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Kukho amaxabiso athile athe amela ukuvavanywa kwexesha: imbeko, ukuthembeka kunye nokunyaniseka. Kodwa umbono wobunyulu-okanye ngakumbi, ubuntombi-njengesidima sitshintshile kutshanje, ngakumbi kwinkcubeko apho isondo ngaphambi komtshato ngoku liqhelekile. Khawucinge ngoku: Ngaba utshatile? Ukhe wabelana ngesondo? Ukuba uphendule ngo-ewe kubo bobabini, ngubani oza kuqala? (Elinye ibhinqa labelana: "Endikufundileyo ukusuka kwiminyaka eli-10 yokuma ngobusuku obunye.")

Inyani yile, ngakumbi nangakumbi kuthi batshintshisa amakhadi ethu e-v ngaphambi kokuba bathi "ndiyayenza" -ngoko ke iqela labaphandi abasuka kwiYunivesithi yase-Indiana bazimisele ukubona ukuba akukho hlazo lokuhlala uyintombi nto, ngakumbi xa kuziwa ekumiseni ubudlelwane bezothando. Into abayifumeneyo kukuba ayenzi ntombi zodwa umbono Ngokwabo njengoko bebekiwe, eneneni bayacalulwa ngabo bathe bachitha ixesha engxoweni.

Ukuza kwezi ziphumo, ezipapashwe kutshanje kwi Ijenali yoPhando lwezesondo UGqr.UAmanda Gesselman, Ph.D., kunye nababhali asebenzisana nabo basebenzise amaphepha emibuzo abazichazayo ukugqibezela izifundo ezithathu ezincinci-enye ukuvavanya iminyaka elindelekileyo yesini sokuqala kunye nemibono yokujongwa, omnye ukuphonononga ukuba ukungabinamava ngokwesini kuthintela amathuba okuthandana kunye nesithathu ukuvavanya ngakumbi ukuba amava ngesondo achaphazela umtsalane womntu njengeqabane elinokubakho.

Iziphumo zabo zibonise ukuba i-avareji yobudala apho abantu abadala eMelika baphulukana nobunyulu babo li-17; Ama-90 ekhulwini abantu abaneminyaka engama-22 ukuya kwangama-24 baye baba neentlobano zesini. Kwaye yonke into yangaphambi komtshato? Amashumi asixhenxe anesihlanu eepesenti abaneminyaka engama-20 ubudala ukuba babelane ngesondo ngaphambi kokubopha iqhina. (Athelekiswa njani amanani akho ezesondo?) Ingxelo yaqhubeka ukubonisa ukuba ukuba yinyulu, ngakumbi kamva ebomini, kunokubathoba amathuba okuba babandakanyeke kubudlelwane bezothando. Ngokucacileyo, abantu abangenamava ngesondo babenganqweneleki kakhulu njengamaqabane obudlelwane. Ngaphezu koko, uphando lufumene, abantu abadala abangenamava ngesondo ngokwabo akazange afumane abanye abantu abadala abanamava ukuba babe nomtsalane ubudlelwane amaqabane. Ezi ziphumo zingalunganga zokunxibelelana zahluke mpela kwizibonelelo zomzimba zokuba uyintombi engazani nandoda, njengokukhuselwa kuzo zonke ii-STI kunye nokukhulelwa okungafunekiyo.

Mhlawumbi esona sigqibo silungileyo sokususa kuyo yonke le nto? Yeka ukugweba-kukho ngaphezulu kumntu kune-v-card yabo. (Kwaye qiniseka ukuba ufunda eli bhinqa lithatha "Ingcebiso ngezocansi Ndinqwenela ukuba Ndiyazi kwiminyaka yam yama-20.")

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