Unokwazi njani ukuba umntwana wam akasebenzi

Umxholo

• Iimpawu zokungasebenzi kakuhle emntwaneni
• Uvavanyo lokungasebenzi kakuhle
• Fumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho akanangxaki na.
• Lunjani unyango kunyango

Ukuchonga ukuba umntwana une-hyperactive, kufuneka uyazi imiqondiso ethi le ngxaki ibonakalise ukungazinzi ngexesha lokutya kunye nemidlalo, ukongeza kukungabikho kwengqwalaselo kwiiklasi kunye nokubukela umabonwakude, umzekelo.

Ingxaki yokungakhathalelwa kokuchaphazeleka kwengqondo, emelwe sisichazi esithi ADHD, iyabhideka kakhulu kukoyika, uloyiko okanye ukuphazamiseka kwaye ihlala ibonakalisa ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-7. Xa esi sifo singachazwanga ebuntwaneni, sinokuphazamisa ukufunda komntwana kunye nobomi bentlalo. Ukuqonda ngcono ukuba yintoni hyperactivity.

Iimpawu zokungasebenzi kakuhle emntwaneni

Ukuchonga ukuba umntwana une-hyperactive, kufuneka anike ingqalelo kwiimpawu ezinje:

1. Akakwazi ukuhlala ixesha elide, ehamba esihlalweni sakhe;
2. Kubonakala ngathi ayinikeli ngqalelo koko kuthethwayo;
3. Unobunzima ekulandeleni iodolo okanye umyalelo, nokuba uwuqondile;
4. Akakwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba kumaxesha okuthula, njengokufunda;
5. Uthetha kakhulu, ngendlela egqithileyo kwaye akanakuthi cwaka, aphazamise incoko;
6. Unobunzima ekuqwalaseleni nasekugxileni ekhaya nasezikolweni;
7. Kulula kakhulu ukuphazamiseka;
8. Uziva uxhalabile xa ufuna ukwenza into;
9. Kulula ukuphulukana nezinto;
10. Unobunzima ekudlaleni yedwa okanye ngento enye;
11. Utshintsha imisebenzi, ushiya eyangaphambili ingagqitywanga;
12. Akanakulinda elithuba lakhe, akwazi ukuthetha impendulo nangaphambi kombuzo okanye abanye oogxa bakhe baphendule;
13. Ukhetha imidlalo eyingozi kuba akacingi ngeziphumo.

Ke, ukuba kukho urhaneleko lokungakhathali, kuyabonakaliswa ukuba abazali bafuna isayikholojisti yokuziphatha okanye ugqirha wabantwana, ukuze uvavanyo lwenziwe kwaye ukufumanisa isifo kuqinisekiswe okanye kugwetyelwe ngaphandle, njengoko le miqondiso inokuvela nakwezinye iingxaki zobuntwana ezinje uxinzelelo ngokubanzi, uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhatshazwa, ukuze ukusukela ngoko umntwana anyangwe ngokufanelekileyo.

Uvavanyo lokungasebenzi kakuhle

Phendula le mibuzo ilandelayo kwaye ufumanise ukuba umntwana wakho angadlala kakhulu:

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Fumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho akanangxaki na.

Qalisa uvavanyo Ngaba uhlikihla izandla zakho, iinyawo okanye ukugungqa kwisitulo sakho?

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Ngaba umntwana ungcolile kwaye ushiya yonke into ngaphandle kwendawo?

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Ngaba kunzima kuye ukuba eme abukele imovie kude kube sekupheleni?

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Ngaba ubonakala ngathi akamameli xa uthetha naye kwaye akushiye uthetha wedwa?

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Ngaba iphazamisekile kakhulu kwaye iza ngefanitshala okanye iikhabhathi naxa ingalunganga kwaphela?

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Ngaba akayithandi imisebenzi ezolileyo nezoyolo njengeYoga okanye iiklasi zokucamngca konke konke?

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Ngaba unzima ukulinda ithuba lakhe kwaye adlule phambi kwabanye?

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Ngaba unayo nayiphi na ingxaki yokuhlala phantsi kweyure enye?

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Ngaba uphazamiseka lula esikolweni, okanye xa uthetha naye?

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Ngaba uyaphazamiseka xa umamele umculo okanye ngaba ukwindawo entsha enabantu abaninzi?

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Ngaba umntwana uyathanda ukwenzakaliswa yimikrwelo okanye ukulunywa ngokwenza oku ngenjongo?

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Ngaba umntwana unengxaki yokulandela imiyalelo enikwa ngomnye umntu?

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Ngaba umntwana unobunzima bokuhoya esikolweni kwaye ade aphazanyiswe ngumdlalo awuthanda kakhulu?

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Ngaba umntwana ukufumanisa kunzima ukugqiba umsebenzi omnye ngenxa yokuba ephazamisekile kwaye waqalisa kwangoko omnye?

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Ngaba umntwana ukufumanisa kunzima ukudlala ngendlela ethe cwaka neyoxolo?

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Ngaba uthetha kakhulu umntwana?

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Ngaba umntwana uyaphazamisa okanye aphazamise abanye?

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Ngaba umntwana ubonakala ngathi akakuva oko kuthethwayo, rhoqo?

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Ngaba uhlala uphulukana nezinto eziyimfuneko kwimisebenzi okanye kwimisebenzi esikolweni okanye ekhaya?

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Ngaba umntwana uyathanda ukuthatha inxaxheba kwizinto eziyingozi ngaphandle kokujonga iziphumo ezinokubakho?

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Edlulileyo Elandelayo

Lunjani unyango kunyango

Ukungasebenzi kakuhle akunanyango, kodwa unyango luyamnceda umntwana ukuba anciphise iimpawu kwaye lwenziwa ngokuziphatha kunye neendlela zokuphumla ezikhokelwa sisazi ngengqondo somntwana ukunceda ukulawula iimpawu.

Kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, xa ukuphazamiseka kuthintela umntwana ekwenzeni imisebenzi elula njengokuya esikolweni, ukongeza kunyango lokuziphatha, amayeza anokumiselwa ngugqirha wabantwana.

Abazali babalulekile kunyango, kuba banokunceda umntwana ukuba alawule iimpawu ngokwamkela ezinye iindlela ezinje ngokwenza inkqubo yesiqhelo, ukuba neeshedyuli rhoqo nokwenza imisebenzi enceda umntwana ukuba asebenzise amandla, njengokufumana umzuzu wosapho umdlalo obandakanya ukubaleka, umzekelo.