Imiba yoMfanekiso woMzimba iqala ngendlela encinci kunokuba besicinga

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Nokuba ungazityumza nzima kangakanani iinjongo zakho, sonke ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka sijongane namaxesha ebomini asenza sizive ngathi luhlobo lokugqibela olukhethwe liqela kwiklasi yokuzivocavoca: sikhutshiwe saza sazithemba. Kwaye loo maxesha apho imvakalelo yokuziva uneentloni kunye nokuba wedwa ibotshelelwe kumzimba wakho womzimba unokuziva ukonakalisa ngakumbi ukuzithemba kwakho. (Jonga iNzululwazi yeFat Shading.)

Kodwa isiphumo sokubekwa amabala kwesisindo siqala kwangoko kunokuba ubonile, kwaye sibe neziphumo ezibi kwimpilo yethu yengqondo njengoko sikhula, ngokophando olutsha olupapashwe kwiphephancwadi. Ukukhula komntwana.

Ukungqina ukuba ukutyeba ngokutyebileyo ayisiyongxaki yabantu abadala kuphela, abaphandi abavela kwiyunivesithi yase-Oklahoma State bafumana abafundi abali-1 000 abavela kwizikolo zasemaphandleni kwaye balinganisa ukuthandwa kwabo ngokuhlalutya iingxelo ezivela kootitshala, abo bafunda nabo kunye nabantwana ngokwabo. Emva koko banike abafundi iphepha lemibuzo elungiselelwe ukulinganisa iimpawu zoxinzelelo kwaye ekugqibeleni balinganisa bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kwizalathiso zomzimba (BMI).

Abaphandi bafumanise ukuba okukhona abafundi be-BMIs bephakama, kokukhona bebeza kukhutshelwa ngaphandle ngoontanga babo abafundi abambalwa abafuna ukudlala nabo kwaye abantwana abatyebe kakhulu kwaye batyebe kakhulu kunokwenzeka ukuba bakhankanywe njengabafundi "abathandayo". (Kufuneka ufunde le Nkcazelo iGqibeleleyo yoMfundi weBanga leSibhozo yendlela i-BMI ephelelwe lixesha ngayo yokulinganisa impilo.)

Mhlawumbi ngokungathandabuzekiyo, banikwe indlela oontanga babo ababona ngayo, abafundi abenza ibanga lokuqala abanee-BMIs eziphezulu bathambekele ekuboniseni iimpawu zokuqala zoxinzelelo, kubandakanya nokuzithemba okuphantsi (ngubani onokubabeka ityala!) ebomini. Okukhona utyebe kakhulu umntwana, kokukhona iziphumo zobunzima bebala. (I-Fat Shaming inoKuwonakalisa uMzimba Wakho.)

Njengaye nabani na owakhe wajijisana nomfanekiso wemizimba yakhe (funda: sonke) uyazi, imiba yokuzithemba inokukuphosa endleleni-yokubini ngokwasemzimbeni nasengqondweni. Ngelishwa, olu phando lutsha lubonisa ukuba sinokuphuhlisa iipateni njengabantwana abanamathela kuthi ubomi bonke.

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