Uvavanyo lokufunda esikolweni okanye inkqubo yokulungiselela

Ukulungiselela ngokufanelekileyo uvavanyo okanye inkqubo kunciphisa uxinzelelo lomntwana wakho, kukhuthaza intsebenziswano, kwaye kunceda umntwana wakho ukuba aphuhlise izakhono zokujamelana.

Ukulungiselela abantwana iimvavanyo zonyango kunokunciphisa ukuxhalaba kwabo. Kananjalo kunokubenza babe mancinci amathuba okuba bakhale kwaye baxhathise inkqubo. Uphando lubonisa ukuba ukwehlisa ixhala kunganciphisa uvakalelo lweentlungu abantu abazivayo ngexesha leenkqubo ezingathandekiyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuzilungiselela akunakuyitshintsha into yokuba umntwana wakho azive engonwabanga okanye iintlungu.

Ngaphambi kovavanyo, qonda ukuba umntwana wakho uya kukhala. Bonisa kwangaphambili into eza kwenzeka ngexesha lovavanyo ukuze ufunde malunga nokoyika nokukhathazeka komntwana wakho. Ukusebenzisa unodoli okanye enye into ukwenza uvavanyo kunokubonisa amaxhala umntwana wakho angangakwazi ukuthetha ngawo, kwaye kunokunciphisa uxinzelelo lomntwana wakho.

Abantu abaninzi bayoyika into engaziwayo. Kuyanceda ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba alindele ntoni. Ukuba uloyiko lomntwana wakho alunanyani, ukucacisa ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni okunokunceda. Ukuba umntwana wakho ukhathazekile ngenxalenye yovavanyo, sukuyidlala le nkxalabo. Mqinisekise umntwana wakho ukuba uya kuba lapho ukunceda kangangoko unako.

Qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqonda ukuba inkqubo ayisisohlwayo. Abantwana abakwiminyaka yokufunda isikolo bangakholelwa ukuba iintlungu abazivayo sisigwebo sento abayenzileyo.

Eyona ndlela ibaluleke kakhulu onokumnceda ngayo umntwana wakho kukulungiselela ngokufanelekileyo, kunye nokubonelela ngenkxaso kunye nentuthuzelo malunga nexesha lenkqubo. Buza ukuba ngaba isibhedlele sinengcali ngobomi bomntwana onokukunceda ngaphambi nasemva kwenkqubo.

UKULUNGISELELA PHAMBI KWENKQUBO:

Gcina iinkcazo zakho malunga nenkqubo ukuya kwimizuzu eli-10 okanye eli-15. Abafundi abasafundayo bayakwazi ukumamela kwaye baqonde okwexeshana. Chaza uvavanyo okanye inkqubo ngaphambi kokuba yenzeke ukuze umntwana wakho angazikhathazi ngayo kangangeentsuku okanye iiveki ngaphambili.

Nazi izikhokelo ngokubanzi zokulungiselela umntwana wakho uvavanyo okanye inkqubo:

• Chaza inkqubo ngolwimi oluqondwa ngumntwana wakho, usebenzisa amagama acacileyo kunye nokuthintela amagama angaqondakaliyo.
• Sebenzisa ulungiselelo lomdlalo ukubonisa inkqubo kumntwana wakho kwaye uchonge iinkxalabo (jonga icandelo elilandelayo).
• Qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyaliqonda ilungu lomzimba elibandakanyekileyo kuvavanyo, kwaye inkqubo iyakuthintelwa kuloo ndawo.
• Chaza ngokusemandleni akho ukuba uvavanyo luza kuziva njani.
• Nyaniseka emntwaneni wakho malunga nokungahambi kakuhle okanye iintlungu ezinokubangelwa luvavanyo.
• Ukuba le nkqubo ichaphazela ilungu lomzimba elifunwa ngumntwana wakho ukwenza umsebenzi othile (njengokuthetha, ukuva, okanye ukuchama), cacisa ukuba loluphi utshintsho oluza kwenzeka emva koko.
• Yazisa umntwana wakho ukuba kulungile ukukhala, ukulila, okanye ukuveza iintlungu ngenye indlela usebenzisa izandi okanye amagama.
• Buza ukuba umntwana wakho unemibuzo malunga nento oyichazileyo.
• Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba aziqhelanise nezikhundla okanye iintshukumo eziza kufuneka kule nkqubo, njengokuma komntwana oseludongeni ukuze kuphume i-lumbar punct.
• Gxininisa izibonelelo zenkqubo kwaye uthethe ngezinto umntwana anokuzonwabela emva kovavanyo, njengokuziva ubhetele okanye ukugoduka. Ungafuna ukuthatha umntwana wakho ayokumenzela i-ice cream okanye olunye unyango emva koko, kodwa musa ukwenza unyango ukuba lube "lulungile" kuvavanyo.
• Ziqhelanise nokuphefumla okunzulu kunye nezinye izinto ezithuthuzelayo nomntwana wakho. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, cela umntwana wakho abambe isandla sakho aze asikhame xa esiva iintlungu.
• Buza umboneleli wezempilo ukuba umntwana wakho angenza izigqibo ezithile, xa kufanelekile, ezinje ngengalo ekufuneka ibe ne-IV okanye ibhandeji yombala aza kuyisebenzisa.
• Phazamisa umntwana wakho ngexesha nasemva kwenkqubo ngeencwadi, iingoma, ukubala, ukuphefumla okunzulu, okanye ukuvuthela amaqamza.

UKULUNGISELELA UKUDLALA

Ukudlala kunokuba yindlela elungileyo yokubonisa inkqubo yomntwana wakho kwaye uchonge naluphi na ixhala anokuba nalo umntwana wakho. Yenza le ndlela kumntwana wakho. Uninzi lwezixhobo zononophelo lwempilo lwabantwana zisebenzisa umdlalo ukulungiselela abantwana iinkqubo.

