'Isifuba siPhambili': Nasi isizathu sokuba le Mantra ibe Yingozi

Umxholo

• Ezinye zezizathu zokuba abafazi bayeke ukuncancisa:
  
• Ukutyhala kokuncancisa kuphela kunokuba nemiphumo emibi emntwaneni
• Uninzi lwabazali abakhetha ukungancancisi banamava omgwebo omninzi
• Ekugqibeleni, kuphantsi kokuba ube nalo lonke ulwazi ngaphambi kokwenza isigqibo sokuncancisa okanye hayi
• Abantu baqala ukuqonda ukuba okona kubaluleke kakhulu kukwenza okona kulungileyo kumzali nakumntwana

Xa u-Anne Vanderkamp ehambisa amawele akhe, wayecebe ukubancancisa kuphela unyaka.

“Bendinemicimbi emikhulu yokubonelela kwaye andenzanga lubisi lwaneleyo kusana olunye, ndiyeke ezimbini. Ndincancisile kwaye ndongeze iinyanga ezintathu, ”uxelele uHealthline.

Xa umntwana wakhe wesithathu wazalwa emva kweenyanga ezili-18, uVanderkamp wayenobunzima bokuvelisa ubisi kwakhona kwaye wayeka ukuncancisa emva kweeveki ezintathu.

"Khange ndibone ndawo yokuzihlukumeza ndizama ukwandisa ubonelelo xa kungekho nto ikhe yasebenza," utshilo uVanderkamp.

Ezinye zezizathu zokuba abafazi bayeke ukuncancisa:

• ubunzima kunye nokuncancisa
• Ukugula kukamama okanye isidingo sokuthatha iyeza
• iinzame ezinxulunyaniswa nokupompa ubisi
• isondlo seentsana kunye nobunzima

Ngelixa wayeqinisekile ukuba ukukhetha kwakhe ukondla iintsana zakhe ubisi olungumgubo yeyona ndlela ibhetele yokuphumelela, uVanderkamp uthi waziva edanile kuba engakwazi ukubancancisa kwaye azigwebe ngokungakwazi.

Iphulo "lebele lilungileyo" lenze ukuba azive kakubi.

“Isifuba 'sesona sihle' ekubhekiswe kuso kwiitoti zobisi olungumgubo zazingahlekisi kwaphela. Bahlala bekhumbuza ukuba umzimba wam usilela kwiintsana zam, ”utshilo.

Ukutyhala kokuncancisa kuphela kunokuba nemiphumo emibi emntwaneni

KuGqirha Christie del Castillo-Hegyi, oku kutyhalela ukuncancisa kuphela kukhokelele kwiziphumo zobomi kunyana wakhe.

Ngo-2010, ugqirha wamayeza kaxakeka wazala unyana wakhe, awayekulangazelela ukuncancisa. Nangona kunjalo, enexhala lokuba indlela aziphethe ngayo usana lwakhe ibisisiphumo sokuba alambe, u-del Castillo-Hegyi watyelela ugqirha wabantwana kusuku olulandelayo emva kokuba emzise ekhaya.

Apho waxelelwa ukuba uphulukene nobunzima obuninzi, kodwa kufuneka aqhubeke nokuncancisa. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kamva, wayesenenkxalabo kwaye wabalekela usana lwakhe kwigumbi likaxakeka apho kwagqitywa khona ukuba wayenomzimba owomileyo kwaye elambile.

I-Formula yamnceda wamzinzisa, kodwa uthi ukungabikho kokutya kwiintsuku ezine zokuqala zobomi bakhe kwabangela ukonakala kwengqondo.

UDel Castillo-Hegyi uyazisola ngokungahambi ngokukhawuleza kwimizimba yakhe njengengcali yezonyango kunye nomama.

Imantra "Isifuba yeyona ilungileyo" iphuma ngaphandle kwemibutho yezempilo yokukhuthaza ukondla okungcono ebantwaneni. Isenokuba kwasekuqaleni ikwakhona ngenxa yamazinga asezantsi oomama abancancisayo.

Amanyathelo axhasa olu hlobo lwemantra aquka ngo-1991, xa uMbutho wezeMpilo weHlabathi (i-WHO) kunye neNgxowa-mali yeZizwe eziManyeneyo yeZizwe eziManyeneyo (UNICEF) basungula.

