Kutheni sitshintshe indlela esithetha ngayo ngemizimba yabasetyhini

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Ukhe weva ukuba ukuvuma apho uhambe gwenxa linyathelo lokuqala lokulungisa. Ewe, kukhuselekile ukuthi uninzi lwe-intanethi-Shape.com ibandakanyiwe-ibikukungalunganga ngamabali athelekisa, isikhundla, okanye uluhlu lwamaqela amabhinqa ngemizimba yawo okanye ngamalungu athile omzimba. Ngokukodwa, sithetha ngezona "zintle" izintlu, ezinjengezona ziQinisekiso eziPhambili zika-2012 kunye neNkwenkwezi kunye ne-Top 10 Eyona nto i-Best-anxibe amaFit Fema kwi-Grammys ka-2012, zombini ezo, nangona kungekho njongo embi evela oogxa babo ababapapasha ngelo xesha kwaye ngaphandle kwento yokuba banonqakrazo oluninzi, ngamabali esingasoze senze ngendlela efanayo namhlanje kwi-2017.

Ayisiyiyo kuphela eyokuphinda sihlengahlengise ezi ntlobo zamabali ukunika ugcino lokuma (ngazo zonke iindlela zegama), abafazi be-badass esibathandayo kwaye siziva siphefumlelwe, kodwa siyenza umsebenzi wemihla ngemihla ukubhiyozela konke abafazi ngenxa yamandla abo, ukuzimisela, ukuzibophelela, kunye nesibindi-akukho namnye kubo onento yokwenza neembonakalo zabo. Oko kuthethiweyo, xa sibona umva webali lamva nje elipapashwe yiVogue.com, enesihloko esithi "Eyona mizimba iMfihlo yeVictoria yalo lonke ixesha, ukusuka eGisele Bündchen ukuya kuBella Hadid," besisazi ukuba asinakunikela ingxelo nje malunga nokusabela njenge ibali eliqhelekileyo leendaba. Kungenxa yokuba inxenye yoxanduva lwethu lokuqhubela phambili incoko kukuya kula mabali akudala asizidli ngawo-kwaye siphinda-phinda isithembiso sethu sokuba lilizwi (elikhulu) kwimbonakalo yomzimba.

Ukuba uye waphoswa buzz, Vogue uphantsi komlilo (aka isiphepho esinika ingxelo kuTwitter) ngebali abalipapashileyo phambi kweVictoria's Secret Fashion Show ngoLwesibini ebusuku, ebonisa imifanekiso yeemodeli ezivela kumdlalo weqonga we-1995 ukusukela namhlanje. Kunye nokuxoxa ngenkangeleko yabo kunye nokunxiba kwabo, ibali likwaqaphele ukuba imfihlo kaVictoria, ebisemanzini ashushu ngenxa yokuswela iyantlukwano, ukhethe imibutho yemisipha neyeembaleki kutsha nje. Nangona kunjalo, i-brand ye-lingerie ayikadibanisi imodeli yobukhulu bokudibanisa kumboniso-into ebonakala ngathi ikhupha umthunzi ofihlakeleyo ku-Ashley Graham, kunye nento esasiyibiza ngayo ngo-2015. Vogue bakhuthaze ibali kuTwitter, abasebenzisi bakhawulezile ukuphendula, besithi ukukhetha nje ukubonisa ezi modeli zikhethiweyo njengeyona "ibalaseleyo" ichazwa njengehlazo lomzimba. (Funda phezulu kwisayensi ye-fat-shaming, kwaye uyabona ukuba inokuba yingozi kangakanani na.)

"Injani na le nto?" ubhale umsebenzisi omnye. "Yonke imizimba yabo iyamangalisa kungoko behamba ngendlela eqaqambileyo kwiimpahla zabo zangaphantsi!" Omnye wabuza nje, "Kodwa, kwakhona, kutheni sithelekisa imizimba yabasetyhini?" Abanye babize ukuba umag asebenzise ukufikelela kwabo "ukukhulisa ukuzithemba, hayi ukukutshabalalisa." Ekugqibeleni, uluvo oluvela kubagqabazi yayingekuko ukugweba abantu ababhinqileyo kwinkangeleko yabo (nkqu nee-supermodel zangaphantsi) yayiyindlela yokuziphatha ngokwesini sonke esingathanda ukuba iphele, kodwa ikwakuxhalabisa ukuba ukuziqhelanisa kunceda ukukhuthaza ubuhle obungenakufezekiswa okanye ukulunga komzimba.

Nantsi into: Vogue akayedwanga. Kodwa ngelixa kuyinyaniso ukuba Ubumekunye nezinye izinto ezininzi ziye zathumela imijikelezo efanayo kwixesha elidlulileyo, siyakhuthazwa lolu hlobo lwezimvo ezisincedileyo ukuba sihambe kula mabali "emizimba emihle" aphelelwe lixesha. Siyayithanda into yokuba iincoko zethu ezidibeneyo ziye zavela. Yinxalenye yesizathu sokuba saqala intshukumo ethi Love My Shape phantse kwiminyaka emibini eyadlulayo, kwaye kutheni ubandakanyo kunye nokuqina komzimba kuyindlela yethu yokwenza izinto apha. #LuthandoLwamShape ayilo bali (nangona sinazo ezininzi). #LoveMyShape ayilophulo losasazo lweendaba (ewe, yiba nalo, nawe). #LuthandoLwamShape yindlela nje yokucinga, yokuzibonisa ngokwakho uthando-into esinethemba lokuba yinto yesibini kubasetyhini nangakumbi. Kuba ukuziva usempilweni kwaye wonwabile kulungiselelwe yonke umzimba.

Ngaba sisaya kukunika ulwazi lwangaphakathi malunga nendlela abantu abadumileyo abanjengoKhloé Kardashian noJulianne Hough abayifumana ngayo imizimba yabo emangalisayo? Ewe, kuba ngubani othi ziinkwenkwezi kuphela ekufuneka zifikelele kwabaqeqeshi abaphambili? Ngaba sisazokukunceda ufezekise iinjongo zakho zempilo-ntle, nokuba ziyintoni na? Ewe, kuba ukuphila ubomi obunempilo kuthetha ukuphila ubomi obude nobonwabisayo. Ngaba sisaza kukunceda ukuba unciphise umzimba okanye womelele ukuba yile nto uyifunayo? Isihogo ewe, kuba imizimba zizinto ezinamandla kakhulu, kwaye ukutyumza iinjongo zakho kuvakala kumnandi. Kodwa siza kuhlala sikukhumbuza ukuba uzithande ngqo ukuba unjani, ukuba ezobuGcisa boBuntu zibonakala zahlukile, kwaye ukuthatha usuku lokuphumla (okanye ezintathu) akufuneki ukuba uzuze-unetyala.

Ekupheleni kosuku, impendulo enamandla kweli bali lakutshanje sesinye isikhumbuzo kuthi sonke ukuba kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo kakhulu kwindlela esithetha ngayo ngemizimba yabasetyhini.

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