Olu sapho lubhiyozele iXesha lokuQala lentombi yalo ngetheko elothusayo

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Ngu-2017, kodwa uninzi lwabasetyhini abancinci (kwaye nabantu abadala) basaziva beneentloni zokuthetha ngexesha labo. Ubume be-hush-hush yeencoko malunga nale nxalenye yendalo kunye neyesiqhelo yokuba ngumntu obhinqileyo yenze ukuba sikholelwe ukuba kufuneka sifihle yiyo loo nto singenako ukunceda kodwa simoyike lo mama owamphosa iminyaka eli-12. -bakho itheko elothusayo ngokuqala kwakhe ukuba sexesheni. (Funda: Izinto ezili-14 onqwenela ukuzithetha kwixesha lakho)

Ngokutsho kweBuzzfeed, uShelly wayengafuni ukuba intombi yakhe uBrooke Lee ive ukuba ukuya exesheni yinto emele yoyike. Xa ixesha lakhe lokuqala lafika, waphosa intombi yakhe umbhiyozo ogcwele ikeyiki ebomvu namhlophe, iitampon kunye neepads. Wayenethemba lokuba intshukumo iya kunceda ukuguqula amava anokuthi oyike abe yinto exhobisayo-kwaye ukusuka kwinkangeleko yayo, yiloo nto kanye eyenzekayo. (Funda: Ekugqibeleni kukho ixesha lentengiso elibonisa igazi)

Umzala ka-Brooke Autumn uthathe isigqibo sokwabelana ngeefoto ezivela kwiqela ukuya kwi-Twitter, kwaye akumangalisi ukuba bakhawuleze baba nentsholongwane.

"Ipati yayihlekisa kakhulu kodwa yayiqhelekile kum ngoba ndiyayiqhela kusapho lwam," u-Autumn uxelele i-Teen Vogue "Ndicinga ukuba eli theko lincedile abantu abaninzi babone indlela echanekileyo yezinto ezinje kufuneka ziphathwe endaweni yokuba neentloni umzimba wakho.

Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, bangaphezulu kwe-15,000 abantu abaye baphinda babhala iposi kwaye abanye babelane ngokuba kutheni becinga ukuba itheko lexesha linokuba lolona luvo lubalaseleyo. "Usapho lwakho lukhulu. Olu hlobo lwenkxaso lubaluleke kakhulu," wabhala omnye umsebenzisi we-Twitter. Abanye abazali kufuneka bavuleleke kwaye baxhase ngezinto ezinje, ubhale omnye.

Sivuyisana nawe ngexesha lakho lokuqala, Brooke! Zama ukugcina ukubhiyozela engqondweni xa ikram ingena.

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