Uyenza njani iNyathelo leNtsana kwindlela yakho ukuya kwiNjongo eNkulu

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Unawo umzuzu? Kuthekani ngemizuzu eyi-15? Ukuba uyakwenza oko, uya kuba nalo lonke ixesha olifunayo ukuze uphumeze into enkulu kakhulu.

Thatha, umzekelo, umhlobo wam osandula ukubeleka umntwana wakhe wesihlanu kwaye naye unomsebenzi osisigxina. Ukuthi uxakekile yinto engaphantsi kwale nkulungwane. Kodwa nakumntu oxakeke njengaye, ukufikelela usukelo lobomi akunakwenzeka. Kudala ebuyile wayenoluvo olukhulu ngenoveli yabantu abadala, kodwa wayityhala injongo yakhe yokuyibhalela isitshisi esingasemva ngenxa yalo lonke olunye uxanduva awayenalo ebomini bakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo wayengenaxesha lokubhala incwadi. Kodwa ke ndambuza oku: Ngaba unalo ixesha lokubhala iphepha? Uninzi lweencwadana ezindala zabantu abadala zingaphantsi kwamaphepha angama-365. Ukuba umhlobo wam ebenokubhala iphepha elinye ngosuku, ebeya kugqiba kwisithuba esingaphantsi konyaka.

Ukwahlula usukelo olukhulu lube luncinci, kulula ukulufeza kwenza into ebonakala ingenakwenzeka, inokwenzeka. Isithandi sobulumko saseTshayina uLau-tzu wathi, "Uhambo lweekhilomitha eziliwaka luqala ngenyathelo elinye." Oku kuyinyani-kodwa ukuze uhambe loo mawaka eekhilomitha, kuya kufuneka uqhubeke uhamba yonke imihla. Okukhona iinzame zakho zingaguquguquki, ngokukhawuleza uza kufika kwindawo oya kuyo. Nazi iingcebiso ezintathu zokukunceda ukuba uqalise kuhambo lwakho.

1. Yiba nethuba. Ndizisa ilaptop yam kwindawo yokuqeshwa ngugqirha nakwindlela abantwana bam abenza ngayo ezemidlalo, ukujika into ebikade ilahlekile ilinde ixesha elichithwe besebenza ukufeza iinjongo.

2. Ukubhiyozela iziganeko ezibalulekileyo. Musa ukulinda ude ufikelele kwiinjongo zakho zokukhupha i-champagne. Bhiyozela impumelelo encinci apha endleleni. Ukuba uqeqeshelwa umdyarho weembaleki, cinga ngokuzivuza ngazo zonke iikhilomitha ezintlanu onakho ukuzongeza kwimbaleki yakho. Iya kukunika ukuzithemba oya kuyidinga ukuze uhlale ekhosini.

3. Umonde luphawu oluhle. IRoma ayakhiwanga ngosuku, abantu abafundi itango okanye ukudlala ipiyano kwisifundo esinye, kwaye akukho mntu ubhala incwadi ngexesha elinye. Iindaba ezimnandi kukuba akukho mda wexesha kumaphupha. Okoko nje usenza into ngokungaguqukiyo-nokuba yinto encinci-uya kuyifeza injongo yakho ekugqibeleni.

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