Idalwe ngokungqinelana nomgaqo owamkelekileyo kwilizwe liphela Amanyathelo alishumi okuNcelisa ukuncancisa, inyathelo lityhala ukuqinisekisa ukuba izibhedlele zikhuthaza ukuncancisa kuphela iinyanga ezintandathu, “kwaye zaqhubeka nokuncancisa ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka emibini ubudala nangaphezulu, ngelixa inika abasetyhini inkxaso yokuba bafuna ukuphumeza le njongo, kusapho, ekuhlaleni nasemsebenzini. ”

Imibutho efana neAmerican Academy of Pediatrics kunye neOfisi yezeMpilo yabaseTyhini, ingxelo engaguquguqukiyo yokuba ubisi lwebele lunika ubutyebi beenzuzo kwiintsana, kubandakanya nokuqulatha konke ukondla abakudingayo (ngaphandle kwovithamin D owaneleyo) kunye nezibulala-zintsholongwane zokulwa izifo.

Ngokuka, kwiintsana ezizalwe ngo-2013, iipesenti ezingama-81.1 ziqale ukuncanciswa. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabasetyhini alunyanzelwanga kuphela ukuncancisa okanye ukuqhubeka nokuncancisa ixesha elide njengoko kucetyisiwe. Ngapha koko, iipesenti ezingama-60 zoomama abayekile ukuncancisa bakwenza oko ngaphambili kunokuba bekunqwenelekile, ngokwe

Ku-del Castillo-Hegyi, la mava akhe amqhubela ekubeni afumane umbutho ongenzi nzuzo iFed yeyona ibalaseleyo ngo-2016 noJody Segrave-Daly, umongikazi osandul 'ukuzalwa ongumongikazi kunye neBhodi yeHlabathi-eQinisekisiweyo yeLactation Consultant (IBCLC).

Ukuphendula kwinkxalabo ejikeleze ukulaliswa esibhedlele kwabantwana abasandula ukuncanciswa ngenxa yehypoglycemia, i-jaundice, ukuphelelwa ngamanzi emzimbeni, kunye nendlala, abasetyhini bajonge ukufundisa uluntu malunga nokuncancisa kwaye xa kufanelekile ukongeza nefomula.

Bobabini banethemba lokuba iinzame zabo ziya kumisa iintsana ekubandezelekeni.

"[Uluvo lokuba] ukuncancisa kufuneka kube yeyona nto ilungileyo kuwo wonke umntwana ongatshatanga, ukuzalwa ukuya kwiinyanga ezintandathu - akukho ngaphandle ... okanye ewe kukho okungafaniyo, kodwa asizukuthetha ngabo - kuyingozi," utshilo u-Castillo-Hegyi kwiHealthline. "Kufuneka siyeke ukukholelwa kweli 'lizwe limnyama nelimhlophe' kuba lenzakalisa oomama neentsana."

"Sifumana umyalezo ongadluli ngokwenyani," utshilo u-del Castillo-Hegyi. "Eyona nto ibhetele - [kwaye] 'eyona intle' ijongeka ngokwahlukileyo kuwo wonke umama nosana. Kufuneka siqale ukukuqonda oko kwaye nokuphila kwihlabathi lokwenyani, [okuthetha ukuba ezinye iintsana zidinga ubisi olungumgubo kuphela, ezinye iintsana ziyazifuna zombini, kwaye ezinye iintsana zingancancisa kuphela kwaye zilungile. ”

Uninzi lwabazali abakhetha ukungancancisi banamava omgwebo omninzi

Ukongeza kwiingxaki zomzimba ezinokubakho ngenxa ye "mantra yeyona nto ilungileyo", kukho uloyiko lokugwetywa ngabanye ngokungancancisi.

UHeather McKenna, umama wabantwana abathathu, uthi ukuncancisa kwakunoxinzelelo kwaye kunzima, kwaye waziva ekhululekile xa egqibile ukuncancisa.

“Xa ndijonga ngasemva, [ndinqwenela] ukuba ngendingaziva ndicinezelekile ukuba ndiyincamathisele kude nje ngelixesha ndenza ngalo. Inxalenye enkulu yolu xinzelelo ivela kwisigwebo endivakalelwa kukuba abanye bakholelwa ekubeni ukuncancisa yeyona ndlela ingcono yokuhamba, ”utshilo uMcKenna.

Kwabasetyhini abagqiba ekubeni babhenele kwifomula kuphela, u-del Castillo-Hegyi uthi kufuneka benze njalo bengazisoli.

“Wonke umama unelungelo lokukhetha ukuba uwusebenzisa njani umzimba wakhe ukondla okanye ukungondli umntwana wakhe. [Ukuncancisa] kuguquke ngokwenyani kukhuphiswano lomama olukhohlakeleyo lokuphumelela indebe apho sivunyelwe ukuba sitsho koomama ukuba [bangaphantsi kwe] xa bengafuni ukuncancisa. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ube unesizathu. Lukhetho lwakho. ”

UBeth Wirtz, umama wabantwana abathathu, uyavuma. Xa imibhobho yobisi evaliweyo imthintele ekuncanciseni umntwana wakhe wokuqala, wagqiba kwelokuba angazami ngomntwana wakhe wesibini nowesithathu.

