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Umxholo

• Isishwankathelo
• Yintoni umnakekeli?
• Ukunyamekela umntu othile kumchaphazela njani?
• Yintoni uxinzelelo lomnakekeli?
• Uxinzelelo kumongi lunokuyichaphazela njani impilo yam?
• Ndingenza ntoni ukuthintela okanye ukunciphisa uxinzelelo kumongi?

Isishwankathelo

Yintoni umnakekeli?

Umkhathaleli unakekela umntu ofuna uncedo lokuzikhathalela. Umntu odinga uncedo inokuba ngumntwana, umntu omdala, okanye umntu omdala. Basenokufuna uncedo ngenxa yokwenzakala, ukugula okungapheliyo, okanye ukukhubazeka.

Abanye babanonopheli ngabanonopheli abangaqhelekanga. Bahlala bengamalungu osapho okanye abahlobo. Abanye abanonopheli bahlawulwa iingcali. Abakhathaleli banokukhathalela ekhaya okanye esibhedlele okanye kolunye ukhathalelo lwempilo. Ngamanye amaxesha bakhathalela kude. Iindidi zemisebenzi eyenziwa ngabanonopheli inokubandakanya

• Ukunceda kwimisebenzi yemihla ngemihla njengokuhlamba, ukutya, okanye ukuthatha amayeza
• Ukulungiselela imisebenzi kunye nonyango
• Ukwenza izigqibo zempilo nezezezimali

Ukunyamekela umntu othile kumchaphazela njani?

Ukunyamekela kunokuvuyisa. Inokukunceda ukomeleza unxibelelwano kumntu omthandayo. Unokuziva wanelisekile ngokunceda omnye umntu. Kodwa ukunyamekela abantu kunokuba noxinzelelo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kube nzima. Ukunyamekela kunokubandakanya ukuhlangabezana neemfuno ezinzima ngaphandle koqeqesho okanye uncedo. Usenokuba uyasebenza kwaye unabantwana okanye abanye abantu ekufuneka ubakhathalele. Ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke ezi mfuno, unokuba ubeka ezakho iimfuno kunye neemvakalelo ecaleni. Kodwa ayilunganga impilo yakho yexesha elide. Kodwa kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba uyazikhathalela.

Yintoni uxinzelelo lomnakekeli?

Uninzi lwabanonopheli luchaphazeleka luxinzelelo lomongi. Olu luxinzelelo oluvela kuxinzelelo lweemvakalelo kunye nomzimba wokukhathalela. Imiqondiso ibandakanya

• Ndiziva ndoyisiwe
• Ndiziva ndililolo, ndedwa, okanye ndilahliwe ngabanye
• Ukulala kakhulu okanye kancinci
• Ukufumana okanye ukunciphisa ubunzima obuninzi
• Ndiziva ndidiniwe ixesha elininzi
• Ukuphelelwa ngumdla kwimisebenzi obukade uyithanda
• Ukucaphuka msinya okanye ukucaphuka
• Ndiziva ndikhathazekile okanye ndibuhlungu rhoqo
• Ukuba neentloko okanye iintlungu zomzimba rhoqo
• Ukujikela ekuziphatheni okungenampilo njengokutshaya okanye ukusela utywala kakhulu

Uxinzelelo kumongi lunokuyichaphazela njani impilo yam?

Uxinzelelo lwexesha elide lokukhathalela umntu kunokukubeka emngciphekweni weengxaki ezahlukeneyo zempilo. Ezinye zezi ngxaki zinokuba nzulu. Babandakanya

• Uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo
• Amajoni omzimba abuthathaka
• Ubunzima obuninzi kunye nokukhuluphala
• Izifo ezingapheliyo njengesifo sentliziyo, umhlaza, isifo seswekile, okanye isifo samathambo. Uxinzelelo kunye nokukhuluphala kunokubangela umngcipheko wezi zifo nangakumbi.
• Iingxaki kwimemori yexesha elifutshane okanye ukunikela ingqalelo

Ndingenza ntoni ukuthintela okanye ukunciphisa uxinzelelo kumongi?

Ukuthatha amanyathelo okuthintela okanye ukukhulula uxinzelelo kumongi kunokunceda ukunqanda iingxaki zempilo. Khumbula ukuba ukuba uziva ubhetele, unokukhathalela ngcono umntu omthandayo. Kuya kuba lula ukugxila kumvuzo wokukhathalela. Ezinye iindlela zokuzinceda zibandakanya

• Ukufunda iindlela ezingcono zokunceda umntu omthandayo. Umzekelo, izibhedlele zibonelela ngeeklasi ezinokukufundisa ukuba ungamnyamekela njani umntu owenzakeleyo okanye ogulayo.
• Ukufumana izixhobo zononophelo kwindawo ohlala kuyo ukukunceda. Uluntu oluninzi luneenkonzo zokukhathalela abantu abadala okanye iinkonzo zokuphefumla. Sebenzisa enye yezi kunokukunika ikhefu kwimisebenzi yokunyamekela.
• Ukucela nokwamkela uncedo. Yenza uluhlu lweendlela abanye abanokukunceda ngazo. Vumela abancedisi bakhethe oko bangathanda ukukwenza. Umzekelo, umntu othile angahlala nomntu omkhathaleleyo ngelixa usenza uthumo. Omnye umntu unokukuthathela ukutya.
• Ukujoyina iqela lenkxaso labanonopheli. Iqela lenkxaso linokukuvumela ukuba wabelane ngamabali, uthathe iingcebiso zokhathalelo, kwaye ufumane inkxaso kwabanye abajamelene nemiceli mngeni efanayo nale uyenzayo.
• Ukuzilungiselela ukwenza ukhathalelo lulawuleke. Yenza uluhlu lwezinto oza kuzenza kwaye usete indlela yemihla ngemihla.
• Ukuhlala unxibelelana nosapho kunye nabahlobo. Kubalulekile ukuba ube nenkxaso yemvakalelo.
• Ukunyamekela impilo yakho. Zama ukufumana ixesha lokuzivocavoca umzimba kwiintsuku ezininzi zeveki, ukhethe ukutya okusempilweni, kwaye ulale ngokwaneleyo. Qiniseka ukuba uqhubeka nokhathalelo lwakho lwezonyango olufana nokuhlolwa rhoqo kunye nokuhlolwa.
• Uthathela ingqalelo ukuthatha ikhefu emsebenzini, ukuba uyasebenza kwaye uziva ukhathazekile. Ngaphantsi komthetho weFederal Family and Medical Leave Act, abasebenzi abafanelekileyo banokuthatha ukuya kuthi ga kwiiveki ezili-12 zekhefu elingahlawulelwayo ngonyaka ukukhathalela izihlobo. Jonga kunye neofisi yakho yezabasebenzi malunga nokhetho lwakho.

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