Ukuphazamiseka kubuntu

Ukungahambi kakuhle kubuntu yimeko yengqondo apho umntu anepateni yexesha elide yokuxhaphaza, ukuxhaphaza, okanye ukwaphula amalungelo abanye ngaphandle kokuzisola. Oku kuziphatha kunokubangela iingxaki kubudlelwane okanye emsebenzini kwaye kuhlala kulwaphulo mthetho.

Unobangela wale ngxaki ayaziwa. Imfuza yomntu kunye nezinye izinto, ezinje ngokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana, zinokuba negalelo ekuphuhliseni le meko. Abantu abanomzali ongathandani noluntu okanye utywala banomngcipheko omkhulu. Baninzi kakhulu abantu besilisa abachaphazelekayo. Le meko iqhelekile phakathi kwabantu abasentolongweni.

Ukubeka imililo kunye nenkohlakalo yezilwanyana ngexesha lobuntwana zihlala zibonwa kuphuhliso lobuntu bokuziphatha.

Abanye oogqirha bakholelwa ekubeni ubuntu be-psychopathic (psychopathy) sisifo esifanayo. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba ubuntu be-psychopathic buyinto efanayo, kodwa sisifo esibi ngakumbi.

Umntu onengxaki yokungafani noluntu unoku:

• Uyakwazi ukwenza ubuhlakani kwaye uyathandeka
• Yiba ngolungileyo ekubambeni nasekukhohliseni iimvakalelo zabanye abantu
• Waphule umthetho kaninzi
• Ungaluhoyi ukhuseleko lobuqu bakho kunye nolunye
• Unengxaki yokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi
• Ubuxoki, ukuba, kunye nokulwa rhoqo
• Ungabonakalisi ityala okanye ukuzisola
• Rhoqo yiba nomsindo okanye ukhukhumele

Ukungahambelani nobuntu kukuchongwa ngokusekwe kuvavanyo lwengqondo. Umboneleli ngononophelo lwempilo uya kuthathela ingqalelo ukuba zide kangakanani kwaye zinzima kangakanani iimpawu zomntu. Ukufunyaniswa ukuba unengxaki yokungafani noluntu, umntu kufuneka abeneengxaki zokuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha (ukungaziphathi kakuhle) ebuntwaneni.

Ukungahambi kakuhle komntu yenye yezona ngxaki zinzima zokunyanga. Abantu abakule meko bahlala bengafuni unyango ngokwabo. Banokuqala unyango kuphela xa befunwa yinkundla.

Unyango ngokuziphatha, njengaleyo evuza indlela efanelekileyo yokuziphatha kunye neziphumo ezibi zokuziphatha ngokungekho semthethweni, inokusebenza kwabanye abantu. Unyango lokuthetha lunokunceda.

Abantu abanobuntu bokungaziphathi kakuhle abanezinye iingxaki, ezinje ngemood okanye ukuphazamiseka kokusebenzisa iziyobisi, bahlala bephathwa kwezi ngxaki ngokunjalo.

Iimpawu zihlala ziphakamile ngexesha lokufikisa kunye nasekuqaleni kweminyaka yama-20. Ngamanye amaxesha baphucula ngokwabo ngexa umntu ekwi-40 yabo.

Iingxaki zinokubandakanya ukuvalelwa, ukusebenzisa iziyobisi, ukusebenzisa utywala, ubundlobongela kunye nokuzibulala.

Jonga umboneleli okanye ingcali yezempilo yengqondo ukuba wena okanye umntu omaziyo uneempawu zokungahambi kakuhle ekuhlaleni.

Ubuntu Sociopathic; Intlalontle; Ukuphazamiseka kubuntu-ukungabikho koluntu

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