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U-Alexa Jean Brown (aka @Alexajeanfitness) uqokelele izigidi zabalandeli ngenxa yobomi bakhe obubonakala ngathi bugqibeleleyo. Kodwa emva kokubeleka umntwana wakhe wesibini mva nje, inkwenkwezi yokuqina yagqiba ekubeni ingadlali kwi-facade yemidiya yoluntu kwaye yabelana ngeposi ethembekileyo malunga nokwamkela umzimba wakhe wasemva komntwana. Kwii-selfies ezimbini ezisecaleni, umama wabantwana ababini ubonisa isisu sakhe kwiiveki ezine emva kokubeleka. Thatha ujongo.

"Njengokuba kungumsebenzi wam ukukukhuthaza, ndiyakholelwa ukuba ngumsebenzi wam ukuba ndihlale ndithembekile kwaye ndinyanisekile," ubhale watsho kwinqaku lakhe. "Uluntu lwethu lubeke le ngcamango kwiintloko zethu ukuba abafazi kufuneka babuyele emva kokuba benomntwana, kodwa oko ngokuqhelekileyo akukho ngqiqweni ... Ndineempawu ezingaphezulu kunye ne-belly rolls kwaye oko KUQHELEKILEYO kwaye KULUNGILE." (Funda: I-Peta Murgatroyd ityhila indlela amaPost-Baby Baby angavele 'anciphise ngasekunene)

Uqhubeka ngokwabelana ngebali lomntu malunga nendlela abone ngayo isithuba somfazi obonakala ngathi ubuyele kumzimba wakhe wangaphambi komntwana emva nje kokuzalwa. "Ngephanyazo ndeva uxinzelelo lokulinganisa," utshilo u-Alexa, ebonisa iimvakalelo zabanye abantu basetyhini abathelekisa imizimba yabo kwabanye kumajelo onxibelelwano.

Kwiintsuku emva kokubeleka, umzimba ka-Alexa awuzange ubuye ngomlingo kubuhle bawo bangaphambi kokukhulelwa, kwaye uyavuma ukuba waziva edanile. Oko kwathiwa, wakhawuleza waqonda indlela awayegxeka ngayo."Nangona ndikhathazekile kukuba andizange ndibuyele kumzimba wam wangaphambi komntwana, andikwazi ukuzibamba kodwa ndimangalisiwe ukuba lo mzimba udale iintsana ezimbini ezintle," wabhala.

Ke abafazi abaninzi babanjwa bekhuphisana nabanye abafazi ababonayo kwi-Instagram. Endaweni yokuhlala unzima kuwe ngenxa yokusilela, u-Alexa ucebisa ukuba ubuye umva kwaye ujonge kuyo yonke into oyenzileyo. (Funda: I-10 Fit Blogger ityhila iimfihlo zabo ngasemva kwaleyo 'Mifanekiso mihle')

Njengoko u-Alexa watshoyo kwiposti yakhe: "Ukuba ufumanisa kakhulu, uziva uneentloni okanye uxolisa ngokubonakala komzimba wakho, nokuba awunamntwana nje, YEKA. Imizimba yethu iyamangalisa kwaye iyamangalisa kwaye thina kufuneka uthande yonke intshi yayo. "

Khange sivumelane ngakumbi.

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