Ngaba ukomisa ukugoba (Frottage) kungakhokelela kwi-HIV okanye ezinye ii-STIs?

Umxholo

• Ithini impendulo emfutshane?
• Uthetha ukuthini kanye xa usithi ‘humping owomileyo’?
• Ngaba ayifanelanga ukuba ikhuseleke kunesondo elingena ngaphakathi?
• Ingakanani i-HIV kule meko?
• Uthini ngezinye ii-STIs?
• Kuthekani ngee-STD?
• Ngaba ikhona into onokuyenza ukunciphisa umngcipheko wokuncipha?
• Ngaba ikhona into onokuyenza ukuthintela ukosulela kwiqabane lakho?
• Ungenza ntoni xa ucinga ukuba uveziwe?
• Yintoni eyenzekayo ngokulandelayo?
• Iziphumo ezingalunganga
• Iziphumo ezilungileyo
• Uthini umgca osezantsi?

Ithini impendulo emfutshane?

Ewe unokuyifumana intsholongwane kaGawulayo kunye nezinye izifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo.

Kodwa musa ukufunga le nto ishushu kakhulu kwaye ayisiyiyo nje-ye-horny-ulutsha olwenza ngokwesondo okwangoku.

Kukho okungaphaya kokufumana ukugaya kunye ne-BAM-i-STI.

Uthetha ukuthini kanye xa usithi ‘humping owomileyo’?

Ukuqhaqhaza okomileyo. Isondo elomileyo. Indawo yokuhlala. Ukubetha. Ibhulukwe liyatsha.

Onke la ngamagama okurabha / okusila / okufaka amalungu akho esini kumntu-okanye into-egameni lokoneliseka ngokwesondo.

Ikwaqwalaselwa kwakhona njengefom ye-outercourse.

Nabani na onokuyenza. Kukho lonke uhlobo lokwahluka kokonwaba, ukuqala ngeempahla okanye ukungabikho kwempahla.

Ke kukho iindlela ezingapheliyo zokufumana i-frott yakho, enokuthi ibandakanye ukuhamba okumnandi njengoku:

• Ukwabelana ngesondo, eyintetho emnandi yokufaka isondo lakho phakathi kwamathanga eqabane lakho
• uhlikihla amalungu akho obuni ngokuchasene nawabo, nokuba yipenisi kwilungu lobudoda, kwilungu lobudoda ukuya kwilungu lobudoda, okanye kwilungu lobufazi (ukungcungcuthekisa) kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo, njengobufundisi okanye isisi
• Ukutshisa, apho umntu omnye atyibilikisa intanga yakhe phakathi kweebhanti zeqabane
• ukubhobhoza, okubandakanya ukubeka ipipi ekhwapheni
• tit f * cking, ebandakanya ukutyibilika kwesikhumba phakathi kwamabele amabini agudileyo

Ngaba ayifanelanga ukuba ikhuseleke kunesondo elingena ngaphakathi?

Kufuneka siyifumane ngqo.

Ngelixa i-humping eyomileyo ngokubanzi ingumsebenzi ophantsi wobungozi kunokwabelana ngesondo ngokungena, AKUKHO mngcipheko ngokupheleleyo.

Ukuba ukukhulelwa yinkxalabo yakho kuphela, emva koko wome hump, mhlobo. Ii-STIs lelinye ibali.

Ukungena akunyanzelekanga ukuba kwenzeke ukuhambisa i-STI. Ii-STI zinokusasazwa ngokudibana kolusu nolusu okanye ukutshintshiselana ngolwelo.

Ukomisa okomileyo ngelixa unxibe ngokupheleleyo kukhuselekile, kodwa nayiphi na imeko yokungakhululi impahla inyusa umngcipheko, kuba ulwelo lomzimba lunokuntywila kwilaphu.

Ukuba urhawuzelela ukomisa i-hump kwaye ufuna ukuba ibe li-100 leepesenti elingenamngcipheko, cinga i-solo smash sesh, kwaye uhlikihle kwaye ugaye amasuntsu akho amabi nxamnye nayo nayiphi na into engaphiliyo evakalelwa kulungile.

