Ukungahoywa kwabantwana kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo

Ukungakhathalelwa kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo kunokubangela ingozi enkulu emntwaneni. Kuhlala kunzima ukubona okanye ukungqina olu hlobo lokuxhatshazwa, ngenxa yoko abanye abantu abanakufane bancede umntwana. Xa umntwana exhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwesondo, ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo kuqhele ukwenzeka emntwaneni.

UKUXHAPHAZA NGOKWEEMvakalelo

Le yimizekelo yokuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo:

• Ukungamniki umntwana indawo ekhuselekileyo. Umntwana ubukela ubundlobongela okanye ukuxhatshazwa okuqatha phakathi kwabazali okanye abantu abadala.
• Ukoyikisa umntwana ngogonyamelo okanye ukulahlwa.
• Ukuhlala umgxeka okanye umbeka ityala umntwana ngeengxaki.
• Umzali womntwana okanye umnonopheli akabonakalisi inkxalabo ngomntwana, kwaye uyala uncedo lwabanye ngomntwana.

Le miqondiso yokuba umntwana unokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemoyeni. Banokufumana oku kulandelayo:

• Iingxaki esikolweni
• Ukuphazamiseka kwindlela yokutya, ekhokelela ekwehliseni ubunzima okanye ekufumaneni ubunzima bomzimba
• Imiba yeemvakalelo ezinje ngokuzithemba okuphantsi, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo
• Ukuziphatha okugabadeleyo njengokulinganisa, ukuzama kanzima ukukholisa, ukuba ndlongondlongo
• Ingxaki yokulala
• Izikhalazo zomzimba ezingacacanga

UKUQALA UMNTWANA

Le yimizekelo yokungahoywa kwabantwana:

• Ukulahla umntwana kwaye ungamniki mntwana uthando.
• Ukungamtyisi umntwana.
• Ukungamnxibisi umntwana iimpahla ezifanelekileyo.
• Ukunganikeli ngonyango olufunekayo okanye ngamazinyo.
• Ukushiya umntwana yedwa ixesha elide. Oku kubizwa ngokuba kukushiya.

Le miqondiso yokuba umntwana unokungahoywa. Umntwana anga:

• Ukungayi rhoqo esikolweni
• Kunuka kakubi kwaye kumdaka
• Ukuxelele ukuba akukho mntu ekhaya oza kubanyamekela
• Yiba noxinzelelo, ubonise isimilo esingaqhelekanga, okanye usebenzise utywala okanye iziyobisi

OKO UNOKUKWENZA UKUNCEDA

Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana usengozini ngokukhawuleza ngenxa yokuxhatshazwa okanye ukungakhathalelwa, tsalela umnxeba ku-911.

Tsalela umnxeba umnxeba kule nombolo ilandelayo kwi-1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453). Abacebisi ngeengxaki bafumaneka iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku, iintsuku ezisi-7 ngeveki. Iitoliki ziyafumaneka ukunceda ngeelwimi ezingaphezu kwe-170. Umcebisi emnxebeni unokukunceda ubone ukuba ngawaphi amanyathelo oza kuwathatha ngokulandelayo. Yonke iminxeba ayaziwa kwaye iyimfihlo.

Iingcebiso kunye namaqela enkxaso ayafumaneka ebantwaneni nakubazali abahlukumezayo abafuna ukufumana uncedo.

Iziphumo zexesha elide zixhomekeke:

• Indlela olwaluphethe kakubi ngayo olo xhatshazo
• Ude waphathwa gadalala umntwana
• Impumelelo yonyango kunye neeklasi zokuba ngumzali

Ukungahoywa - umntwana; Ukuphathwa gadalala ngokweemvakalelo- umntwana

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