Umtya-wesini ngesini 101: Uyikhetha njani iHarness eyiyo kunye neDildo

Umxholo

• Umtya wesini kubo bonke
• Ukudlala ngentambo kungonwabisa wonke umntu
• Ukukhetha ihashe
• Imibuzo yokubuza xa uthenga iharness
• Ukukhetha isitayile esifanelekileyo
• Iingcebiso zokubopha umtya
• Iingcebiso zokubopha iimpahla zangaphantsi
• Cinga ngezinto zokubopha
• Ezinye izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka uzigcine engqondweni xa uthenga ihashe
• Ngoku, kuya kufuneka ukhethe i-dildo
• Ukuchola ubume be-dildo elungileyo kunye nobukhulu
• Imibuzo yokubuza ngaphambi kokuthenga i-dildo
• Ezinye iingcebiso zedildo
• Qinisekisa ukuba i-dildo yakho kunye ne-strap-on iyahambelana
• Thenga (kwaye usebenzise!)
• Ukuziqhelanisa neharness yakho
• Yiba nomonde-kwaye wonwabe

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Umtya wesini kubo bonke

I-strap-on ifana ne-lube ngengqondo yokuba inokwenza nabani na ukuba nobomi besini obungcono, nokuba ungubani na okanye isini.

Ifanelekile ukuba ubelana ngesondo kwilungu lobufazi, ukwabelana ngesondo ezimpundwini, imisebenzi yokuvuthuluka, isondo lesandla, kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini, ii-strap-ons zinokunxitywa okanye zifunyanwe ngabo bobabini abantu abanesondo kunye nabantu abanelungu lobufazi, kunye nawo wonke umntu ophakathi.

Nokuba ii-strap-ons zivakala ngokupheleleyo ngaphandle kwe-domain yakho, kusafanelekile ukuba zifunde ngakumbi malunga-zinokongeza ulonwabo kunye nokuguquguquka kubomi bakho bobulili.

“Abantu bahlala bedibanisa umdlalo wokubopha kunye neendima ezithile zesini, ezesini kunye nokuzazisa, kodwa le mibutho iphela iba yingozi kunokuba ibe luncedo. Izenzo zesondo ezikhethekileyo azichazi ukuba ungubani ukuba awufuni, utshilo u-Amy Boyajian, umseki kunye ne-CEO yeWild Flower, ivenkile yokuthengisa ngesondo ekwi-intanethi esandula ukukhupha isidlidliza sokuqala esingahambisani nesini, u-Enby.

Ngaba ukulungele ukufunda ngakumbi malunga ne-strap-ons kunye nendlela yonke imizimba enokuyonwabela ngayo imidlalo yokubopha? Qhubeka ufunda.

Ukudlala ngentambo kungonwabisa wonke umntu

Ngaba ngoku uqinisekile ukuba umntu onepeni angakonwabela ukudlala ukubopha? Nantsi inkcukacha ethe kratya malunga nendlela ukunxiba okanye ukusebenzisa umtya xa usabelana ngesondo kunokuba mnandi nakubantu abasele benayo eyabo i-phallus.

"Ukunxiba imitya yokubopha kungavumela abantu abaneepenise abane-erectile dysfunction okanye abasuswe amalungu abo endlala ukuba babelane ngesondo kunye nabo kwaye bakholise amaqabane abo ngendlela abaqhele ngayo," ucacisa watsho uSara Sloane, utitshala wezesondo kunye nobudlelwane ukufundisa ii-strap-on classes kwi-Good Vibrations kunye ne-Pleasure Chest ukusukela ngo-2001.

Ikwayindlela yabantu yokuzama ukungena kabini, utshilo. Amathuba-kunye nolonwabo-azipheli!

Ukuba umntu onepeni uneqabane lakhe elinobufazi, iihashe zinganxitywa liqabane lakhe ukufezekisa ukungena ngaphakathi.

Ngamanye amaxesha ibizwa ngokuba kukukhonkotha, le ndlela yokungena ezimpundu inokuba yinto emnandi ngokwasemzimbeni kubantu abaneepenise, utshilo uBoyajian. “Idlala lobudoda limi nje kwii-intshi ezimbalwa ngaphakathi kwe-anus, ngasesiswini. Kwabanye, ukuvuselela indlala yesibeleko kunokubangela ukuba bonwabe kwaye baphile ngcono. ”

Ngapha koko, ukukhonkotha kunokubonelela ngethuba lokuphonononga amandla kunye namandla okuzonwabisa anokungabi yinxalenye yokudlala kwakho.

