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USia Cooper, umama ofanelekileyo kunye nomyili weSikhokelo esiQinisekileyo soMzimba, uqokelele ngaphezulu kwesiqingatha sesigidi sabalandeli baka-Instagram ngenxa yengcebiso zakhe zokukhahlela iesile kunye nesimo sengqondo sokunganikezeli. Uyaziwa ngebhlog yakhe, iDiary kaMama oLungeleleneyo, apho anceda oomama abatsha babuyele kwimilo yabo ngelixa bonwabela umzuzu ngamnye wokuba ngumama kwangoko. Omnye ujonge ubomi bakhe kwaye kulula ukucinga ukuba lo mfazi akanasiphako, kodwa ufuna ukuba wazi ukuba kukude nenyaniso.

Kwiposti yamva nje ye-Instagram, umntu oneminyaka engama-27 ubudala wabelane ngevidiyo yakhe ethetha ngokugqibeleleyo malunga neefoto ezifakwe ngokugqibeleleyo esizibona rhoqo kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo-kubandakanywa nezo zikwiakhawunti yakhe. Efake i-bikini, u-Cooper udibanisa amanqatha akhe aze ashukumise ukuphanga kwakhe kwividiyo ukubonisa ukuba nomntu ofanelekileyo njengaye "une-jiggle" eninzi. Kwaye kunjalo kulungile ngokupheleleyo. (Idibeneyo: Kutheni lo Mfazi "Ulibale i-Bikini yakhe" Ngomhla oya elunxwemeni)

"Kubonakala ngathi ndihlala ndibethelwa ngeimeyile kunye nemiyalezo indixelela indlela endijongeka ngayo kunye nendlela aba bafazi banqwenela ukuba babonakale njengam," utshilo uCooper Ubume ngokukodwa malunga nentshukumisa yakhe emva kokuthumela le vidiyo. "Ndihlunguzela intloko ndingakholelwa kuba ndingu ke ayifezekanga-ukuba bebazi nje! "

“Kuninzi onokuthi ukuphose kumfanekiso olula ongathelekisekiyo nobomi benene,” uqhubeke watsho. "Ndifuna ukwaphula imigangatho yemfezeko ebekwe kwabasetyhini ngamajelo eendaba ezentlalo ayithethi ukuba ilungile." (Idibeneyo: URonda Rousey wenza iNkcazo enamandla malunga nokuFezekiswa)

U-Cooper, owayekhe wahlupheka ngenxa ye-bulimia, ekwabelwana ukuba ukubona iifoto ezingenasiphako kwi-Instagram kunokuchaphazela abo basokolayo ngokuzithemba. "Akufuneki sijonge ukubonakala njengentombazana kwi-Instagram kuba, kunokwenzeka ukuba, le ntombazana ayibonakali ngolo hlobo ngokwayo." (Idibeneyo: Eli Bhinqa le-30-Second Second Secret liyakwenza ulahlekelwe yiyo yonke inkolo kwi-Instagram)

Oko akutsho ukuba u-Cooper uyazikhwebula ngokupheleleyo iifoto ezinomtsalane okanye ezibekiweyo. Uthi: “Kumele kubekho ulungelelwano. "Kungenxa yoko le nto ndikuthanda ukuthumela 'i-Instagram vs.

UCooper unethemba lokuba ngokuthumela iifoto kunye neevidiyo ezicacileyo uya kukhuthaza amanye amabhinqa ukuba ayithande imizimba yawo njengoko injalo kwaye ayeke ukuziva efuna ukuzithelekisa nabanye. "Awukwazi ukujongeka ngokwasemzimbeni njengomnye umntu, kutheni ungaziphuculi ukuze ube lolona guqulelo lubalaseleyo wenaUtshilo suku jonga ngathi 24/7. Baneziva, i-stretch marks, i-cellulite, i-acne-uyibiza ngegama. Kodwa bakhetha ukungayibonakalisi. "(Ehambelana: AbaBhlogi beFit batyhila iimfihlo zabo ngasemva kwezo" Zifezekileyo "Iifoto)

Ukuba uzifumana ucinga ngomntu okwi-Instagram owenza uzive ngathi ukhohlakele, uCooper unengcebiso enye elula: Bayeke ukubalandela. "Nditsho nokuziva kwam kwaye ndixhomile emzimbeni ngoko ke kuye kwafuneka ndenze kwa loo nto," utshilo. "Landela abo bakwenza uzive mnandi ngomzimba wakho."

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