Iindlela ezili-9 zokuxelela abazali bakho ukuba ukhulelwe
Umxholo
- Intro
- 1. Ibhanti yeklasikhi ehovini
- 2. Umculo ezindlebeni zabo
- 3. Yibonise kwiYouTube
- 4. Ukuthetha ngoluhlu lokutya…
- 5. Ungathanda ukumangaliswa koko?
- 6. Ubusuku bomdlalo buvuliwe
- 7. Yiba nekomityi yeti, okanye ezimbini
- 8. Yitsho kwiT-Shirt
- 9. Yigcine ilula
Intro
Ukukhulelwa lixesha elonwabisayo koomama- nootata abaninzi. Kwaye kuyindalo ukufuna ukwabelana ngolonwabo kunye nehlabathi, ukuqala nosapho lwakho. Kodwa ukubhengeza ukuba ukhulelwe kubazali bakho kunokuba ngumtya nethunga. Unokufumana uxhalabile malunga nendlela oza kuyixelela ngayo usapho lwakho kunye nendlela abaza kusabela ngayo.
Zininzi iindlela ezonwabisayo onokuthi ubhengeze ngazo ukukhulelwa kwakho kubazali bakho eziya kwenza ukuba usabele kakuhle. Kukho i-classic bun-in-the-oven ityhila, apho unika abazali bakho ibhanti eyenziwe ekhaya ephawulwe ngo "B." Unako kwakhona ukudibanisa umzobo wokuhlekisa owurekhodayo kunye nokulayisha kwiYouTube. Kwaye xa uthetha ngemizobo, kutheni unganiki imikhondo embalwa ngexesha lomdlalo omnandi wesichazi-magama?
Okanye, ukuba ufuna ukuyigcina ikhethekileyo, unokucwangcisa i-brunch ekhethekileyo kwivenkile yakho oyithandayo kwaye ubhalele isimemezelo sakho sokukhulelwa kwibhodi yabo esecaleni.
Ukusuka kwii-t-shirts ukuya kwiifoto zemagi kunye nayo yonke into ephakathi, sidibanise uluhlu olufutshane lokuzonwabisa kunye neendlela zokuyila ukwazisa kubazali bakho ukuba usapho lwakho luba lukhulu kancinci.
1. Ibhanti yeklasikhi ehovini
Ukuba nabazali bakho bavule i-oveni yakho ukuze bafumane i-bun "yokupheka" yindlela eqhelekileyo yokubhengeza ukukhulelwa kwakho. Kodwa endaweni yokubeka nje i-hamburger bun kwi-oveni, yithathe inyathelo elinye ubhake iresiphi yakho oyithandayo ngelixa abazali bakho betyelele.
Xa ukhupha intlama, qiniseka ukumakisha iibuns ezimbini ngo "B" (uyazi, njengaleyo rhyme idumileyo). Qiniseka ukuba iibhanti ezimbini "B" ziphambi kwetreyi yokubhaka, zijonge kumnyango we-oveni. Xa bekulungele, cela abazali bakho babakhuphe eontini. Ukuba bafuna uthsuphe, thethisa isingqisho esincinci phantsi komoya wakho. Kwaye ungalibali ukufota oku kutyhilwayo!
2. Umculo ezindlebeni zabo
Ukuba awukwazi ukuveza ukukhulelwa kwakho buqu, cinga ngokuthumela abazali bakho ukurekhodwa kwentliziyo yomntwana wakho. Fowunela ushiye i-voicemail ubenzele abo ubathandayo ngomyalezo, "Umntu othile ufuna ukudibana nawe kwiinyanga ezilithoba."
Okanye ungathatha ividiyo xa usiva ukubetha kwentliziyo yomntwana wakho okokuqala kwaye uyithumele nge-imeyile enomxholo othi, "Ndicinga ukuba uza kuyithanda le nto."
3. Yibonise kwiYouTube
Ukubhengeza ukukhulelwa kwakho ngevidiyo ye-YouTube yiyo yonke ingqumbo kwezi ntsuku, ke ngena kwisenzo kwaye uvumele abazali bakho-kunye nehlabathi-bazi ukuba unayo encinci endleleni.
