Yonke into ekufuneka uyazi malunga ne-Erotic Asphyxiation

Umxholo

• Yintoni?
• Ngaba ihlala ikhuselekile?
• Kutheni abantu beyonwabela?
• Zomzimba
• Yengqondo
• Ngokwasemzimbeni
• Ungayenza ngokwakho okanye kwiqabane
• Ukudlala ngokuphefumlayo onoxanduva kuza kwizinto ezintathu
• Imfundo
• Unxibelelwano
• Imvume
• Iindidi ezahlukeneyo zithwala imingcipheko eyahlukeneyo
• Ukukrwitsha
• Ingxowa ngaphezulu kwentloko
• Ukukhubazeka
• Ukutshiza
• Ngaba ezinye iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zinokulindelwa?
• Yintoni enokwenzeka ukuba iya kude?
• Umonakalo wobuchopho
• Umqala owonakeleyo
• Umnqweno
• Ukuhlaselwa yintliziyo
• I-hematoma ye-Orbital subperiosteal
• Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho lineziphumo ezibi
• Ukuba ufuna ukufunda ngakumbi

Yintoni?

I-erotic asphyxiation (EA) ligama elisemthethweni lokudlala umphefumlo.

Olu hlobo lwezenzo zesondo lubandakanya ukunqunyulwa ngabom kunikezelo lomoya kuwe okanye kwiqabane lakho ngokukrwitshwa, ukufuthaniselwa kunye nezinye izinto.

Abantu abadlala ngokuphefumla bathi inokuphakamisa ukuvusa isondo kwaye yenze i-orgasms ibe namandla ngakumbi.

Kodwa ayikho ngaphandle kwemingcipheko yayo - kwaye uninzi lwazo. Ingabulala xa ungathathi amanyathelo okhuseleko afanelekileyo.

Nantsi into ekufuneka uyazi ukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lwakho kwaye ubenexesha elimyoli.

Ngaba ihlala ikhuselekile?

Imisebenzi emininzi yezesondo inomngcipheko othile, kodwa akukho nto iyiphikisayo into yokuba iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuphefumla zinomngcipheko othile obalulekileyo.

"I-EA iyingozi kakhulu kwaye ingakhokelela ekonzakaleni okukhulu, kubandakanya ukubanjwa kwentliziyo, ukonakala kwengqondo kukuswela ioksijini, kunye nokufa," utshilo uJanet Brito, PhD, LCSW, CST, ojolise kunyango lwesondo.

Ukwazi i-EA kungakhokelela ekufumaneni ukubetha kwentliziyo ngendlela engaqhelekanga, ukubanjwa kwentliziyo, kunye nokufa, iingcali ezininzi zicebisa ngokuchasene noko. ”

Okwangoku, lo msebenzi yinto ekhulayo eyaziwayo, kwaye amanyathelo anokuthathwa ukuyenza ikhuseleke ngakumbi kulangazelelo.

Iindidi ezahlukeneyo zokuphefumla zibeka imingcipheko eyahlukeneyo, kwaye izilumkiso zinokukunceda ukuthintela imiba enokwenzeka.

Kutheni abantu beyonwabela?

Njengezinye iikinks kunye nezinto ezibonisa umdla kwezesondo, umdlalo wokuphefumla unomdla ebantwini ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Nazi ezintathu eziqhelekileyo.

Zomzimba

Ngexesha lokudlala umphefumlo, wena okanye iqabane lakho nithintela ioksijini kwingqondo yenu. Eli linyathelo elinye lenkqubo.

Xa amanqanaba akho eoksijini ephantsi, unokuziva unentloko elula okanye utyhafile.

Kodwa xa uxinzelelo lukhutshwa kwaye ioksijini kunye negazi ziqala ukuhamba kwakhona, unokuziva lolunye uhlobo lokukhawuleza.

Le ibangelwa kukukhutshwa kwe-dopamine, i-serotonin, kunye nee-endorphins ezinokubangela ukonwaba kwentloko.

Yengqondo

Abanye abalandeli bomoya wokuphefumla njengesixhobo sokudlala samalungiselelo.

