UDemi Lovato uthe Ukuphela kokuzibandakanya kwabo yayiyeyona nto 'ibalaseleyo eyenzekileyo' kubo

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Kubantu abaninzi, ukucima uthethathethwano kunokuba yinto ebuhlungu. KuDemi Lovato, nangona kunjalo, ukwahlukana neqabane elinokubakho ubomi bonke kubonakala ngathi kuyeyona nto iphosakeleyo.

Ngexesha Ngomhla we-19 Imele iNgqungquthela eyi-2021 eyiLwesine ngoLwesine, imvumi eneminyaka engama-28 ivule malunga nokwahlukana kwabo nomlingisi uMax Ehrich kwaye wachaza "ukuchithwa" kobudlelwane babo njengeyona "nto intle kakhulu eyenzekileyo kubo." (Idibeneyo: UDemi Lovato ubhiyozela 'ukuzithemba komzimba' ngelixa esenza imiboniso bhanyabhanya yokuqala yesondo)

"Ndikwazile ukuzimela ngeenyawo zam ezimbini ngaphandle kokufuna omnye umntu ukuba andiqinisekise okanye andenze ndizive ndamkelekile. Xa ndithe ndalahla kolo lwalamano, ndaphinda ndathi ndlela-ntle kuyo yonke into eyayindibamba ekubeni ndingoyena mntu wam , "ucacise umculi otyunjwe nguGrammy.

U-Lovato uthe baqala ukuchonga njengezinto ezingezizo ngo-Matshi 2020, ngexesha elifanayo "badibana nomntu" (u-Ehrich) kwaye baqala ubudlelwane bobufanasini. “Oko kwandikhokelela ekubeni ndingawahoyi onke amalungu am endingacingi ukuba anokugaywa kwiqabane lam ngelo xesha,” babelana. Xa esi sibini sathi siyeka ngoSeptemba ka-2020 (emva kweenyanga ezisixhenxe zokuthandana kunye nokuzibandakanya esidlangalaleni), uLovato waziva ekhululekile ukuba aqale "ukuchonga njengomntu [aba]wenza namhlanje."

Ngexesha lodliwano-ndlebe, inkwenkwezi yangaphambili yeDisney nayo yabelana ukuba baqala ukubuza ukuba bangobani ngokwesini xa "bakwibanga lesine okanye lesihlanu."

"Ngexesha lam lokuphumla, ndandifumanisa ukuba ndikhululekile ukuba phakathi kwamakhwenkwe, okanye ndicinga ngelo xesha, ukwenza amahlaya amnandi, nantoni na eyenziwa ngabafundi bebanga lesihlanu. Ndaqonda ukuba andiyiyo loo ntombazana, "bakhumbula. "Kwakungekho de ndaya kwisikolo esiphakathi apho ndatshintsha ngokupheleleyo umfanekiso wam kunye negama lam ukuze ndizenze ndityekele ngakumbi kubantu abakwisikolo esiphakathi kuba ndandinengqiqo yokuba abayi kuba nobuhlobo njengoko babenjalo. Isikolo samabanga aphantsi. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, bendinyanisile!

Ukukhawuleza ukuya ku-Meyi ka-2021 kunye no-Lovato baphuma njengabantu abanganyanzelekanga esidlangalaleni kwi-podcast yabo, 4D kunye noDemi Lovato. Kwaye xa ebuzwa ukuba zithini izinto ezingezizo ezobuchule kubo kudliwanondlebe lwangoLwesine, u-Lovato waphendula wathi, "Ndingaphezulu kakhulu kokubini kwendoda nomfazi." (Eyeleleneyo: U-Demi Lovato Uvula Ngokumalunga Nokuziphatha kakubi ukusukela oko batshintsha izimelabizo zabo)

Baqhubeke bathi, "Kucela umngeni kuyo yonke into endiyaziyo, yonke into endikhule ndikholelwa ukuba kufuneka ndijonge kwaye ndiyenze kwaye ndenze ngendlela ethile, kwaye ikhupha yonke loo nto ngefestile kwaye ifana, 'Nguye lo. , yithathe okanye uyiyeke. Andifuni ukuba uyithathe kodwa ndiziva ndikhulu nokuba awuyithathi. '"

Kodwa kulungile ngoku. U-Lovato uqhubeke wachaza ukuba bacinga ukuba uhambo lwabo lwesini luya kuhlala "ngonaphakade," kwaye "kunokubakho ixesha apho [beza] kuchonga njenge-trans." “Okanye kukhe kubekho ixesha lokuba ndimdala ndizichonge njengomntu obhinqileyo, andiyazi ukuba injani loo nto, kodwa kum, ngalo mzuzu ngoku, yindlela endichonga ngayo le,” batsho. (Idibene: I-LGBTQ + Uluhlu lweenkcazo zesini kunye neenkcazo zesini Amanyeneyo ekufuneka eyazi)

Kwaye ekupheleni kosuku, yonke into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba uLovato uziva enentembelo kwaye ekhululekile kulusu lwakhe - nokuba yeyiphi na ilebheli.

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