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Umxholo

• Indlela entsha yokubona izinto
• Uhlaziyo lwengqondo yesiqu sakho
• Yise kude

Ukuziva unomtsalane xa unesiphene kunokuba ngumceli mngeni, ucacisa uAnnie Elainey, ngakumbi xa usebenzisa izixhobo zokuhamba.

Eyokuqala yayingumsimelelo. Ngelixa yayiluluhlengahlengiso, waziva ukuba unezinto ezintle anokujonga kuzo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, baninzi abalinganiswa abanezinti kwimithombo yeendaba ezibonwa zinomtsalane, njengoGqr. House ovela "kwiNdlu" - kwaye imisimelelo idla ngokuboniswa ngendlela esefesitileni.

“Ndizive ndilungile. Ndaziva, ngokunyanisekileyo, ngokungathi indinike 'i-oomph' encinci, "ukhumbula ehleka.

Kodwa xa u-Annie eqala ukusebenzisa isitulo esinamavili, kwakunzima nangakumbi ukuba azive esefashonini okanye enomtsalane.

Kwinqanaba leemvakalelo, kubantu abaneemeko eziqhubela phambili, ukuphulukana nobuchule obuthile kunokukhokelela kwixesha lokulila. UAnnie uthi malunga nokuzila into ebixabiseke kakhulu kuwe. Uthi: "Ubuchule bethu buye buxabiseke kakhulu kuthi - nokuba sibuthatha kancinci," utshilo.

Indlela entsha yokubona izinto

Ekuqaleni, u-Annie waye nexhala lokuba ujonge njani kwisihlalo sakhe esinamavili esitsha. Kwaye wayengakulungelanga ukutshintshwa kobude, okwabothusa. Ukuma, walinganisa i-5 yeenyawo i-intshi ye-8-kodwa ehleli, wayenenyawo emfutshane yonke.

Njengomntu owayeqhele ukuba mde, kwavakala kungaqhelekanga ukuhlala ujonga abanye phezulu. Kwaye rhoqo kwiindawo zikawonkewonke, abantu bajonge ngapha nangapha kuye, kunokuba bajonge kuye.

Kwakucacile ku-Annie ukuba indlela awayezijonga ngayo yahluke kakhulu kwindlela abanye abambona ngayo. Ngelixa wayezibona njengomntu owomeleleyo oza kuphuma aye kwilizwe, uninzi lwabona nje isitulo sakhe esinamavili.

“Kwakukho abantu abangazange jonga kum. Baza kujonga umntu ondityhalayo, kodwa abayi kujonga mna. Kwaye ukuzithemba kwam kuye kwanzima kakhulu. ”

U-Annie wehlelwa sisifo somzimba kwaye waqala ukuba neengcinga ezimbi: “Wowu, bendicinga ukuba ndimbi ngaphambili. Ngumdlalo ongaphezulu ngoku. Akukho mntu uza kundithanda ngoku. "

Wayengaziva "emhle" okanye enqwenelekayo, kodwa wayezimisele ukungayivumeli ithathe ubomi bakhe.

Uhlaziyo lwengqondo yesiqu sakho

U-Annie waqala ukukhangela kwi-Intanethi kwaye wafumanisa uluntu lwabanye abantu abakhubazekileyo ekwabelwana ngalo ngee hashtag ezinje nge #spoonies, #hospitalglam, #cripplepunk, okanye #cpunk (yabantu abangafuni ukusebenzisa islur).

Iifoto, utshilo, bezimalunga nokubuyisa igama elithi "khubazekile," ngabantu abakhubazekileyo abazingcayo ngokukhubazeka kwaye bezibonakalisa ngesidima. Yayinika amandla kwaye inceda u-Annie ukuba afumane ilizwi lakhe kunye nesazisi sakhe kwakhona, ukuze azibone ngaphaya kwendlela abanye abasibona ngayo isitulo sakhe.

"Ndandi ngathi: Wow, ndoda, abantu abakhubazekileyo mahle njenge Heck. Kwaye ukuba bayakwazi ukuyenza, ndingayenza. Hamba ntombazana, hamba! Beka ezinye zezo mpahla ubukade uzinxiba ngaphambi kokukhubazeka! ”

UAnnie uthi ngandlela thile, ukukhubazeka kunye nokugula okungapheliyo kunokuba yinto elungileyo. Ukuba umntu ukubona kuphela ngokukhubazeka kwakho kwaye akakwazi ukukubona ukuba ungubani - ukuba akakuboni ubuntu bakho - mhlawumbi awufuni nantoni na enokuyenza nabo ukuqala.

Yise kude

U-Annie uqalile ukujonga izixhobo zakhe zokuhamba "njengezincedisi" -njengesipaji okanye ibhatyi okanye isikhafu - ezenzekayo ukuphucula umgangatho wobomi.

Xa u-Annie ejonga esipilini ngoku, uyazithanda njengoko enjalo. Unethemba lokuba ngokubonakala okwandayo, abanye banokuqala ukuzibona ngokukhanya okufanayo.

“Andiziva ndinomtsalane kuba abantu bayatsala kum. Ndiqinisekile ukuba kukho abantu abatsalayo kum. Ngapha koko, ndiqinisekile nge-100 leepesenti ukuba kukho abantu abatsala umdla kum ngenxa yokuba ndingakhange ndihambe ngaphandle kwezindululo kunye nabasukelayo… Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ndaphinda ndafumana isazisi sam. Oko xa ndijonga esipilini, ndiyabona ngokwam. Kwaye ndiyathanda ngokwam.”

UAlaina Leary ungumhleli, umphathi weendaba zosasazo kunye nombhali waseBoston, eMassachusetts. Okwangoku ungumhleli oncedisayo we-Equally Wed Magazine kunye nomhleli weendaba zosasazo ezingenzi-nzuzo Sifuna Iincwadi Ezahlukeneyo.