Njengomntu ophetheyo, ungaliminxa okanye uliminxe iqabane lakho.

Okanye njengokuthobela, unokulawulwa. Umlingane wakho ubalaseleyo kwaye ukhokela imicimbi.

Oku kubanamandla kubonelela ngolwahlulo lwesibini lokuvuselela inkanuko yesini kwabanye abantu.

Ngokwasemzimbeni

Emva kwangoko kokukrwitshwa, ukufuthaniseleka, okanye ukukrwitshwa, umzimba wakho unokudida ukungxama kwee-endorphins kunye neehomoni njengezinto ezintle nezonwabisayo.

Ngokwenyani, ezo hormone zabangelwa kukukhusela komzimba wakho.

Kodwa kumlilo odubulayo weemvakalelo kunye nolonwabo, ezi mvakalelo zinokuziva ngathi "iintlungu ziyolo" kunokuba zilumkise imiqondiso evela kwingqondo nasemzimbeni wakho.

Ungayenza ngokwakho okanye kwiqabane

Ukuba uqhuba i-EA yodwa, yaziwa ngokuba yi-auto asphyxiation okanye i-autoerotic asphyxiation.

Ukudlala umphefumlo wedwa kuyingozi ngaphezu komdlalo odibeneyo.

Abantu abaninzi abasebenzisa i-EA bodwa bazama ukudala "ukusilela ngokukhuselekileyo." Oku kunokubandakanya ukusebenzisa iqhina elithetha ukunika indlela xa utsala nzima, okanye ukubetha amadolo akho kwikhabethe ukuba uyaphuma.

Ezi ndlela ziyilelwe ukuthintela ukufa, kodwa uninzi ziyasilela.

Isicwangciso esingcono kukukhomba umhlobo osondeleyo okanye umntu othembekileyo ngaphakathi kwaye ubacele ukuba bajonge. Oku kunokuthetha ukuba ulinde kwigumbi elilandelayo okanye ujonge kuwe ngexesha elimiselweyo.

Ukudlala ngokuphefumla kusenokuba yingozi ukuba ukunye neqabane. Wena okanye iqabane lakho aninakuqaphela xa ukukrwitshwa okanye ukukrwitshwa sele kude kakhulu.

Oku kunokwandisa iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga okanye kwandise umngcipheko weengxaki ezinzulu.

Ukudlala ngokuphefumlayo onoxanduva kuza kwizinto ezintathu

Ukuba unomdla malunga ne-EA, oku kulandelayo kubalulekile ukuze ukhuseleke, kumnandi ukudlala.

Imfundo

Thatha ixesha lokufunda malunga nokwakheka kwentamo, intloko, nesifuba. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba uyiqonde ngcono imida yoxinzelelo kunye nokunyanzelwa.

Ukonyuka okunyukayo kuya kukunceda uphephe ukwenzakala, nawe.

Ukufunda i-anatomy kuya kugxininisa ukubaluleka kokubekwa kwesandla ngokufanelekileyo, okanye indawo yokubeka imiqobo efana namabhanti, izikhafu, okanye iqhina.

Imithambo esentanyeni inokuthatha uxinzelelo oluthile, kodwa awuyi kufuna ukusebenzisa amandla amaninzi ekuqaleni.

Unxibelelwano

"Ngaphambi kokuba isibini siqwalasele i-EA, kungcono ukuba sibekele bucala ixesha lokuthetha ngezinto abanomdla kuzo - ngakumbi zeziphi iintlobo zemida ezifunekayo," utshilo uBrito.

Ukwenza iseti yeempawu ezingacacanga kunokunceda ukudala imeko yokhuseleko.

Kuxhomekeke kwimeko, wena okanye iqabane lakho ninokuthi nicinge:

• ubambe into esandleni sakho, ezinje ngezitshixo zakho, kwaye uyilahle xa ungathanda ukuyeka
• ukucofa kathathu esandleni seqabane lakho okanye umphezulu okufuphi
• ukuqhawula iminwe yakho

Imvume

Wena neqabane lakho nifanele nixoxe ngemida yenu ngaphambi kokuba nibe shushu ngalo mzuzu, kwaye kufuneka kunikwe imvume kwinqanaba ngalinye lokudlala.

