Ngaba umntwana angalala nabazali?

Umxholo

• Iingozi zokulala komntwana ebhedini yomzali
• Izizathu ezi-5 ezilungileyo zokuba umntwana alale egumbini labazali

Iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa ukuya kuthi ga kwi-1 okanye kwi-2 yeminyaka ubudala zingalala kwigumbi elinye nabazali bazo kuba kuyanceda ukukhulisa ubudlelwane obudibeneyo nomntwana, kuququzelela ukondliwa ebusuku, kuqinisekisa abazali xa bexhalabele ukulala okanye ukuphefumla kosana kwaye, ngokwe iingcali, isanciphisa umngcipheko wokufa ngesiquphe.

Ukufa ngesiquphe kuyenzeka ade umntwana abe neminyaka eli-1 ubudala kwaye ithiyori eyamkelweyo kwinkcazo yayo kukuba usana luneenguqu zokuphefumla ngexesha lokulala kwaye alunako ukuvuka yiyo loo nto ke luphela lufa elele. Xa umntwana elele kwigumbi elinye, kulula ukuba umzali aqonde ukuba umntwana akaphefumli kakuhle, kwaye angamvusa, amnike naluphi na uncedo oluyimfuneko.

Iingozi zokulala komntwana ebhedini yomzali

Umngcipheko wokuba umntwana alale ebhedini yabazali mkhulu xa umntwana emalunga neenyanga ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-6 ubudala kwaye abazali banemikhwa enokubangela ukuba umntwana afuthaniseleke okanye atyumke, njengokusebenzisa kakhulu utywala, ukusebenzisa iipilisi zokulala okanye ukutshaya .

Ukongeza, umngcipheko wokulala kosana ebhedini yabazali unxulumene nemiba yezokhuseleko, enjengokuba usana lungawa ebhedini, kuba akukho mizila yokukhusela, kwaye umntwana akaphefumli embindini yemiqamelo, iingubo okanye ilinen. Kukho umngcipheko wokuba omnye umzali alujike usana ngelixa elele engazi.

Ke, ukunqanda umngcipheko, ingcebiso kukuba abantwana ukuya kuthi ga kwiinyanga ezi-6 balale ebhedini ebekwe kufutshane nebhedi yabazali, kuba ngale ndlela akukho bungozi emntwaneni kwaye abazali bakhululekile.

Izizathu ezi-5 ezilungileyo zokuba umntwana alale egumbini labazali

Ke ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba umntwana alale kwigumbi elinye nabazali kuba:

1. Ukuququzelela ukondliwa ebusuku, ukuba luncedo olulungileyo kumama wamva nje;
2. Kulula ukuzola umntwana ngezandi ezithomalalisayo okanye ngokulula nje ngobukho bakho;
3. Kukho umngcipheko omncinci wokufa ngesiquphe, njengoko kunokwenzeka ukuba wenze ngokukhawuleza ukuba uphawula ukuba umntwana akaphefumli kakuhle;
4. Ubundibaniselwano obunomdla obonyusa umntwana kwaye ukhula ngokukhuselekileyo, eziva ethandwa kuba usondele kubazali bakhe, ubuncinci ebusuku;
5. Kukunceda uqonde ngcono imikhwa yokulala komntwana wakho.

Usana lunokulala kwigumbi elinye nabazali, kodwa akukhuthazwa ukuba lilale ebhedini enye kuba oku kunokuba yingozi kakhulu ekubekeni impilo yomntwana esichengeni. Ke into efanelekileyo kukuba ibhedi yomntwana ibekwe ecaleni kwebhedi yabazali ukuze abazali babenako ukumjonga kakuhle umntwana ngelixa belele phantsi.