“Ndilwile nabo bangandihlaza ngenxa yokusebenzisa ifomula. [Abahlobo] bahlala bendikhumbuza ukuba ibele lelona lilungileyo kwaye [iintombi zam] azizukufumana konke [abakufunayo] ebhotileni, utshilo uWirtz.

“Andiqondi ukuba ndilahlekelwe yiyo nayiphi na into ngokungangancancisi kwaye andiqondi ukuba amajoni omzimba wabantwana bam athintelwe nangayiphi na indlela ngokungangancancisi. Yayikukukhetha kwam, isigqibo sam. Bendinesizathu sonyango, kodwa abanye abantu basetyhini benjenjalo ngezizathu ezingezizo ezonyango kwaye lilungelo labo elo, ”wongeze watsho.

Enye indlela abantu basetyhini abaziva ngathi bagwetywe ngayo xa bebuzwa ukuba bayancancisa. Nokuba umbuzo uza nomgwebo okanye umdla wokwenene, uSegrave-Daly kunye no-del Castillo-Hegyi bathi ezi mpendulo ziqwalaselweyo:

• "Hayi. Khange isebenze kuthi. Sinombulelo kakhulu ngefomyula. "
• "Hayi. Khange isebenze njengoko besicwangcisile. "
• “Enkosi ngomdla wakho kumntwana wam, kodwa ndikhetha ukungathethi ngaloo nto.”
• "Andabelani ngolwazi malunga namabele am."
• "Usana lwam luza kutyiswa ukuze bakhuseleke kwaye banokuchuma."
• Impilo yam nomntwana wam iza kuqala. "

Ekugqibeleni, kuphantsi kokuba ube nalo lonke ulwazi ngaphambi kokwenza isigqibo sokuncancisa okanye hayi

Njengomcebisi wezokuncancisa, uSegrave-Daly uthi uyayiqonda into yokuba ukukhuthaza oomama ukuba bancancise kuphela iinjongo ezintle, kodwa uyazi ukuba oomama bafuna kwaye kufuneka baziswe.

"Kufuneka babazi bonke ubungozi kunye nezibonelelo ukuze bakwazi ukulungiselela ngokwaneleyo ukuncancisa," uxelele iHealthline.

USegrave-Daly uthi kubalulekile ukuba oomama bathathe isigqibo malunga nokuba bangancancisi okanye bangancancisi ngokusekelwe kulwazi oluchanekileyo. Ucacisa oku, kunokunceda ukunqanda ukuphazamiseka ngokweemvakalelo.

"Abakwazi ukwenza eso sigqibo ngokufanelekileyo ukuba ukuncancisa kufundisiwe njengamandla amakhulu kwaye ungoyena mama ungcono xa [uncancisa] usana lwakho, xa iyunithi nganye kunye nosapho luneemfuno ezizodwa zokondla," utshilo utsho.

Abantu baqala ukuqonda ukuba okona kubaluleke kakhulu kukwenza okona kulungileyo kumzali nakumntwana

UDel Castillo-Hegyi uthi unethemba lokuba abantu abaninzi bayayiqonda into yokuba "ibele lelona lihle" akusoloko kunjalo.

"[Kuyavuyisa] ukubona abantu beqonda ukuba kutheni 'ukutya kokona kulungileyo'… kuyinyani. Umntwana ongondliyo ngokwaneleyo akazukuba neziphumo zempilo ezilungileyo okanye iziphumo ze-neurological, utshilo.

Uyongeza ukuba xa kufikwa kuncanciso xa kuthelekiswa nengxoxo yefomula, abazali akufuneki boyike ekucingeni ukuba ukunika umntwana wabo ubisi olungumgubo luyingozi okanye ukuncancisa kuphela kwendlela. Ukubeka nje, kufanele ukuba kube malunga nokukhuthaza impilo efanelekileyo yomzali kunye nomntwana wakhe.

"Wonke umama nomntwana bahlukile kwaye zonke iimfuno zomama nomntwana zifanelwe ukuba ziqwalaselwe kwaye zilungiselelwe- kwaye hayi ngenjongo yokufezekisa iinjongo zombutho othile, kodwa ukufezekisa iziphumo ezifanelekileyo zaloo mama nosana. Sinethemba [njengokuba] oomama abaninzi bethetha kwaye ingqwalasela [oku] ikufumanayo. ”

UCathy Cassata ngumbhali ozimeleyo ojolise kumabali ajikeleze impilo, impilo yengqondo kunye nokuziphatha komntu. Unobuchule bokubhala ngeemvakalelo kunye nokunxibelelana nabafundi ngendlela enengqiqo nenomdla. Funda ngakumbi ngomsebenzi wakhe Apha.