Uninzi lwabantwana abancinci banento yokudlala abayithandayo okanye enye into ebalulekileyo enokuba sisixhobo sale nkqubo. Isenokungoyikisi kangako umntwana wakho ukuba avakalise inkxalabo ngokusebenzisa into yokudlala okanye into endaweni ngqo. Umzekelo, umntwana oza kutsalwa igazi angakwazi ukuqonda ngcono ukuba uyaxoxa na ukuba "unodoli angaziva njani" kuvavanyo.

Izinto zokudlala okanye oonodoli banokukunceda uchaze inkqubo kumfundi wakho wesikolo. Nje ukuba uqhelane nenkqubo, bonisa ngokufutshane kwinto yokudlala ukuba uza kuva ntoni umntwana wakho. Usebenzisa into yokudlala, bonisa umntwana wakho:

• Iibhendi
• Inikwa njani inaliti
• Zifakwa njani ii-IV
• Njani ukusikwa kotyando
• Izithambo
• Zeziphi izikhundla umntwana wakho aya kuba kuzo

Emva koko, vumela umntwana wakho adlale ngezinye zezinto (ngaphandle kweenaliti kunye nezinye izinto ezibukhali). Jonga umntwana wakho ngezikhokelo malunga neenkxalabo okanye uloyiko.

Nokuba kwenzeka luphi uvavanyo, umntwana wakho uya kukhala. Le yimpendulo eqhelekileyo kwindawo engaqhelekanga, abantu abatsha, nokwahlulwa kuwe. Ukwazi oku kwasekuqaleni kunganceda ukukhulula uxinzelelo lwakho malunga nento onokuyilindela.

KUTHENI ZIQINISEKILE?

Umntwana wakho unokuthintelwa ngesandla okanye ngezixhobo zomzimba. Abantwana abancinci abanalo ulawulo lomzimba kunye nokukwazi ukulandela imiyalelo edla ngokuba nayo kubantwana abadala nakubantu abadala. Uninzi lweemvavanyo kunye neenkqubo zifuna umda okanye akukho ntshukumo yokuqinisekisa ukuchaneka. Umzekelo, ukufumana iziphumo ezicacileyo nge-x-reyi, akufuneki kubekho ntshukumo.

Izithintelo zisenokusetyenziswa ngexesha lenkqubo okanye enye imeko ukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lomntwana wakho. Izithintelo zingasetyenziselwa ukugcina umntwana wakho ekhuselekile xa abasebenzi kufuneka balishiye igumbi okwethutyana ngexesha le-x-reyi kunye nezifundo zenyukliya. Zingasetyenziselwa xa kwenziwa i-puncture ukufumana isampulu yegazi okanye ukuqala i-IV. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyahamba, inaliti inokubangela ukonzakala.

Umboneleli womntwana wakho uya kusebenzisa zonke iindlela zokuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ukhuselekile kwaye ukhululekile. Kuxhomekeke kwinkqubo, amayeza anokusetyenziselwa ukuthambisa umntwana wakho.

Umsebenzi wakho njengomzali kukuthuthuzela umntwana wakho.

NGENKQUBO:

Ubukho bakho bunokumnceda umntwana wakho ngexesha lenkqubo, ngakumbi ukuba inkqubo ikuvumela ukuba ugcine unxibelelwano lomzimba. Ukuba le nkqubo yenziwa esibhedlele okanye kwi-ofisi yomboneleli, unokukwazi ukuba lapho. Ukuba awuqinisekanga, buza ukuba ungakho na apho.

Ukuba ucinga ukuba ungagula okanye ube nexhala, cinga ukugcina umgama, kodwa hlala apho umntwana wakho angakubona khona. Ukuba awukwazi ukubakho, shiya into oqhele umntwana wakho ukuze ayithuthuzele.

Kuphephe ukubonisa ixhala lakho. Oku kuyakwenza kuphela ukuba umntwana wakho azive ecaphukile. Uphando lubonisa ukuba abantwana bayasebenzisana ngakumbi ukuba abazali bathatha amanyathelo (anjengokucoca umntu emzimbeni) ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lwabo.

Ukuba uziva uxinezelekile kwaye uxhalabile, cinga ngokucela abahlobo kunye namalungu osapho ukuba akuncede. Banokubonelela ngokhathalelo lomntwana kwabanye abantakwenu okanye ukutya kosapho ukuze ujolise ekuxhaseni umntwana wakho.

Ezinye izinto eziqwalaselwayo:

• Buza umboneleli womntwana wakho ukuba anciphise inani labantu abangaziwayo abangenayo nabaphuma kwigumbi ngexesha lenkqubo, kuba oku kunokubangela uxinzelelo.
• Buza ukuba ngaba umboneleli ochithe ixesha elininzi nomntwana wakho angakhona ngexesha lenkqubo.
• Buza ukuba i-anesthesia ingasetyenziselwa ukunciphisa ukungonwabi komntwana wakho.
• Cela ukuba iinkqubo ezibuhlungu zingenziwa ebhedini yesibhedlele, ukuze umntwana angadibanisi iintlungu negumbi lasesibhedlele.
• Ukuba umntwana wakho angakubona ngexesha lenkqubo, yenza into ayalelwe ukuba ayenze, njengokuvula umlomo.
• Buza ukuba izandi ezongezelelweyo, izibane, kunye nabantu banokulinganiselwa.

Ukulungiselela abafundi bokuya esikolweni uvavanyo / inkqubo; Uvavanyo / ulungiselelo lwenkqubo- umntwana wasesikolweni

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