Imidlalo emi-5 yokukhuthaza umntwana ukuba ahambe yedwa

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• Khathalela ukukhusela umntwana ofunda ukuhamba

Usana lungaqala ukuhamba lodwa malunga neenyanga ezili-9 ubudala, kodwa eyona nto ixhaphakileyo kukuba umntwana uqala ukuhamba xa enonyaka omnye. Nangona kunjalo, kuqhelekile ukuba umntwana athathe iinyanga ezili-18 ukuhamba ngaphandle kwesi sizathu sokukhathazeka.

Abazali kufuneka bakhathazeke kuphela ukuba umntwana ungaphezulu kweenyanga ezili-18 ubudala kwaye akabonakalisi mdla wokuhamba okanye ukuba, emva kweenyanga ezili-15, usana luye lube nolunye ulibaziseko lokukhula njengangoku lokungakwazi ukuhlala okanye ukukhasa, umzekelo. Kule meko, ugqirha wabantwana uya kuba nakho ukuvavanya usana kwaye acele iimvavanyo ezinokuthi zichonge unobangela woku kulibaziseka kophuhliso.

Le midlalo inokwenziwa ngokwendalo, ngexesha lasimahla abazali ekufuneka bekhathalele ngalo umntwana kwaye linokusetyenziswa ukuba umntwana sele ehleli yedwa, ngaphandle kokufuna inkxaso kwaye ukuba ukwabonisa ukuba unamandla emilenzeni kwaye angakwazi shukuma, nokuba ayirhubuluzi kakuhle, kodwa ayifuni kwenziwa phambi kokuba umntwana abe neenyanga ezili-9 ubudala:

1. Bamba izandla zomntwana xa eme phantsi kwaye uhamba naye ukuthatha amanyathelo ambalwa. Lumka ungamdinisi umntwana kakhulu kwaye ungamnyanzeli amalungu ngokudibanisa ngokutsala nzima kakhulu okanye ngokukhawuleza kakhulu ukuba ahambe.
2. Beka into yokudlala esofeni xa umntwana emile ephethe isofa, okanye kwitafile esecaleni, ukuze atsaleleke kwinto yokudlala kwaye azame ukufikelela kuye ehamba.
3. Beka umntwana emqolo, xhasa izandla zakho ezinyaweni zakhe ukuze akwazi ukutyhala, etyhala izandla zakhe phezulu. Lo mdlalo uyintandokazi yeentsana kwaye ulungele ukukhula kwamandla emisipha kunye nokomeleza amalungu amaqatha, amadolo kunye nesinqe.
4. Ukunikezela ngeethoyi ezinokutyhalwa zime nkqoezifana nenqwelwana kanodoli, inqwelo enkulu yokuthengisa okanye iinqwelo zokucoca ukuze umntwana akwazi ukutyhala indlu kangangoko efuna nangaliphi na ixesha afuna ngalo.
5. Yima amanyathelo amabini ujonge usana kwaye ubize ukuba uze kuwe wedwa. Kubalulekile ukuba ugcine ujongo oluthambileyo nolonwabisayo ebusweni bakho, ukuze umntwana azive ekhuselekile. Njengokuba usana lungawa, kunokuba licebo elihle ukuzama lo mdlalo engceni, kuba ngaloo ndlela ukuba uyawa, mancinci amathuba okuba enzakale.

Ukuba usana luyawa kuyacetyiswa ukuba umxhase ngothando, ngaphandle kokumoyikisa ukuze angoyiki ukuzama ukuhamba yedwa kwakhona.

Zonke iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa ukuya kuthi ga kwiinyanga ezi-4 ubudala, xa zibanjelwe amakhwapha kwaye iinyawo ziphumle kuwo nawuphi na umphezulu, kubonakala ngathi ziyafuna ukuhamba. Le yi-gait reflex, engokwemvelo ebantwini kwaye ihlala inyamalala kwiinyanga ezi-5.

Jonga eminye imidlalo enceda ukukhula komntwana kule vidiyo:

Khathalela ukukhusela umntwana ofunda ukuhamba

Umntwana ofunda ukuhamba akufuneki ubengumhambi, kuba esi sixhobo siyaphikiswa kuba sinokwenzakalisa ukukhula komntwana, sibangele ukuba umntwana ahambe kamva. Qonda ingozi yokusebenzisa iklasikhi yokuhamba.

Xa umntwana esafunda ukuhamba yenaungahamba unganxibanga zihlangu ngaphakathi naselunxwemeni. Ngeentsuku ezibandayo, iikawusi ezingatyibilikisi lukhetho olukhulu kuba iinyawo azibandi kwaye usana luziva lungcono phantsi, lwenza kubelula ukuhamba lodwa.

Emva kokuba ebenobuchule bokuhamba yedwa, kuya kufuneka ukuba anxibe izihlangu ezifanelekileyo ezingathinteli ukukhula kweenyawo, ukubonelela ngokhuseleko ngakumbi ukuba umntwana ahambe. Isihlangu kufanele ukuba silingane ngokuchanekileyo kwaye masingabi sincinci kakhulu okanye sikhululeke kakhulu, ukunika ukomelela kosana ngakumbi ukuze luhambe. Ke ngoko, ngelixa usana lungahambi ngokukhuselekileyo, kungcono ukuba unganxibi ii-slippers, kuphela ukuba zi-elastic ngasemva. Jonga indlela yokukhetha isihlangu esifanelekileyo ukuze umntwana afunde ukuhamba.

Abazali bahlala befuna ukukhapha umntwana naphina apho akhoyo, kuba eli nqanaba liyingozi kakhulu kwaye nje ukuba usana luqale ukuhamba anokufikelela kuyo yonke indawo endlwini, ekusenokwenzeka ukuba khange ifike nje ngokukhasa. Kulungile ukugcina iso kwizinyuko, ukubeka isango elincinci emazantsi nasezinyukweni kunokuba sisisombululo esihle sokuthintela umntwana ukuba anganyuki okanye ehle ngezinyuko eyedwa aze enzakale.

Nangona usana lungakuthandi ukubanjiswa ebhedini okanye kwipeni yeehagu, abazali kufuneka banciphise apho bangakhona. Ukuvala iingcango zegumbi kunokuba luncedo ukuze umntwana angabi yedwa kwigumbi. Ukukhusela ikona yefenitshala enezixhaso ezincinci kubalulekile ukuze usana lungabethi entloko.