Inqaku elibalulekileyo lokukhonkotha Ukuba ukudlala ezimpundu intsha kwigumbi lakho lamavili ngokwesondo, sukuqala ngokukhonkotha. "Ufuna ukuphonononga ukudlala ezimpundu ngeelwimi, ngeminwe, iithoyi ezincinci ezinje ngeeplagi zempundu, naxa uphulula amaphambili ngaphambi kokuba ubethe," utshilo ugqirha wezesondo ekliniki uMegan Stubbs, Ed.D. Oku kunceda ukulungiselela i-sphincter, okanye iringi yemisipha ekupheleni kwethanga eligcina i-anus inyanzelekile- ngaphandle kokuba izinto zifuna ukudlula kuyo.

Ukudlala ngokukhonkotha kuhlala kubandakanya into yokudlala enkulu kunomnwe okanye iplagi yempundu, ke uya kufuna ukusebenza ngobukhulu kwaye uhlengahlengise uvakalelo lokungena kwaye uphephe iintlungu okanye ukungonwabi.

Ukudlala ngeHarness kunokuba yinto eyonwabisayo kubanini be-vulva ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Kuxhomekeke kubume bomzimba wakho kwaye apho ubeka khona iharness yeyona nto intle, ukunxiba ihashe kungakhokelela kwiklitoral okanye kwilungu lobufazi - okanye nakwinto edibeneyo.

Kubantu abaninzi, icandelo elikhulu lokonwaba ngokunxiba ihashe kukubukela iqabane lakho linandipha uvakalelo lokungena, utshilo uStubbs. “Kuninzi kakhulu ukusondelelana ekubeni nako ukungena kwiqabane kwaye usondele kubo. Unakho ukujongana nomzimba wakho ngokuchasene nabo kwaye usebenzise izandla nomlomo wakho ukuphuza nokubetha. ”

Kukho into yokudlala ngokwesini enokubangela umdla kwabanye. "Ukuba ungoyiki, ukulala ngesondo kukuvumela ukuba utshintshe isini esahlukileyo. Uthatha into ekucingelwa ukuba ithe tye, kwaye ubambe umgca kuyo, utshilo uSloane.

Ngapha koko, "abanye abantu abangamadoda abeziko lobudoda, abasebenza ngokwesini, okanye abachaza ukuba banomqhagi, banokufumanisa ukuba ukunxiba okanye ukunxiba [umtya] uziva ulungile ukuba ungubani ngokwesini kwaye uqinisekisa ngokumangalisayo." Ukudlala ngokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo ngeqhina-kunokubashushu ngenxa yesi sizathu.

Ekupheleni kokufumana, abantu abane-vulvas banokonwabela ukungena kwilungu lobufazi okanye ezimpundu nge-strap-on.

Ukungena ngaphakathi kwilungu lobufazi kunokuba yinto emnandi kwabanye, ngenxa ye-G-spot, i-A-spot, imvakalelo yokugcwala, kunye namandla ombane anokuvela, utshilo uSloane.

Indawo eyi-A, okanye indawo yangaphakathi ye-fornix erogenous, yindawo ebuthathaka kumathambo ekupheleni komjelo wesini. "Xa ivuselelwe, oku kungonyusa ukuvusa inkanuko, kusebenze ukuthanjiswa kwelungu lobufazi, kwaye kuvuse i-orgasm," ucacisa uBoyajian.

Umdlalo we-anal ungonwabela nabantu abane-vaginas. "I-anus ineziphelo zemithambo-luvo ethe-ethe egxile ekuvulekeni nakwinxalenye engaphandle ye-rectum," utshilo uBoyajian. "Ukukhuthaza eli lungu lomzimba, libhangqwe yimincili yokwenza into 'ethile' kungavumela abo banamalungu obufazi ukuba bangene kwi-orgasm ngokupheleleyo."

Ngaba ukulungele ukuthenga i-strap-on? Cinga ngezantsi kwesikhokelo sakho sokuthenga esibanzi.