Nokuba wena okanye iqabane lakho aninakho ukunika imvume ngokufanelekileyo xa nikhubazekile ziziyobisi okanye butywala.

Ngaphezu, ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi notywala ngexesha lokuphefumla kunokunyusa umngcipheko wokulimala kunye neengxaki.

Iindidi ezahlukeneyo zithwala imingcipheko eyahlukeneyo

Ayilulo uhlobo lokuphefumla olulinganayo ngokwemingcipheko. Nazi ezinye zeentlobo eziqhelekileyo kunye nendlela onokuzilungiselela ngayo.

Ukukrwitsha

Ukucinezela umphandle womqala wakho kusika umoya kunye negazi kwingqondo ukusuka kwimithambo emibini ephambili. Oku kwenza ukuphefumla kube nzima kwaye kunokukhokelela kwimpawu zokuziva kakuhle ze-EA.

Logama nje uthintela uxinzelelo olunzulu kwitrachea okanye iapile kaAdam, unokukwazi ukuziqhelanisa nolu hlobo lokuphefumla ngokukhuselekileyo.

Ingxowa ngaphezulu kwentloko

Ukutyibilika kwengxowa entlokweni yakho kungakunqumamisa kwangoko ukufikelela kwioksijini okanye kuyinciphise kakhulu. Ngeoksijini encinci, unokukhula ube nesiyezi okanye ube nentloko elula.

Ngomlingane, olu hlobo lokuphefumla lunokukhuseleka, kodwa uwedwa, ubeka umngcipheko wokudlula ngaphambi kokuba uthathe ibhegi entlokweni yakho.

Ukukhubazeka

Xa umzimba wakho uziva ukuhamba kwegazi kusezantsi, uxinzelelo lwegazi luyanda.

Ukukhupha ukubanjwa okuxinyiweyo kunokubangela ukukhawuleza kwegazi, emva koko iimvakalelo ezinje ngokudideka kunye nelahleko yokugxila.

Kodwa ukukrwitshwa, okungenziwa ngezandla okanye ibhanti, iqhina, isikhafu, okanye esinye isixhobo, kunokuba yingozi ngokukhawuleza.

Ukuba uxinzelelo lukhulu kakhulu okanye luqhubeka ixesha elide, kunokubangela ukubanjwa kwentliziyo, kwanokufa.

Unokunceda ukuthintela ukubanjwa kwentliziyo kunye nokufa ngokushiya ubuncinci ububanzi beminwe emibini phakathi kwentamo kunye nezixhobo ezisetyenzisiweyo.

Oku kuqinisekisa ukuba ayilungelanga kakhulu entanyeni, ngelixa ikuvumela wena okanye iqabane lakho ukuba lenze umahluko ngesandla.

Ukutshiza

Ukuba neqabane lakho lihlale ebusweni bakho, okanye ngokuchaseneyo, luhlobo oludumileyo lokuphefumla. Ngamanye amaxesha iimaski zegesi zinokufezekisa isiphelo esifanayo.

Le meko yokuthintelwa komoya ikhawulela ioksijini kwingqondo yakho, enokubangela ukuba ube nobunzima kunye nobuthathaka.

Ukuziqhelanisa uwedwa, ukutshaya kunokuba yingozi kuba ungaphumelela ngaphambi kokuba ususe isithintelo.

Ukutshiza kunokukhuseleka neqabane, kodwa uyakufuna igama elikhuselekileyo okanye umqondiso ukubonisa xa uxinzelelo lukhulu kakhulu.

Ngaba ezinye iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zinokulindelwa?

Nokuba uthatha onke amanyathelo okhuseleko, usenokuba neziphumo ebezingalindelekanga.

Oku kubandakanya:

• ukukhohlela
• ukudideka
• ubuthathaka bemisipha
• ukuba ndindisholo
• ukozela
• ukulahleka koququzelelo

Impembelelo yecala elinye ayinabungozi ngokukodwa.

Kodwa ukuba wenza i-EA yodwa, ukufumana iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ezininzi ngaxeshanye kunokukuthintela ekuzisuseni kwimeko.

