UBebe Rexha wema kwiTroll eyamxelela ukuba "Uyatyeba"

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Okwangoku, kufanelekile ngaphandle kokuthetha ukuba ayikaze ilunge ukunika izimvo emzimbeni womnye umntu, nokuba ngoobani okanye ubazi njani-ewe, nokuba badume kakhulu.

Icandelo kwimeko: UBebe Rexha. Kutshanje uvule amabali akhe e-Instagram kwiseshoni ye-Q & A kunye nabalandeli bakhe, uninzi lwabo lubuze imibuzo ebalulekileyo: zeziphi iingoma zikaBritney Spears azithandayo, ngowuphi umsebenzi awayeza kuba nawo ukuba ebengengomculi, njalo njalo. Kodwa umntu omnye wagqiba ekubeni umzimba shame uRexha kumbuzo wabo, ebuza umculi ukuba kutheni "etyeba" (*i-eye roll*). (Idibeneyo: ICYDK, Ukuhlazeka komzimba yingxaki yamanye amazwe)

U-Rexha ekuqaleni uphendule kwi-troll ngokubakhumbuza nje ukuba ubunzima bakhe "abuyonto yakhe" (okanye nabani na ongomnye).

Kodwa kwi-IG Story yamva, uRexha wawuphendula lo mbuzo ngakumbi. “Ndicinga ukuba kubukrwada ukuthetha ngobunzima bomntu,” ubhale watsho.

Uye wachaza ngokufanelekileyo ukuba ayikaze ilunge ukwenza uqikelelo ngomzimba womntu, njengoko ungazi ukuba banokuba bajongene nantoni emva kwezigcawu. “Ndithatha amayeza empilo yam andenza ndityebe,” wabhala uRexha, esongeza ukuba “usoloko” esilwa “nokuzithanda.” (Idibeneyo: Ngaba i-anti-depressants ibangela ukunyuka kwesisindo? Nantsi into ekufuneka uyazi)

Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho Rexha okanye nabani na omnye - odumileyo okanye ngenye indlela - unetyala nabani na inkcazo ngenkangeleko yabo. Kodwa ngokuthathelwa ingqalelo kukaRexha ebevulelekile kubalandeli, ngokweyakhe imeko, malunga nokuhla nokuhla kwakhe ngomzimba kunye nempilo yengqondo, ayisiyonto ipholileyo xa abantu becacisa gca malunga nokugweba ukuba ujongeka kanjani. (I-ICYMI, uRexha naye uchazekile malunga nokufumanisa isifo bipolar.)

Yi-candor yesignesha ka-Rexha ephinda iphendule ngaphezu kwayo yonke into xa kuziwa ekujonganeni neetroli. Uzivale ii-shamers zomzimba kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo amatyeli amaninzi, exelela umntu ukuba "amkele ngakumbi" kwaye "asebenze ngokuzithiya kwabo." (Kwaye khumbula xa wayebiza abayili abala ukwambathisa iGrammys ngenxa yobukhulu bayo? Iconic.)

Ukwanyanisekile malunga nento yokuba ukwamkelwa komzimba akuhlali kuza lula. Emva kokubona iifoto zakhe zamva nje zepaparazzi enxibe isuti yokuhlamba, uye wazityand’ igila malunga nokungakhuseleki kwakhe. "Ndikufumanisa kunzima ukuzithanda ngamanye amaxesha," watsho kwiNdaba ye-Instagram. "Kwaye xa uzibona ujongeka njenge-shit, kufana, ewe, ndinamanqaku alula, ndine-cellulite, konke oku kungasentla."

Kodwa kwanaxa enengxaki ngomzimba wakhe, uRexha uthe uyazi ukuba, ngaphezu kwako konke, kubaluleke kakhulu “ukuba sempilweni” nokwamkela umzimba azalwa nawo. "Ndithetha, jonga, ndityebile, kulungile? Ndiyintombazana etyebileyo," watsho. "Ndizalelwe njalo."

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