Unokukhangela iYouTube ngamakhulu emizekelo yolonwabo kunye nokwazisa ngokukhulelwa. Unokwenza umdlalo odumileyo njengentsapho yakwaShocklee okanye wenze ifilimu emfutshane ehlekisayo enje ngala "Uluhlu lokutya." Unokurekhoda ubhengeza ukukhulelwa kwiqabane lakho kwaye usebenzise loo nto ukumangalisa abazali bakho. Nokuba yeyiphi indlela okhetha ngayo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya konwaba ukubeka ividiyo ndawonye.
4. Ukuthetha ngoluhlu lokutya…
Cwangcisa isidlo esikhulu kunye nabazali bakho kwaye xa befika endlwini yakho, babuze ukuba bangabalekela evenkileni bayokuthatha izinto ezimbalwa zokutya.
Banike uluhlu lwento ngaphandle kwe-ice cream, i-pickles kunye nokutya "kosana" -i-peas zabantwana, iminqathe yabantwana, isipinatshi somntwana, nokunye okuninzi. Qinisekisa ukuba bayayijonga ngaphambi kokuba bahambe, kungenjalo unokuba nesibhengezo esingalibalekiyo kunye nokutya ongakufuniyo.
5. Ungathanda ukumangaliswa koko?
Lo uya kuthatha isicwangciso esithile, kodwa kuya kufaneleka ukuba ubonakalise ubuso bomzali wakho.
Nxibelelana nekhefi oyithandayo kwaye ubacele ukuba babhale umyalezo okhethekileyo kubazali bakho kwimenyu yabo yebhodi okanye kwindlela esecaleni. Bhala phantsi isibhengezo sakho ngokungathi yinto ekhethekileyo yosuku (cinga "Kwimenyu: Uyakuba yi-Omelet kaTatomkhulu") kwaye ujonge njengoko abazali bakho befunda bonwabile.
Okanye unokuprinta uluhlu lwakho lwe "brunch specials" kwaye ube neserver uyifake kwiimenyu zabazali bakho.
6. Ubusuku bomdlalo buvuliwe
Cwangcisa ubusuku bomdlalo wosapho kwaye ubhengeze ukukhulelwa kwakho ngexesha lomjikelo omnandi wePictionary okanye iCharades. Xa lithuba lakho, qalisa ukuzoba isangqa kwaye wakhe kuso de ube uzobe umama oza kubakho.
Okanye ukuba uyintsapho ye-Scrabble, pela ngaphandle "Ndilindele" nokuba kukujika kube nye okanye ngaphezulu kwekhosi yomdlalo.
7. Yiba nekomityi yeti, okanye ezimbini
Mema ootatomkhulu-ukuba bebe ngaphezulu kwekomityi yekofu okanye yeti. Kodwa endaweni yokubagalelela isiselo sabo abasithandayo, banike imagi enomyalezo emazantsi ngaphakathi (cinga: "Uza kuba ngumakhulu!").
Bhala ngesandla umyalezo onophawu olusisigxina kwimag engasetyenziswanga enokugcinwa ngabazali bakho njengesikhumbuzo. Okanye unokwenza imagi yemifanekiso ebhengeza ukukhulelwa kwakho kwaye xa abazali bakho becela into yokusela, yigalele ngaphakathi kwimag yabo entsha entsha.
8. Yitsho kwiT-Shirt
Ukuba awufuni ukubhala umyalezo emugini, yitsho kwisikipa. Nika abazali bakho ihempe enomyalezo oyilayo okanye umfanekiso obhengeza ukukhulelwa kwakho.
Yandisa isimanga ngokusongela ihempe kwiphepha elisongelayo kwaye ulibeke kwibhokisi ebekwe kwenye ibhokisi okanye ezimbini. Abazali bakho banokukhathazeka, kodwa konke ukutyhila kuya kulungela ekugqibeleni.
9. Yigcine ilula
Ngamanye amaxesha awudingi ukuphuma konke ukuze ube nesibhengezo sokukhulelwa esingalibalekiyo. Yothusa abazali bakho ngokulungiselela iimagnethi zoonobumba kwifriji yakho ukuba uthi ulindele kwaye nini lilungile usana lwakho.
Okanye, ngexesha elizayo xa ukwindawo yabo, shiya ikhadi elibhengeza iindaba kwindawo yabo yasebusuku - baya kuyifumana xa beyokulala.