Ukukhetha ihashe

Ngeetoni zokukhetha ukubopha kwimarike, ukuqonda ukuba yeyiphi impahla, isimbo, kunye nenqaku lamaxabiso olifunayo elinokuthatha i-savvy.

Ukuqala, nokuba unayo okanye awunayo iqabane oceba ukusebenzisa i-strap-on nalo kungenza umehluko. “Ukuba uneqabane elisengqondweni, qiniseka ukuba ukuthengwa ngumzamo odibeneyo. Nizokuyisebenzisa nobabini, ke ngoko nobabini nifanele ukuba nibe nezwi kwiinkcukacha, ”yatsho ingcali yezesondo yaseCalifornia uJill McDevitt, ingcali yezesondo yaseCalExotics.

Ukuba uthenga wedwa, cinga ngeemfuno zakho kunye nezicwangciso zokusetyenziswa ngaphambi kokuthenga. Nazi ezinye izinto eziluncedo.

Imibuzo yokubuza xa uthenga iharness

• Iza kusetyenziswa njani le mveliso? Zeziphi izenzo zesondo?
• Ngubani oza kusebenzisa le mveliso kwaye zeziphi iimilo zomzimba zabasebenzisi?
• Ngaba ibalulekile ukuba iyahlanjwa ngomatshini?
• Ndizimisele ukuchitha malini?

Ukukhetha isitayile esifanelekileyo

Xa kufikwa kwisikhonkwane kunye nokungena ngokwesondo, zimbini iindlela eziphambili zokubopha: iimpahla zangaphantsi kunye nokubopha umtya.

• Uhlobo lwangaphantsi Izikrweqe zikhangeleka ngathi zizambatho zangaphantsi - ukusuka kwiimbethi manqindi kunye nemifutshane ukuya kumakhwenkwe amafutshane kunye neentsontelo, kukho iintlobo ngeentlobo.
• Isitayile esenziwe ngesitayile iihashe zibizwa ngokuba ngumbulelo kwimitya yazo ehlengahlengisiweyo.

USloane ucebisa ngezitayile zokubopha umtya, kuba uthi kulula ukuzilungisa emzimbeni kwaye bahlala ubomi obude.

"Ufuna ukuba ihashe yakho ikulingane njengebhulukhwe yejean oya kuyinxiba kwiklabhu xa ufuna umntu ukuba akuhlolisise: Ifuna ukukhuhla" utsho uSloane. "Okukhona iqina lincamathele emzimbeni wakho, kokukhona uya kukwazi ukuhamba nomzimba wakho."

Ukuba ikhululekile kakhulu okanye ayikulungelanga, unokuziva ungadibananga okanye ungavumelaniswanga kwidildo.

Kukho ukuphindwaphindwa okumbalwa kwintambo yokubopha, kodwa isitayile sethong kunye nesitayile sejockstrap zezona zixhaphakileyo.

• Inkqubo ye- Uhlobo lwesimbo ihlala ikhululekile ngakumbi kubantu abane-vulvas ngenxa yomtya we-thong ohamba phakathi kwemilenze.
• Inkqubo ye- isitayile se-jockstrap Iya kujongeka njengejockstrap yeklasikhi enemitya ejikeleze isidlele ngasinye kunye nesinqe.

Ngelixa zombini zisebenza ngokulinganayo, ukuba umntu onepenis uza kuyinxiba, utitshala wesini uMayla Green, umnini weTheAdultToyShop.com ucebisa ngesitayile sejockstrap, esiya kuthi sihlale kamnandi kuba kukho indawo yamasende.