Cinga ngomqamelo, ingalo yesingqengqelo sakho, loo parrot ingenangqondo uyiphumeleleyo, njl.

Logama nje kungekho zipi, amaqhosha, okanye imiphetho ebukhali, nantoni na evakalayo ilungile ikhuselekile kwaye ilungile.

Ngokwenyani, kukho umngcipheko wokutsha kwamalaphu nge drumping yehlombe, kodwa lelo lixabiso elincinci lokuhlawula olo lonwabo, hayi?

Ingakanani i-HIV kule meko?

Ukuba awunayo i-slip-ups-okanye i-slip-ins, kule meko-kukho umngcipheko omncinci wokudluliselwa kwe-HIV ukusuka kwi-humping eyomileyo, ngakumbi ngeempahla zakho.

Ukuhambisa i-HIV ngexesha lokuhlala, ulwelo lomzimba lweqabane eline-HIV kuya kufuneka luchukumise inwebu yangaphakathi okanye izicwili ezonakeleyo zeqabane elingenayo i-HIV.

Inwebu yangaphakathi ifunyenwe:

• ngaphakathi kwilungu lobufazi
• ukuvulwa kwelungu lobudoda
• ingcambu
• umlomo, kubandakanya imilebe
• iindinyana zempumlo

Izicubu ezonakalisiweyo zingabandakanya izilonda, ukusika, okanye amanxeba avulekileyo kulo naliphi na ilungu lomzimba wakho.

Uthini ngezinye ii-STIs?

Ewe, unokufumana ezinye ii-STIs kwi-humping eyomileyo, nazo.

Ukuqhagamshelana nolusu kulusu kungadlulisela ii-STIs njenge:

• ipapillomavirus yabantu (HPV)
• Intsholongwane ye-herpes simplex (HSV)
• itrichomoniasis (“itrich”)
• igcushuwa
• oononkala
• chancroid

Ukutshintshwa kwamanzi omzimba kunokuhambisa:

• ukuvuza ngaphantsi
• chlamydia
• I-HPV
• HSV
• itriki
• hepatitis A kunye no-B

Kuthekani ngee-STD?

Ukushiya kunganyangwa, uninzi lwe-STIs lunokuba luphawu kwaye lukhule lube sisifo- aka STD.

Ke, ewe, ukuphuhlisa i-STD kwi-humping eyomileyo kunokwenzeka.

Ngaba ikhona into onokuyenza ukunciphisa umngcipheko wokuncipha?

Ukugcina iimpahla zakho ngexesha le-smash sesh kuya kunceda. Iphelisa ukubanakho kokunxibelelana kolusu nolusu kwaye yenza umngcipheko wotshintshiselwano olunamanzi lube sezantsi.

Okwangoku, intetho kunye neqabane lakho malunga nenqanaba lakho (kunye nelabo!) Kubalulekile ngaphambi kokubandakanya naluphi na uhlobo lwezesondo.

Ngaba ikhona into onokuyenza ukuthintela ukosulela kwiqabane lakho?

Ngokuqinisekileyo!

Uya kufuna ukuthatha amanyathelo afanayo okhusela ngesondo, kwaye usebenzise iindlela zokuthintela iikhondom kunye namadama amazinyo.

Kwaye nje ukuyilungisa ekhaya: Xoxa ngemeko yakho kunye neqabane lakho ngaphambi kokuba uxakeke.

Ungenza ntoni xa ucinga ukuba uveziwe?

Ukufunyanwa kwangoko kunye nonyango kuwunciphisa kakhulu umngcipheko weengxaki kunye nokusulela amaqabane (amaqabane) wakho, ke jonga umboneleli wezempilo kuvavanyo ngokukhawuleza ukuba ucinga ukuba uveziwe okanye uneempawu.