Oko kunokuba ekugqibeleni kubenze babulale.

Yintoni enokwenzeka ukuba iya kude?

Ngenxa yokuba umgca phakathi komdlalo okhuselekileyo kunye nengozi ulunge kakhulu nge-EA, uninzi loogqirha kunye neengcali zicebisa ngokuchasene nayo.

Ezi ngxaki zexesha elide zezinye zezizathu zokuba kutheni.

Umonakalo wobuchopho

Ngalo lonke ixesha ingqondo yakho ihamba ngaphandle kweoksijini, ubangela ukonakala kwengqondo. Iziphumo ezongezayo ze-asphyxia yesiqhelo zinokuba yingxaki.

Umqala owonakeleyo

Ukucinezela ezantsi kwingqula kunokulonakalisa ilungu lomzimba eliethe-ethe.

Kwangelo xesha, amandla anokuqhekeza okanye aqhekeze i-hyoid, ithambo elisentanyeni elixhasa ulwimi.

Umnqweno

Ezinye zeemvakalelo ezibangelwa yi-EA zinokukwenza ube nesicefeceke. Oku kunokukhokelela ekugabheni.

Nangona ingaqhelekanga, abanye abantu banokugqibela ngokufuna ukugabha. Oko kuthetha ukuba ngandlela thile bayakwazi ukugabha kwindlela yabo yomoya okanye imiphunga.

Oku kunokubangela iingxaki zokuphefumla ixesha elide kunye nokwandisa umngcipheko wosulelo, phakathi kwezinye iingxaki.

Ukuhlaselwa yintliziyo

Ukwenziwa kweekhemikhali kwegazi kuyatshintsha xa ioksijini iphantsi. Olu tshintsho lunokucaphukisa isingqi sendalo sentliziyo kwaye lunokukhokelela kwiziphene ezibulalayo.

Ekugqibeleni, oku kunokubangela ukubanjwa kwentliziyo, nangona kunqabile.

I-hematoma ye-Orbital subperiosteal

Kwimeko enye enqabileyo, owasetyhini owayeqhelanise ne-EA uxele isebe likaxakeka nge-orbital subperiosteal hematoma, okanye ukopha kwiliso lamehlo.

Oku kunokukhokelela ekuphulukaneni nombono ngokusisigxina, kunye nentlungu yexesha elide.

Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho lineziphumo ezibi

Ukuba iqabane lakho liyekile ukuphefumla, kwangoko fowunela inkonzo yangaphakathi engxamisekileyo. Emva koko qalisa iCPR.

Ukuba uyayazi le ndlela yokusindisa ubomi, unokuyenza kwangoko. Ukuba awukwenzi oko, umphenduli ongxamisekileyo uya kukukhokela kwinkqubo.

Ukuba uqhelisela i-EA wedwa kwaye uneziphumo ebezingalindelekanga okanye iingxaki, funa uncedo komnye umntu ekhaya kunye nawe. Unokufuna nje imizuzu embalwa ukubuyisela ukuhamba kwegazi kunye neoksijini.

Tsalela umnxeba inkonzo yakho yongxamiseko yangoko kwangoko ukuba ukuphefumla kwakho akuzinzile okanye unentlungu esifubeni.

Ukuba ufuna ukufunda ngakumbi

Ngenxa yeengozi ezinokubakho ezinxulunyaniswa nokudlala ngokuphefumla, licebo elilungileyo ukuthetha nengcali yezesondo ngaphambi kokuba uzame nawuphi na umsebenzi.

Banokukunceda ufunde i-anatomy efanelekileyo, uphendule imibuzo, kwaye bakukhokele kwizixhobo ezongezelelweyo.

Unokuphinda ufune izifundo ngeeklasi kwiivenkile zabantu abadala. Uninzi lwezi ndawo lubamba iindibano zocweyo okanye iiseshoni zoqeqesho.

Gcina ukhumbula ukuba uninzi lweengcali zikhuthaza abantu ukuba bayeke ngokucacileyo i-EA. Inokuxhuma ngokukhawuleza isuke kwimidlalo eyonwabisayo yesini iye kulukhuphiswano oluyingozi.