Iingcebiso zokubopha umtya

• Ukuba umtsha kumdlalo wokurhintyela, uStubbs ucebisa nge-Vac-U-Lock - isixhobo esinokuhlanjwa ngomatshini, isixhobo esinee-neoprene ezinokulungiswa eziqulethe ubungakanani bemisesane emibini ekulula ukuyitshintsha.
• Ukuba ukhangele i-unisex harness ene-vibration ekhethekileyo, i-Stubbs ithi i-harry Extension harness yinto ekhethekileyo. "Inemitya ehlengahlengisiweyo kunye neprofayili yeslim slimmer eyenza ukuba kulungele umntu omtsha ukuba adlale ezimpundu."
• Ukuba uneepenisi kwaye ufuna ihashe, uSloane ucebisa iDeuce ngeSpareParts. "Le ntambo yokubopha inamakhonkco amabini, enye ibambe ilungu lobudoda, kwaye enye ibambe isiseko sedildo."
• Ukuba ujonge umtya onokuthi unxitywe ngamaqabane eemilo ezininzi zomzimba, zama iJoque yiSpareParts, ucebisa uSloane. Iyahlengahlengiswa, iyahlanjwa ngoomatshini, kwaye ngenxa yesitayile sayo se-jock, inokunxitywa naliphi na iqabane. "Le yeyona nto ndiyithandayo ukuyicebisa kubantu abadala," utshilo.
• Ukuba ujonga umtya wexabiso eliphantsi kodwa osebenzayo, uSloane ucebisa indlela yejoksi yokuHlaziya iiHarry. "Ku- $ 22 kwaye ngeendlela ezi-4 zokuhlengahlengiswa, sisixhobo esihle sokuqala."
• Ukuba ujonge umtya wendlela eqinileyo, zama i-Cherry Bombin 'Roadster Harness, ucebisa uSloane.

Ukuba ukhetha ukujongwa kwehashe yangaphantsi yempahla yangaphantsi, njengabantu abaninzi abatsha abathandanayo abelana ngesondo, qiniseka ukuthatha imilinganiselo ngononophelo yamathanga akho kunye nesinqe ngaphambi kokuthenga ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ufumana ubungakanani obufanelekileyo.

Iingcebiso zokubopha iimpahla zangaphantsi

• Ukuba umtsha ekubambeni umdlalo kwaye ufuna into ekulula ukuyisebenzisa kwaye izinzile, uSloane ucebisa ukuba iTomboi Harness yiSpareParts, ebiza i- $ 90.
• Ukuba ujonga into evakalelwa ngokungathi unxibe iimpahla zangaphantsi kuphela, uMcDevitt ucebisa ngeCalexotics Scandal Panty Set, ekhangeleka ngathi yipanti ye-sexy kodwa iza ne-dildo.
• Ukuba ukhangele iimpahla zangaphantsi eziza ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo onokuzisebenzisa kunye ne-dildo yakho, zama ezo zisuka eRodeoh. "Uncedo lwezi zinto ungaziphosa ngqo kwindawo yokuhlamba impahla xa ugqibile njengazo naziphi na iimpahla zangaphantsi eziqhelekileyo," utsho uSloane.

Ukuba uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali - iihashe zangaphantsi zinokufumana amaxabiso amancinci- okanye sele unayo i-strap-on harness kwaye awufuni kuthenga enye yesibini, unganxiba imitya yesitayile esibhanti phezu kwembatho yangaphantsi ukwenza iimpahla zangaphantsi zikhangeleke kwaye uzive ngozinzo kwibhanti.

Cinga ngezinto zokubopha

Ngoku ukuba uyazi ukuba yeyiphi indlela oyifunayo, gcina izinto zokubopha engqondweni. Iintambo zokubopha ziza nezinto ezahlukeneyo kubandakanya intambo, isikhumba, i-neoprene, i-nylon, i-spandex, i-polyester, okanye umxube wazo. Kwakhona, i-harness ingaba ne-dildo eyakhelwe ngaphakathi kodwa ihlala iza ngokwahlukeneyo ukuze unamathisele enye.

Ufuna into onokuyicoca ngokulula, ngakumbi ukuba uza kuyisebenzisa namaqabane amaninzi.

"Into enokuhlanjwa ngomatshini kuthetha ukuba ungayihlamba kwaye ungazikhathazi ngeentsholongwane okanye ukuhanjiswa kwebhakteria," utshilo uSloane. Oku kuyakwenza ukuba kube lula ukufumana i-lube.

Ngelixa kufuneka ujonge imiyalelo yemveliso ukuqinisekisa ukuba imveliso inokuhlanjwa ngomatshini, utshilo uSloane, zonke izinto zokubopha ezingesosikhumba okanye irabha kufuneka zibe njalo.

Ezinye izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka uzigcine engqondweni xa uthenga ihashe

Ezinye iintambo zokubopha umtya, njengeVevert Vibrating Harness eyenziwe yiTantus, zinepokotho eyakhelweyo ye-bullet vibrator, ekulungeleyo ukuba ujonge ukuvuseleleka.

