Lo Mama woBuchule wabaThathu ufumana iNdlela yokuSebenza naBonke aBantwana baKhe

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UJuca Csíkos izandla zakhe zigcwele iseti yamawele kunye nosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa, kodwa loo nto ayimnqandanga ekuxineni ekusebenzeni nasekuqinisekiseni ukuba umthambo unendawo efanelekileyo yokuba ngumama. Umthandi wokomelela waseHungary oneminyaka engama-27 ubudala uqokelele abalandeli abangaphezu kwama-64,000 ngenxa yezithuba ezikhuthazayo nezithandekayo zokuba kufanelekile ngoncedo lwabantwana bakhe abancinci.

Nokuba kukuphakanyiswa kokuphakanyiswa komntwana okanye kokuqunjelwa zontathu ii-kiddos ngelixa ethatha uhambo epakini (thetha ngoqeqesho lobunzima!), Ufumene indlela yokwenza ukusebenza kwenxalenye yexesha lokudlala kukamama-intombi, ke akufuneki ukuba akhethe phakathi kwezi zimbini. (Ngeli xesha, lo mama wayijika yonke indlu yakhe yaba yindawo yokuzivocavoca.)

Ibhalansi uCsíkos ayifumene nosapho kunye nezibonelelo zakhe nosapho kuba uninzi lwabantwana lufuna ubuncinci iyure yokwenza umthambo yonke imihla, olunokubanceda bakhe amathambo asempilweni kunye nokunyusa ukuzithemba, ngokweZiko leSizwe lezeMpilo.

Mhlawumbi eyona nto inomdla kakhulu kumama uCsíkos amkele ukufumana indlela yokwenza umthambo ngelixa uncancisa-yep. Akusayi kuphinda kumiswe iseshoni yokubila ukuba usana lwakhe luyakhala. Ubhinqa nje iintsimbi zeqakala aze abe nobuchule. Zihlolele ngokwakho. (Uyazi ukuba yintoni enye onokuyenza xa uncancisa? Nceda uqhube urhulumente: Le Senator ye-Badass yase-Australia yaba nguMfazi wokuQala wokuncancisa ePalamente.)

"Awunalo ixesha lokwenza imithambo kuba iiswiti zakho kufuneka uzitye?" Ubhale ividiyo yakutshanje yakhe ephakamisa umlenze ophakamileyo ngelixa ebonga. "Ningaxhali! Nali icebo kuni mama, yenzeni ngokucothayo ngelixa iintsana zenu zincancisa."

Akusiyo imfihlo yokuba ukuba nabantwana bakunyanzele ukuba uyeke ishedyuli yakho yesiqhelo, okanye ubuncinci, tshintsha kwiiseshoni zasemva kwemini uye kwangoko (kwangoko) ekusebenzeni kwasekuseni. Kodwa kulungile ukubona oomama beyila ukuze baphule ukubila nabantwana babo.

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