Ukuthintitha kwabantwana: indlela yokuchonga nokunyanga

Umxholo

• Indlela yokuchonga
• Kutheni isenzeka?
• Unyango kufuneka lube njani unyango lokuthintitha ebuntwaneni

Ukuthintitha kwabantwana kunokuqatshelwa phakathi kweminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwemi-3, ehambelana nexesha lokukhula kwentetho, ngokuvela kweempawu ezithile ezinje ngobunzima bokugqibezela igama nokwandisa iisilabhili, umzekelo.

Uninzi lwexesha, umntu othintithayo uyanyamalala njengoko umntwana ekhula kwaye nentetho ikhula, nangona kunjalo kwezinye iimeko inokuhlala kwaye iye isiba mandundu ngokuhamba kwexesha, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana ngamaxesha athile aye kwincutshe yokuthetha ukuze enze imithambo eyenziweyo ukukhuthaza intetho.

Indlela yokuchonga

Iimpawu zokuqala zokuthintitha zinokubonakala phakathi kweminyaka emibini ukuya kwemithathu ubudala, kuba ngeli xesha umntwana aqala ukuba nentetho. Yiyo loo nto abazali benokuqalisa ukuthintela ukuthintitha xa umntwana eqala ukwandisa izandi, xa izandi zesilayidi ziphindaphindwa okanye xa kukho ukubhloka xa kuthethwa isilabhasi ethile. Ukongeza, kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana abanengxaki yokuthintitha ukuba nabo banentshukumo enxulumene nentetho, njengokufixiza, umzekelo.

Ukongeza, kunokuhlala kuqondwa ukuba nokuba umntwana unqwenela ukuthetha, akanako ukugqibezela isivakalisi okanye igama ngokukhawuleza ngenxa yokuvela kwentshukumo yokungazibandakanyi okanye yokumisa okungalindelekanga embindini wentetho.

Kutheni isenzeka?

Isizathu sokuthintitha asikaziwa, kodwa kukholelwa ukuba kungenxa yemfuza okanye inokuba inxulumene notshintsho kwinkqubo yeemvakalelo ngenxa yokungakhuli kwezinye iindawo zobuchopho ezinxulumene nokunxibelelana kwentetho.

Ukongeza, ukuthintitha kusenokubangelwa kukungakhuli kakuhle kwezihlunu ezinxulumene nentetho, okanye ngenxa yeemvakalelo, ezithi, xa ziphathwe kakuhle, zibangele ukuba ukuthintitha kungabikho okanye kungabinamandla kunye nefuthe kubomi bomntwana. Funda ngakumbi malunga noonobangela bokuthintitha.

Nangona iintloni, unxunguphalo kunye novalo zihlala zithathwa njengezizathu zokuthintitha, zisisiphumo, kuba umntwana uqala ukungaziva ekhululekile ukuthetha, kwaye kunokubangela ukwahlulwa ekuhlaleni, umzekelo.

Unyango kufuneka lube njani unyango lokuthintitha ebuntwaneni

Ukuthintitha ebuntwaneni kuyanyangeka okoko nje ichongiwe kwangoko kwaye unyango lwentetho luqala kungekudala. Ngokwenqanaba lokuthintelwa komntwana, ingcali yokuthetha ingabonisa ezinye iindlela zokuphucula unxibelelwano lomntwana, ukongeza ekunikezeleni isikhokelo kubazali, njenge:

• Musa ukumphazamisa umntwana xa ethetha;
• Musa ukumthintela umntu othintithayo okanye ubize umntwana ngokuba ngumntu othintithayo;
• Mjonge emehlweni umntwana;
• Ukumamela umntwana ngononophelo;
• Zama ukuthetha kancinci kancinci emntwaneni.

Nangona ingcali yokuthetha ibalulekile, abazali banendima ebaluleke kakhulu ekuphuculeni ukuthintitha komntwana kunye nokudityaniswa kwentlalo, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba bakhuthaze umntwana ukuba athethe kwaye athethe kancinci nomntwana, esebenzisa amagama namabinzana alula.