Eminye imitya yokubopha ifakwa kwiphakheji enesangqa seqhude eshukumayo. "Ukongeza iringi yeqhude eshukumayo kwi-dildo yindlela elungileyo yokongeza ukungcangcazela ngaphandle kokuzama i-dildo eshukuma," utshilo uSloane. Kodwa uhlala ufumana iringi engcangcazelayo engaphantsi kwe- $ 5, edla ngokuba ngexabiso eliphantsi kunokuthenga ipakethe yokudibanisa.

Okokugqibela, ezinye iintambo zokubopha ziya kuba neeringi ezinokutshintshwa, ngelixa ezinye zinamakhonkco asisigxina. Kwimeko yokugqibela, qiniseka ukuba umsesane uya kulungela i-dildo yakho okanye ucwangcise ukuthenga.

Ngoku, kuya kufuneka ukhethe i-dildo

Njengakwihashe, ubungakanani, isitayile, kunye nezinto zedildo zonke zibalulekile. Masiqale ngezinto eziphathekayo.

Izinto zokudlala zokwabelana ngesondo zithathwa njengezinto ezinqabileyo, oko kuthetha ukuba azilawulwa kuLawulo lokutya kunye neDrug (FDA). Oko kuthetha ukuba kuya kufuneka ufumanise ukuba izinto zento yokudlala zikhuselekile emzimbeni okanye zingena emzimbeni.

UStubbs uthi: "Uya kufuna into engeyiyo eyomhlaba, ngakumbi ukuba into yokudlala izakufakwa kwi-anus apho kukho intsholongwane eninzi."

Izinto ezixhwithekileyo zinokubambisa iintsholongwane ngaphakathi kwinto yokudlala, zenze kube nzima ukuyicoca kwaye ingakulungeli ukusetyenziswa ngaphakathi nangaphakathi kwilungu lakho langasese.

Izinto ezingafunekiyo zedildo zibandakanya:

• abicah
• yenziwe ngentsimbi eshayinayo
• iglasi
• IPyrex
• Iiplastiki ze-ABS

Ngexesha lokuqala lokulala ngesondo, uStubbs ucebisa ngento yokudlala yesilicone. Oku kunzima kakhulu kwaye kulula ukulawula kuneglasi engenasici. Ngapha koko, inokunikwa ngakumbi ngenxa yoko iya kuba lula ngakumbi kwiqabane elamkelayo.

Gcina ukhumbula: Ukuba uza kusebenzisa i-strap-on ukungena ngaphakathi ngokuchasene nokuphulula amalungu esini okanye ukudlala ngomlomo, awufuni into yokudlala ye-silicone ethambe kakhulu, njenge-Cyberskin okanye i-Ultra Skin.

"Kuya kuba ngumngeni ukuwafaka ngaphandle kokufuna ukuphatha ishafti ngesandla sakho lonke ixesha," utshilo uStubbs. Okona kubheja kwakho kukugcina into yokudlala esandleni sakho kwaye uvavanye ukuba ingangqinelani. Cinga ngento enokuziva ngathi ngaphakathi emzimbeni wakho, okanye komnye umntu.

Izixhobo zokuphepha zibandakanya:

• irabha ye-thermoplastic (TPR)
• Elastomer ye-thermoplastic (TPE)
• Polyvinyl chloride (PVC)

"Ukuba uthenga i-porous dildo, kuya kufuneka usebenzise ikhondom nayo ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye uyicoca ngononophelo," utshilo uSloane.

Ukuba awuqinisekanga ngento eyenziwe yidildo, zama ukufunda ulwazi ngemveliso okanye ucele uncedo kumthengisi ukuba uthenga kwivenkile yokudlala yabantu abadala.

Ukuchola ubume be-dildo elungileyo kunye nobukhulu

I-dildo yakho kufuneka ihambelane neemfuno zakho kunye neminqweno yokudlala. Ukuphinda, ukuba uneqabane oliceba ukusebenzisa i-dildo kuyo okanye, yise evenkileni ukuba uya.

"Wonke umntu uneminqweno eyahlukileyo, ke thetha ngokucacileyo neqabane lakho malunga nobungakanani kunye nokukhetha kwabo," utsho uSloane. Ukuba baya kungena ngaphakathi, unokuba nabo bakhethe i-dildo.