Iimpawu ekufuneka uzijongile:

• ukukhupha ngokungaqhelekanga okanye ukopha kwilungu lobufazi, kwilungu lobudoda, okanye ezimpundu
• ukurhawuzelela okanye ukutshisa kummandla wesini
• Intlungu yesende okanye ukudumba
• ukuchama kabuhlungu
• ukopha okungaqhelekanga kwilungu lobufazi, njengamaxesha okanye emva kwesondo
• iintlobano zesini ezibuhlungu
• amaqhuma, iintsumpa, izilonda, okanye irhashalala ngaphakathi okanye kwindawo ejikeleze amalungu esini, ezimpundu, iimpundu, okanye amathanga

Olunye usulelo lunokubangela ukuba uzive ulousy kunye neempawu ezinje ngomkhuhlane, okanye ubangele ukudumba kwe-lymph node kwi-groin yakho okanye entanyeni.

I-lymph node ezandisiweyo ziyenye yeempawu zokuqala zosulelo lwe-HIV.

Ngelixa kulungile ukwazi, gcinani engqondweni ukuba ezinye izifo-ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo ngenye indlela-zinokubangela ukuba ii-lymph node zidumbe.

Ukujonga ii-STIs, umboneleli wakho wezempilo uya kuqala ngovavanyo olubonakalayo kunye nolwesandla ukujonga iimpawu zosulelo. Uvavanyo lwelabhoratri kusetyenziswa iisampulu zegazi lakho, umchamo, okanye ulwelo lungasetyenziselwa ukuqinisekisa i-STI kwaye kufunyanwe naziphi na iimali ezinokubakho.

Izifo ezahlukileyo ziyafumaneka ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo, kuxhomekeka kwixesha lokufukama. Ugqirha wakho unokucwangcisa ezinye iimvavanyo kamva.

Yintoni eyenzekayo ngokulandelayo?

Oko kuxhomekeke kwiziphumo zakho.

Iziphumo ezingalunganga

Ukuba uvavanyiwe ungenayo, uyakufuna ukuhlala ngaphezulu kokuhlolwa ngokwenza uvavanyo lwe-STI rhoqo, ngakumbi ukuba unamaqabane amatsha okanye amaninzi.

Umboneleli wakho wezempilo unokwenza uhlalutyo olwahlukileyo ngokuxhomekeke kwinqanaba lakho lomngcipheko.

Iziphumo ezilungileyo

Ukuba ngaba uvavanyo luthi unayo i-STI, uyakunikwa unyango okanye isicwangciso solawulo kuxhomekeke kwinto efunyanisiweyo.

Ezona STIs zixhaphakileyo zibangelwa ziintsholongwane kwaye kulula ukuzinyanga. Uninzi lunokunyangwa ngekhosi ye-antibiotics.

I-Antibiotics ayisebenzi kwizifo zentsholongwane. Ngelixa abanye banokucacisa ngokwabo, uninzi lweemeko zexesha elide. Amayeza e-antiviral anokulawula kwaye anciphise iimpawu, kunye nokunciphisa umngcipheko wosulelo.

Ezinye ii-STIs ezibangelwa yenye into ngaphandle kweentsholongwane okanye ii-virus, ezinje ngoononkala, ziyanyangeka kusetyenziswa amayeza omlomo okanye asemxholweni.

Umboneleli wakho wokhathalelo lwempilo unokucebisa ukuba uphinde uphononongwe ukuqinisekisa ukuba unyango luyasebenza kwaye ujonge ukosuleleka kwakhona.

Uthini umgca osezantsi?

I-humping eyomileyo ikhuselekile, ngakumbi ukuba ugcina into ethile phakathi kwakho kunye nomhlobo wakho wokurabha, kodwa ayinabungozi ngokupheleleyo. Ii-STIs zinokwenzeka, ngenxa yoko unoxanduva.

U-Adrienne Santos-Longhurst ngumbhali ozimeleyo kunye nombhali obhale ngokubanzi kuzo zonke izinto zempilo kunye nendlela yokuphila ngaphezulu kweshumi leminyaka. Xa engafakwanga kwindawo yakhe yokubhala ephanda inqaku okanye esenza udliwanondlebe neengcali zempilo, unokufunyanwa edlala ejikeleze idolophu yaselunxwemeni kunye nomyeni kunye nezinja kwi-tow okanye ngokutshiza malunga nechibi elizama ukulawula ibhodi yokuma.