imibuzo
• Kulungile ukufumana iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo
• Uya kusebenza ekudaleni isicwangciso sekamva
• Ingcali yakho yengqondo yokuqala isenokungabi yeyakho
• Yintoni omele uyenze emva kweseshoni yakho yokuqala
  
• Umgca wezantsi

Ukubona ugqirha wezifo zengqondo okokuqala kunokuba luxinzelelo, kodwa ukuya ekulungiseleleni kunokunceda.

Njengogqirha wezifo zengqondo, ndihlala ndisiva kwizigulana zam ngexesha lotyelelo lwabo lokuqala malunga nokuba bebeyeke kangakanani ukubona ugqirha wengqondo ngenxa yoloyiko. Bakwathetha nangendlela ababenovalo ngayo ababekhokelela ekuqeshweni.

Okokuqala, ukuba uthathe inyathelo eliphambili ukuseta idinga, ndiyakuncoma kuba ndiyazi ukuba ayisiyonto ilula ukuyenza. Okwesibini, ukuba uluvo lokuya kwingqesho yakho yokuqala yengqondo inoxinzelelo, enye yeendlela zokukunceda ukukwenza oku kukwazi into onokuyilindela ngaphambi kwexesha.

Oku kunokuba yiyo nantoni na xa usiza uzilungiselele ngembali yakho yezonyango kunye neyengqondo ukuze uvuleleke kwinto yokuba iseshoni yakho yokuqala inokukhupha iimvakalelo ezithile-kwaye usazi ukuba oku kulungile.

Ke, ukuba wenze idinga lakho lokuqala nogqirha wengqondo, funda apha ngezantsi ukufumanisa ukuba ungalindela ntoni kutyelelo lwakho lokuqala, ukongeza kwiingcebiso zokukunceda ulungiselele kwaye uzive ukhululeke ngakumbi.

Yiza uzilungiselele ngembali yakho yezonyango

Uya kubuzwa malunga nembali yakho yezonyango kunye neyengqondo-yobuqu kunye nosapho-ke zilungiselele ngokuzisa oku kulandelayo:

• uluhlu olupheleleyo lwamayeza, ukongeza kunyango lwengqondo
• Uluhlu lwayo nayiphi na kunye nawo onke amayeza ezigulo zengqondo onokuthi uzame ngaphambili, kubandakanya nokuba ubuthathe ixesha elingakanani
• iingxaki zakho zonyango kunye naluphi na ukuxilongwa
• Imbali yosapho yemicimbi yengqondo, ukuba ikho

Kwakhona, ukuba ukhe wambona ugqirha wezifo zengqondo kwixa elidlulileyo, kuluncedo kakhulu ukuzisa ikopi yezo rekhodi, okanye iirekhodi zakho zithunyelwe zisuka kwi-ofisi yangaphambili ziye kugqirha wengqondo omtsha oza kumbona.

Zilungiselele ukuba ugqirha wengqondo akubuze imibuzo

Nje ukuba ukwiseshoni yakho, unokulindela ukuba ugqirha wengqondo uza kukubuza isizathu sokuba ungene ukuze ubabone. Banokubuza ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kubandakanya:

• “Ke, ungeniswa yintoni namhlanje?”
• Ndixelele ukuba uze ntoni apha. ”
• "Unjani?"
• "Ndingakunceda njani?"

Ukubuzwa umbuzo ovulekileyo kunokukwenza ube novalo, ngakumbi ukuba awazi ukuba uqale ngaphi okanye uqale njani. Qaphela ukwazi ukuba akukho ndlela iphosakeleyo yokuphendula kwaye ugqirha wengqondo olungileyo uya kukukhokela kudliwanondlebe.

Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, ufuna ukuza uzilungiselele, qiniseka ukunxibelelana nezinto ohlangabezana nazo kwaye, ukuba uziva ukhululekile, yabelana ngeenjongo onqwenela ukuziphumeza ekubeni kunyango.

Kulungile ukufumana iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo

Unokukhala, uzive ungakhululekanga, okanye uve iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeemvakalelo ngelixa uxoxa ngezinto ezikuxhalabisayo, kodwa yazi ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ilungile.

Ukuvuleka nokwabelana ngebali lakho kuthatha amandla kunye nesibindi, esinokuziva sidinekile ngokwasemphefumlweni, ngakumbi ukuba ucinezele iimvakalelo zakho ixesha elide. Nayiphi na iofisi esemgangathweni yengqondo iya kuba nebhokisi yezicubu, ke ungathandabuzi ukuzisebenzisa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, yile nto bakhona.

Eminye yemibuzo ebuzwe malunga nembali yakho inokuzisa imiba ebuthathaka, enje ngembali yomothuko okanye ukuxhatshazwa. Ukuba awuziva ukhululekile okanye ungakulungeli ukwabelana, nceda wazi ukuba kulungile ukuvumela ugqirha wengqondo azi ukuba sisihloko esinovakalelo kwaye awukulungelanga ukuxoxa ngalo mbandela ngokubanzi.