Imibuzo yokubuza ngaphambi kokuthenga i-dildo

• Ndiza kuyisebenzisa njani le dildo?
• Ndifuna i-dildo ekhangeleka ngathi lilungu lobudoda okanye ineebhola?
• Ngaba ndifuna ukuba ngumbala wesikhumba sam okanye iqabane lam okanye ngaba ndikhetha omnye umbala?
• Bobuphi ubude kunye nobukhulu obulungileyo ngendlela endiza kuyisebenzisa ngayo i-dildo?
• Ngaba ndifuna i-dildo egudileyo okanye ebhaliweyo?
• Ngaba ndifuna ukuba i-dildo iphindwe kabini njengepakethi (enxitywe phantsi kweempahla ukwenza ukukhohlisa kwepenisi)?

USloane uthi: "Mhlawumbi uzakusebenzisa elona dildo lingama-intshi ama-5 ukuya kuma-6 ubude kunye ne-1.5 ukuya kwi-intshi eyi-1.75 intshi." Oko kunokuba kukhulu kakhulu kwiqabane lakho, ngakumbi ukuba batsha ekukhonkxeni okanye ekungeneni.

Ingcebiso elungileyo kukuba ubungakanani phantsi, ngakumbi ukuba usaqala. Usenokuba ujonge kuyo kwaye ucinge, Incinci kakhulu! Kodwa ukuba awuzange uzame i-anal okanye ukungena ngaphambili, ngokuqinisekileyo qalisa ube mncinci kunokuba ucinga, utshilo. Ngokusisiseko, ungahambi mkhulu, uye ekhaya, emva koko uqaphele ukuba kukhulu kakhulu.

Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba uqwalasele ubunjani be-dildo. "Kwamanye amaqabane, ukuthungwa kunokucaphukisa," utshilo uSloane. Oko kwathethi, ukuba iqabane lingene ngaphakathi lisetyenzisile kwaye lonwabele iiplagi zempahla ebunjiweyo, i-dildos (engaqhotyoshelwanga iharness), okanye iithoyi ze-G-spot, kukho isizathu sokukholelwa ukuba bayokonwabela amava omtya obotshiweyo.

Cinga malunga nokuba ufuna ukukwazi ukunxiba i-dildo ngaphandle kwaye malunga nayo-ekwabizwa ngokuba kukupakisha. Ukusuka kumandla okusebenza ukuya ekudlaleni ngokwesini kunye nokuvuma, oku kunokuba nomtsalane kwabanye abantu. Ukuba i-dildo inokugoba okanye ifakwe phantsi, okanye iphindwe kabini njengepakethi, iya kuthi ichaze njalo kwinkcazo yemveliso.

Ezinye iingcebiso zedildo

• Ukuba wena neqabane lakho nintsha ukuba nibe neentlobano zesini, zama iTantus Silk encinci, eza inkulu okanye iphakathi. “Ukuba iqabane lakho lixhalabile kukungena, kulula ukuba ngcono. Oku kugudile kwaye kukhangeleka ngathi ngumnwe, ”utshilo uSloane.
• Ukuba umtsha kwaye ujonge into yokudlala enesiqingatha, uSloane ucebisa iSpur VixSkin nguVixen. Ngama-intshi angama-5.75 ubude obunokufakwa kunye nee-intshi eziyi-1.12 ububanzi, bubungakanani obukhulu bee-strap-on novices.
• Ukuba ujonga i-dildo yokwenyani, zama iNew York Toy Collective. "Banemilo yokwenene ngemibala eyiyo- kunye nemibala engeyiyo eyokwenyani ukuba ukhetha njalo," utsho uSloane. I-Shilo ithandwa kakhulu kwintloko ebalaseleyo eyenza ukuba ibe yindawo yokukhuthaza indawo ye-G. Kwaye, iyabhetyebhetye ngokwaneleyo ukuba ifakwe.
• Ukuba ujonga i-dildo eyilelwe ngokukodwa imizimba emikhulu, zama iMason ye-NYTC. Kude, kusenza kube lula ukuyisebenzisa, ngaphandle kwesongezo.

Qinisekisa ukuba i-dildo yakho kunye ne-strap-on iyahambelana

Ezinye iihashe zingasetyenziselwa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobukhulu be-dildo, ngelixa ezinye zinokusetyenziswa kuphela ngobukhulu obuthile. “Ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba isiseko okanye iringi yokubopha ubukhulu obuza kubamba i-dildo,” utshilo uSloane.

