Imibuzo yokubuza ugqirha womntwana wakho malunga nomhlaza

Umntwana wakho unonyango lomhlaza. Ezi zonyango zingabandakanya i-chemotherapy, unyango lwe-radiation, utyando, okanye ezinye iindlela zonyango. Umntwana wakho unokufumana ngaphezu kolunye unyango. Umboneleli wezempilo womntwana wakho unokufuna ukulandela umntwana wakho ngokusondeleyo ngexesha lonyango. Kuya kufuneka ukuba ufunde indlela yokukhathalela umntwana wakho ngeli xesha.

Apha ngezantsi kukho imibuzo onokufuna ukuyibuza umboneleli womntwana wakho ukuba akuncede ucwangcise kwangaphambili kwaye wazi ukuba ulindele ntoni ngexesha lonyango.

Ngubani oza kunyanga umntwana wam:

• Unamava amangaphi onawo okunyanga olu hlobo lomhlaza ebantwaneni?
• Ngaba kufuneka sifumane uluvo lwesibini?
• Ngubani omnye oya kuba yinxalenye yeqela lokhathalelo lwempilo lomntwana wam?
• Ngubani oza kujongana nonyango lomntwana wam?

Umhlaza womntwana wakho kunye nendlela ephathwa ngayo:

• Unomhlaza onjani umntwana wam?
• Ukweliphi inqanaba umhlaza?
• Ngaba umntwana wam ufuna ezinye iimvavanyo?
• Zithini iindlela zokhetho zonyango?
• Loluphi uhlobo lonyango olucebisayo? Ngoba?
• Luya kusebenza njani olu nyango?
• Ngaba kukho naziphi na iimvavanyo zonyango anokuthatha inxaxheba kuzo umntwana wam?
• Ujonga njani ukuba unyango luyasebenza?
• Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba umhlaza ubuye emva konyango?

Kwenzeka ntoni ngexesha lonyango?

• Kufuneka enze ntoni umntwana wam ukuze alungele unyango?
• Luza kwenzeka phi unyango?
• Luza kuthatha ixesha elingakanani unyango?
• Uza kufuna unyango kangaphi umntwana wam?
• Zithini iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zonyango?
• Ngaba lukhona unyango malunga neziphumo ebezingalindelekanga?
• Ngaba unyango luya kuchaphazela ukukhula kunye nokukhula komntwana wam?
• Ngaba unyango luya kuchaphazela amandla omntwana wam okuba nabantwana?
• Ngaba unyango luneziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zexesha elide?
• Ngubani endinokumfowunela ngemibuzo malunga nonyango okanye iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zomntwana wam?
• Ngaba lukhona unyango olunokwenziwa ekhaya?
• Ngaba ndingahlala nomntwana wam ngexesha lonyango?
• Ukuba unyango lisesibhedlele, ngaba ndingalala? Zeziphi iinkonzo zabantwana (ezinje ngokudlala kunye nemisebenzi) ezifumanekayo esibhedlele?

Ubomi bomntwana wam ngexesha lonyango:

• Ngaba umntwana wam uyawafuna na amayeza okugonya phambi kokuba anyangwe?
• Ngaba umntwana wam uza kuphoswa sisikolo? Ukuba kunjalo, ixesha elide kangakanani?
• Ngaba umntwana wam uza kufuna umkhapheli?
• Ngaba umntwana wam uya kuba nakho ukwenza eminye imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla?
• Ngaba ndifuna ukugcina umntwana wam ekude nabantu abanezifo ezithile?
• Ngaba akhona amaqela enkxaso kwiintsapho ezihlangabezana nolu hlobo lomhlaza?

Ubomi bomntwana wam emva konyango:

• Ngaba umntwana wam uya kukhula ngokwesiqhelo?
• Ngaba umntwana wam uya kuba neengxaki zokuqonda emva konyango?
• Ngaba umntwana wam uya kuba neengxaki zeemvakalelo okanye zokuziphatha emva konyango?
• Ngaba umntwana wam uza kuba nakho ukuba mdala njengomntu?
• Ngaba unyango lomhlaza luya kubeka umntwana wam emngciphekweni weengxaki zempilo kamva ebomini? Inokuba ziziphi?

Okunye

• Ngaba umntwana wam uya kufuna naluphi na ukhathalelo olulandelayo? Ixesha elingakanani?
• Ndingabiza bani ukuba ndinemibuzo malunga neendleko zokhathalelo lomntwana wam?

Umbutho waseMelika woMhlaza. Yintoni ofanele uyibuze kugqirha womntwana wakho malunga neleukemia yobuntwana? www.cancer.org/cancer/leukemiainchildren/detailedguide/childhood-leukemia-talking-with-gqirha. Ukuhlaziywa ngoFebruwari 12, 2019. Ifikeleleke ngo-Matshi 18, 2020.

Umbutho waseMelika woMhlaza. Yintoni ofanele uyibuze kugqirha womntwana wakho malunga ne-neuroblastoma? www.cancer.org/cancer/neuroblastoma/detailedguide/neuroblastoma-talking-with-doctor. Ukuhlaziywa kwe-Matshi 18, 2018. Ifikeleleke ngo-Matshi 18,2020.

Cancer.Net iwebhusayithi. Umhlaza wabantwana: Imibuzo ebuzwa kwiqela lokhathalelo lwempilo. www.cancer.net/cancer-types/childhood-cancer/questions-ask-doctor. Ukuhlaziywa kukaSeptemba 2019. Ifikeleleke ngo-Matshi 18, 2020.

Kwiwebhusayithi yeZiko loMhlaza weSizwe. Abantu abancinci abanomhlaza: incwadi yesandla yabazali. www.cancer.gov/types/aya. Ukuhlaziywa ngoJanuwari 31, 2018. Ifikeleleke ngo-Matshi 18, 2020.

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