Uya kusebenza ekudaleni isicwangciso sekamva

Kuba uninzi lwezigulo zengqondo ngokubanzi zibonelela ngolawulo lwamayeza, ukhetho kunyango luya kuxutyushwa ekupheleni kweseshoni yakho. Isicwangciso sonyango sinokubandakanya:

• ukhetho lwamayeza
• Ukuthunyelwa kunyango lwengqondo
• inqanaba lokhathalelo olufunekayo, umzekelo, ukuba kufuneka ukhathalelo olunzulu ngakumbi ukujongana neempawu zakho ngokufanelekileyo, ukhetho lokufumana inkqubo efanelekileyo yonyango luya kuxoxwa
• naziphi na iilebhu okanye iinkqubo ezinje ngeemvavanyo ezisisiseko ngaphambi kokuqala kwamayeza okanye iimvavanyo zokukhupha naziphi na iimeko zonyango ezinokuba negalelo kwiimpawu

Ukuba unemibuzo malunga nokuxilongwa, unyango, okanye unqwenela ukwabelana ngezinto ezikuxhalabisayo, qiniseka ukuba uzinxibelelana neli nqanaba ngaphambi kokuphela kweseshoni.

Ingcali yakho yengqondo yokuqala isenokungabi yeyakho

Nangona ugqirha wezifo zengqondo ekhokelela kwiseshoni, ngena ngengqondo yokuba udibana nogqirha wakho wengqondo ukuze ubone ukuba bakulungele na wena. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba olona nyango lonyango oluyimpumelelo luxhomekeke kumgangatho wobudlelwane kunyango.

Ke, ukuba unxibelelwano aluguquki ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye awuva ukuba imiba yakho iyaqwalaselwa, ngelo xesha unokukhangela omnye ugqirha wengqondo kwaye ufumane uluvo lwesibini.

Yintoni omele uyenze emva kweseshoni yakho yokuqala

• Rhoqo emva kotyelelo lokuqala, izinto ziya kuthi gqi engqondweni yakho onqwenela ukuba ubuze. Qaphela ezi zinto kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uzibhala phantsi ukuze ungalibali ukuzikhankanya kutyelelo olulandelayo.
• Ukuba ulushiye utyelelo lwakho lokuqala uziva kakubi, yazi ukuba ukwakha ubudlelwane bonyango kungathatha utyelelo olungaphezulu kwesinye. Ke, ngaphandle kokuba ukutyunjwa kwakho kube yinto eyoyikekayo nengathethekiyo, jonga ukuba zihamba njani izinto kutyelelo olulandelayo.

Umgca wezantsi

Ukuziva ukhathazekile ngokubona ugqirha wezifo zengqondo yinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa ungavumeli olo loyiko lukuthintele ekufumaneni uncedo kunye nonyango olukufaneleyo noludingayo. Ukuba nokuqonda ngokubanzi ukuba zeziphi iintlobo zemibuzo eza kubuzwa kunye nezihloko ekuza kuxoxwa ngazo ngokuqinisekileyo zinokunciphisa ezinye iinkxalabo zakho kwaye zikwenze uzive ukhululeke ngakumbi kwindibano yakho yokuqala.

Kwaye khumbula, ngamanye amaxesha ugqirha wezifo zengqondo oqala ukumbona kusenokwenzeka ukuba angakulungelanga wena. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, olu lukhathalelo kunye nonyango lwakho - ufanelwe ngugqirha wezifo zengqondo oziva ukhululekile kunye naye, okulungeleyo ukuphendula imibuzo yakho, kwaye ngubani oza kusebenzisana nawe ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho zonyango.

Ugqirha Vania Manipod, DO, ngugqirha wezifo zengqondo oqinisekisiweyo, uncedisayo ngunjingalwazi wezonyango kwiYunivesithi yaseNtshona yezeMpilo, kwaye okwangoku e-Ventura, California. Ukholelwa kwindlela epheleleyo yokunyanga ngengqondo ebandakanya iindlela zokwenza unyango ngengqondo, ukutya, kunye nendlela yokuphila, ukongeza kulawulo lwamayeza xa kubonisiwe. UGqirha Manipod uye wakha oku kulandelayo kwilizwe liphela kwimithombo yeendaba ezisekwe kwimisebenzi yakhe yokunciphisa ibala lempilo yengqondo, ngakumbi ngaye I-Instagram kunye nebhlog, UFrud kunye neFashoni. Ngapha koko, uthethe kwilizwe lonke ngezihloko ezinjengokudinwa, ukonzakala kwengqondo ebuhlungu, kunye nemidiya yoluntu.