Kwakhona, uzinzo ngundoqo kulawulo. Ukuba ukwivenkile yesini kwaye unako, zama ezi zinto zimbini kunye. Ukuba oko akunakwenzeka, yenza iluphu ngeminwe yakho ngobungakanani bendandatho. Emva koko, zama ukutsala i-dildo. "Ukuba isiseko sedildo sincinci kangangokuba siyatsala, ungadinga iringi encinci," utshilo uSloane.

Thenga (kwaye usebenzise!)

Nokuba ungacwangcisa njani ukusebenzisa i-strap-on yakho, uya kufuna i-lube.

"I-anus ayizithambisi ngokwakho, ke i-lube yeyona nto ifunekayo ekudlaleni ezimpundwini," utshilo uBoyajian. Nokuba ungaguquka kangakanani, akukho nto inokuthintela ukungqubana okungafunekiyo ngaphandle kokuba ufaka i-lube. Ayisi kunceda nje ekuthinteleni ii-microtear ezibuhlungu, kodwa iya kwenza ukuba isini ezimpundu zisonwabise, ”batsho.

Ngelixa ilungu lobufazi lizithambisa ngokwalo, lihlala lithambisa kuphela ubuninzi bemizuzu engama-30 yokungena, utshilo uSloane. Ngumahluko phakathi kwento uziva ulungile kwaye ungaziva mnandi, ke qiniseka ukuba uyayisebenzisa kwaye uqhubeke uphinde ufake isicelo se-lube ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo.

Ngelixa kukho iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo ze-lube kwimarike, gcinani engqondweni: iithambiso ezisekwe kwisilicone azinakusetyenziswa nge-dildo esekwe kwisilicone kuba into yokudlala iya kuthoba umgangatho. Njengokuba uSloane esitsho, "Akukho nto ibuhlungu njengokubeka i-lube esekwe kwisilicone kwidildo yakho entsha kwaye emva koko uyibone iqala ukubonakala." Inqaku elifanelekileyo.

Xa usebenzisa into yokudlala, faka i-lube zombini kwincam yedilo kunye nomngxunya oza kungena. Oku kuya kunceda isilayidi sedildo ngokulula.

Ukuziqhelanisa neharness yakho

Ngoku ekubeni unezinto zakho zokudlala, inyathelo elilandelayo kukuqhela ukuzisebenzisa!

“Ndicebisa abantu ukuba bathathe ixesha lokudlala ngayo,” utshilo uSloane. Yibeke, wazi apho ufuna khona i-dildo yokuhlala ukuze uzive ulawulwa, uphulula amalungu esini ngayo, wakhe ukuzithemba ngendlela ohamba ngayo umzimba wakho kunye nokusebenza kwinto yokudlala.

"Ngaphezu kwesiqingatha sokonwabela umtya ngesondo kukuziva unentembelo kwibhanti, ke ndicebisa ukuba abantu bafikelele kwinqanaba lokuzithemba ngaphambi kokuyisebenzisa neqabane," utshilo.

Ukuba unomzimba omkhulu, uSloane unikeza le ngcebiso ilandelayo: “Ukuba uceba ukwenza isondo lokungena kunye neqabane lakho, zama ukubeka ihashe kweyona ndawo iphambili esiswini sakho, malunga nesiqingatha somgama phakathi kwendunduma kunye neqhosha lesisu. kwaye ujonge ukuba uziva njani ”Uqhubeka esithi:" Oku kuyakukunika ulawulo oluninzi ngaphandle kokuphulukana nee-intshi zedildo kulusu nasemzimbeni. "

Yiba nomonde-kwaye wonwabe

"Ukuphonononga kwakho ngokudlala ngentambo kusenokungabi ngumgama okanye ngokuthe ngqo njengezinye iintlobo zokudlala ngesondo," utshilo uBoyajian. "Kungathatha ixesha ukufumana ukuba zeziphi izinto zokudlala eziziva zilungile kuwe, zeziphi ezona ndawo zikulungeleyo, nendlela othanda ukungena ngayo."

Ke, yiba nomonde ngenkqubo, umamele umzimba wakho, kwaye uyonwabele le nto yokongeza.

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